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1/18/2013 5:29 am |
Grace, there is no such thing as 100% security in relationship and everything that we hold in this life...SOmetimes, even with ourselves, we don't feel totally secure of who and what we are. But one thing for sure, it's good to be CONFIDENT, because, to me, that is next thing to SECURITY... Just call me ELZ 
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1/18/2013 5:31 am |
I'd say, it's good to trust our loved ones, and our partners, but SAVE some of that distrust (at least 10 , so that you can brace yourself to the future unknown.Just call me ELZ
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1/18/2013 5:31 am |
That should be 10 percent, but the smiley appeared as it is right up there.. Just call me ELZ
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1/18/2013 5:37 am |
Following up what is said. Not just empty talking.   within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.
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Gracey dear, Insecurity, jealousy, misunderstanding - these are all poison for a good relationship. Though they come with Love - which is a relative term, we can always moderate them for balance.. You can never be sure for any success in a relationship but always you can give your best. Happy Weekend sistah 
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1/18/2013 11:40 am |
Joseph I know... like jealousy, how many unnecessary arguments happens just because of insecurity, sometimes the "fear" is only in the mind and don`t really exist...
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1/18/2013 11:55 am |
Ate, no self blaming, we all meet the wrong guys along the way While I agree with you that nothing is smooth sailing, people react in different ways, hence accdg. to level of maturity but at least we can control our own reactions towards situations...
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1/18/2013 12:04 pm |
Grace, there is no such thing as 100% security in relationship and everything that we hold in this life...SOmetimes, even with ourselves, we don't feel totally secure of who and what we are. But one thing for sure, it's good to be CONFIDENT, because, to me, that is next thing to SECURITY... And I fully agree with you that Confidence is necessary and we should continually assure or remind ourself whenever insecurity strikes...
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1/18/2013 12:14 pm |
I'd say, it's good to trust our loved ones, and our partners, but SAVE some of that distrust (at least 10 , so that you can brace yourself to the future unknown.don`t get me wrong but I`m happy whenever I hear successful stories of our friends here, it is just the realization is so schmal or thin....
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1/18/2013 12:17 pm |
That should be 10 percent, but the smiley appeared as it is right up there.. don`t forget, I`m a chatter, use to typos! 
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1/18/2013 12:22 pm |
Following up what is said. Not just empty talking. ...sometimes hard to make blog when you dig some from experience..as you open up a bit of yourself...and not just all bluffing
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1/18/2013 12:30 pm |
Gracey dear, Insecurity, jealousy, misunderstanding - these are all poison for a good relationship. Though they come with Love - which is a relative term, we can always moderate them for balance.. You can never be sure for any success in a relationship but always you can give your best. Happy Weekend sistah  Exactly my point sis., those negative emotions can bring into control when we handle it rightly,... nothing bad to feel those emotions as we are just beautiful humans, lol.... You too, enjoy weekend and celeb. with friends  
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1/18/2013 12:33 pm |
Cuz, okey good to know...we`re really cuz not a problem here either...so far so good
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1/18/2013 12:34 pm |
That is good to know cuz ...great self assurance
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1/18/2013 12:43 pm |
Hmm , charity love? are you sure no security or dividends due? waaa, I`m out of the topic
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Gracey, i thought he was sent from God. Not, he was the wrong man. yes, being positive and confidence is what attracts. than being negative, etc. Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...
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1/18/2013 5:07 pm |
We all need security- somewhere or someone to turn to when things get rough. when you know that your relationship with your man is grounded enough that you can turn to your partner in those difficult times and you feel safe and comforted , oh that means a lot to me in terms of security.
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1/20/2013 12:24 pm |
Gracey, i thought he was sent from God. Not, he was the wrong man. yes, being positive and confidence is what attracts. than being negative, etc.  
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1/20/2013 12:35 pm |
We all need security- somewhere or someone to turn to when things get rough. when you know that your relationship with your man is grounded enough that you can turn to your partner in those difficult times and you feel safe and comforted , oh that means a lot to me in terms of security.
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1/20/2013 12:41 pm |
Cuz, true so we should be ready for constant change and if possible keep an open mind, not in a compromising way but at least receptive to new things that will benefit both...
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1/20/2013 1:04 pm |
Abc, thanks sis. for the additional input..Hmm, sex is part and parcel of a pie, an addition to the delight I would say but but it`s not everything for a lasting relationship. If you don`t have oneness in heart and mind, no matter how good she or he is in bed, you will also loose the appetite in the long run so not a guarantee...pls. don`t get me wrong, I am not as cold as ice woman either but I know what I`m talking about .... and I agree jealousy is another: how many relationships were broken bec. of those suspicions created in the mind? Too much jealousy is a sign of insecurity though slight of it is okey and healthy, if controlled Ty for dropby sis, take care!
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