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Bizzysback 63F
1032 posts
1/17/2014 4:27 am
online lover?


Someone: “Do you want an online lover?”

Me: “ What!? The hell NO!”

What has this world gone to? Really, asking someone you just met to be an online lover? I am not that naive I know what he meant but I may be wrong. On second thought I should have asked him what he meant by online lover because it’s not in the dictionary. I can express my feelings online to the person I love like in the old days where you send letters, cards or talk on the phone. Is that the same thing? Shish I should have asked him. I will if he talks to me again. He was not Filipino as you probably have guessed.

Other questions I get like "are you single and looking?" or someone says "I am looking for a soul mate are you available?". It's like they are asking for volunteers and expect someone to come forward and raise their hand. Others are like looking for blood donors, "I need someone in my life" any type ab please fill in the screening form. Of course they can't be serious or are they? If they are, they obviously do not know the Filipino way of courtship or if they are Filipino they must have forgotten. Or is it just me? What is your view on this? How do you reply to such questions? Has any Man here been asked same sort of question by women?



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Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
1/17/2014 1:55 pm

    Quoting  :

I think this is the first time I read that you are joking and its funny I said he is not pinoy and I assume you are pinoy.
I don't know that's why I ask.

“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”


Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
1/17/2014 2:05 pm

    Quoting  :

Thanks Iris. I think it is also cultural thing, at least the culture that I know of. I know Filipino men who are serious with a woman will not ask a woman that way.
Regards,
Che

“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”


zb1020 66F
102 posts
1/17/2014 5:35 pm

sayang di mo sya tanong what he meant exactly ...

hays look ko muna sa google kc di ko rin alam yon..


Bizzysback 63F
990 posts
3/3/2014 6:08 pm

    Quoting  :

Really? I can't relate to these women they probably have their reasons but sorry not for me for whatever reason.

“Use the quotation for the occasion; do not make an occasion for the quotation.”