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what`s your opinion?  Hmm found this in f/b, seem to be true so feel like sharing again... |
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lolzzzzz...i thought you're asking for opinions about Johnny Depp... smilerz is right...it depends on the situation...but if you really love both, that would be a hard choice...i would say, other factors would come in besides love...after all, a relationship is not based on love alone...  awwwwwww...so many men, so little time!... 
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That's easy. Just choose me I'm a senior citizen . Don't expect me to remember anything
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lolzzzz...chillax!... i think he did not really formulated a definite opinion but was asking under what premise was the statement in the blog made...then, he proceeded to give an example, that maybe the choice was made based on who can give more...he said love is not that simple, that one can simply choose the second over the first...
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4/7/2012 11:18 am |
I find it hard enough to have one, how much more to fall in love with two?  Just call me ELZ 
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Grace, I wanted to blog about this since seeing at FB. It holds true though coming from Johnny Depp. Because if truly you loved the first person, why fall in love with this second person??? Temptation. The value of the relationship no matter who gave more or less. It comes down to love... Happy Easter!!!  Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...
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4/7/2012 1:17 pm |
Mindy, of course, we love one ..at a time
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4/7/2012 1:32 pm |
Suchislife, I think Johnny Depp is talking about the pure form of love here, not only about s3x matters . While it`s true that temptation is everywhere, if you`re really focus and satisfied with the relationship, you`ll never seek for another so I tend to agree with his statement.Thanks for your contribution...your straight talk is appreciated
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4/7/2012 1:45 pm |
lolzzzzz...i thought you're asking for opinions about Johnny Depp... smilerz is right...it depends on the situation...but if you really love both, that would be a hard choice...i would say, other factors would come in besides love...after all, a relationship is not based on love alone... awwwwwww...so many men, so little time!... I am not a big fan of J. Depp but I admit, I watched his pirate movies. Personally I never been into this kind of situation as I also love one at a time, lolz Hmm, maybe I´m too idealist sis. but for me love is the basis of all relationship, no love, no trust, no relationship, my personal opinion or did I misunderstood your post  , care to elaborate further?
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4/7/2012 2:02 pm |
Tajane, yes unfortunately there are people, so greedy enough that they just "enjoy" this kind of set up in the name(game) of love. I have an friend whose very much involved with a married guy, she knows the fact, but she can`t just let him go  She`s not ugly either but I find it hard to understand why is she holding on too much with that guy. Everytime she calls me and vent, she sobs in between as she`s not the only "other woman". Well, I told her the consequences and gave her my advises...she would only answer me "I know...but I`m not as strong as you" makes my heart sad but eventually it`s her own life.. 
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4/7/2012 2:11 pm |
threesome, hmm, are you talking about s3ks?
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4/7/2012 2:12 pm |
That's easy. Just choose me 
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4/7/2012 2:16 pm |
I find it hard enough to have one, how much more to fall in love with two?
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4/7/2012 2:23 pm |
Grace, I wanted to blog about this since seeing at FB. It holds true though coming from Johnny Depp. Because if truly you loved the first person, why fall in love with this second person??? Temptation. The value of the relationship no matter who gave more or less. It comes down to love... Happy Easter!!!  , Indeed, I fully agree with you sis. If the first is valuable enough, why take risk with the second? Happy Easter too Tess! 
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Sis Luv, I am not a big fan of J. Depp but I admit, I watched his pirate movies. Personally I never been into this kind of situation as I also love one at a time, lolz Hmm, maybe I´m too idealist sis. but for me love is the basis of all relationship, no love, no trust, no relationship, my personal opinion or did I misunderstood your post , care to elaborate further? "if you love two people at the same time, choose the second one"...the first phrase about loving is all about feelings...the feeling of being in love...when you fall in love, you do so by chance...it is a spontaneous experience, that's why it's called "falling in love"...the second phrase is about having a relationship...you do so by choice, that's why it says "choose"...after some time the euphoria of love fades...you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller subsequent stage...it's the natural cycle of every relationship...when the kind of love you once had can't sustain the relationship anymore, you begin to look for fulfillment outside of the relationship...you may find that fulfillment in your work, hobby, friendship, vices, or you may begin to desire that experience with someone else...that's when the danger of falling in love with another comes in...now, you have a dilemma, which one would you choose?...that's when other factors would come in...maybe you would consider the years you've been with the first, or who can give you more in terms of material things, or who is better in bed, etc. etc. etc... that's why i said a relationship is not based on love alone...it is not solely based on an emotional kind of love that can come and go...by chance you fall in love with a vagabond, but you know you can't start a family with that person, would you choose to have a relationship with that person?...maybe you would but chances are you won't...so you suppress the feeling of love and wait till you fall in love with the right person... a relationship is a DECISION...it is not a feeling...
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i must be greedy...i'm capable of loving two or more persons at the same time (and i'm not talking about sex)...as i said, love is a feeling, an emotion...it's the same as i can be angry with two or more persons at the same time... love and relationship are two different things...let's not mix it up... that's when i can say i can only have one relationship with a person i love at one time...
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4/7/2012 10:41 pm |
sure my dear...i would expound on my comment...this is just one scenario and not necessarily the same for everyone... "if you love two people at the same time, choose the second one"...the first phrase about loving is all about feelings...the feeling of being in love...when you fall in love, you do so by chance...it is a spontaneous experience, that's why it's called "falling in love"...the second phrase is about having a relationship...you do so by choice, that's why it says "choose"...after some time the euphoria of love fades...you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller subsequent stage...it's the natural cycle of every relationship...when the kind of love you once had can't sustain the relationship anymore, you begin to look for fulfillment outside of the relationship...you may find that fulfillment in your work, hobby, friendship, vices, or you may begin to desire that experience with someone else...that's when the danger of falling in love with another comes in...now, you have a dilemma, which one would you choose?...that's when other factors would come in...maybe you would consider the years you've been with the first, or who can give you more in terms of material things, or who is better in bed, etc. etc. etc... that's why i said a relationship is not based on love alone...it is not solely based on an emotional kind of love that can come and go...by chance you fall in love with a vagabond, but you know you can't start a family with that person, would you choose to have a relationship with that person?...maybe you would but chances are you won't...so you suppress the feeling of love and wait till you fall in love with the right person... a relationship is a DECISION...it is not a feeling... I agree that relationship is a decision, it`s a choice to stay...(as long as the feeling is there otherwise, it`s a suffering)
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4/7/2012 10:45 pm |
Naaa, Charlie one thingy`s already a problem, why create dilemma?
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4/8/2012 11:31 am |
step in me? thought you prefer me on top? don`t wish, do it!..
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4/9/2012 4:28 pm |
Johhny Depp isn't bad. More appealing to me than Brad Pitt. Ah opinion on his comment. Sorry none. Brainless at this point.    within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.
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