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3/12/2012 3:31 pm |
No wonder, I am not into a "relationship"...lolz... Just call me ELZ 
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Grace, I'm so naive and trusting all the time. Coz i believe and give a chance that there's is this goodness in everyone.  Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...
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3/13/2012 2:27 am |
No wonder, I am not into a "relationship"...lolz...  , experience wise...that made you contented for a time being  , so who knows along the way? 
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3/13/2012 2:39 am |
Grace, I'm so naive and trusting all the time. Coz i believe and give a chance that there's is this goodness in everyone. I also believe that there is goodness in everyone and some are lucky enough to find the same person  but other times we have to draw the line.... with my last relationship t`was all out, I trusted him a lot, did almost everything for him... he`s kinda spoiled of me but then I realized this won`t work out if no (trust)effort returned... I still believe in two way street for a last long relationship
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3/13/2012 2:54 am |
Exactly my point Charlie...I have a very good friend and we make sure that we`ll be honest and direct to each other....some people tell this and tell that to me or even against him...thinking they know him better than me and I don`t know anything about him  but we just laugh about it, bec. I know him and told me everything even before this people bash about him and the trust is mutual and so the more I appreciate our friendship
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3/13/2012 3:04 am |
Sis loner, I understand...it takes time to trust again or rebuild the trust...just hope you don`t get bitter with the help of our friends. I`m sure you come up above that once you find the right person take care sis. Grace
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3/13/2012 3:10 am |
Mindy, Still sis., you have this positive outlook  it doesn`t show that your paranoid....yes, I fully agree sis.- most of the time gut feeling never disappoint us ""and if it's the other way around...just walk away rene""
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3/13/2012 3:20 am |
Racqz, I like what you said sis.  ..indeed, love and trust are gained thru integrity and over time thanks for the input sis.I still prefer the banana over rocky road ice cream though
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3/13/2012 3:27 am |
Cuzz it`s true, sometimes the emotion is overwhelming that you don´t see those "pitholes"...it takes 6 mos. to 2 years to get out of that infatuation stage and funny is after that stage was over, you`ll just laugh how silly you were at the time being But it`s great to have good friends who are not afraid to show you the other side of that "man in the mirror" 
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3/13/2012 4:45 am |
If there's lack of trust and no trust, I wouldn't be in any relationship either. It takes a long time to earn someone else's trust. It works both ways when both have been scarred in some way. Lack of trust results in a lot of nagging and endless rowing. Some couples are able somehow to cope and ride on a hellish type of relationship. It's toxic and unhealthy for their well-being, full of stress and anxieties. When it comes to the beginning of a relationship I was naive and innocent of it all, but then I learnt slowly about how people cannot always be so easily trusted. Eventually I gained this gut feeling that certain people couldn't be trusted, but had no evidence to prove it. One day came were I found out for sure that the gut feeling was unfortunately true. I tend to give a benefit of a doubt until someone does something otherwise to break the trust. I'm less trusting than I used to be. Experience taught me to be wary. But there's a case where a dear person earnt my trust after a period of guarding my wall. Now it feels wonderful not have to worry much about what he does when I'm not around. I can be more carefree. He need not worry either.    within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.
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Gracey dear, If you can't trust a person, you can't love that person..Trust and Love is complimentary and symmetrical..However you love so much is however you trust so much. You lose one, you gradually lose both.. Hi sis
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3/15/2012 1:25 am |
If there's lack of trust and no trust, I wouldn't be in any relationship either. It takes a long time to earn someone else's trust. It works both ways when both have been scarred in some way.Lack of trust results in a lot of nagging and endless rowing. Some couples are able somehow to cope and ride on a hellish type of relationship. It's toxic and unhealthy for their well-being, full of stress and anxieties. When it comes to the beginning of a relationship I was naive and innocent of it all, but then I learnt slowly about how people cannot always be so easily trusted. Eventually I gained this gut feeling that certain people couldn't be trusted, but had no evidence to prove it. One day came were I found out for sure that the gut feeling was unfortunately true. I tend to give a benefit of a doubt until someone does something otherwise to break the trust. I'm less trusting than I used to be. Experience taught me to be wary. But there's a case where a dear person earnt my trust after a period of guarding my wall. Now it feels wonderful not have to worry much about what he does when I'm not around. I can be more carefree. He need not worry either. I`m glad we think the same...been thru that, out of shallow reasons a never ending arguments like hell just because both partners don`t trust each other anymore...and so I decided to save myself and end up this toxic entering my body... Good for you sis., to come out from that guarded walls and be carefree with this someone who deserve your love Tc always. Gracey
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3/15/2012 1:32 am |
Desertshore4, sorry to hear that, I just couldn`t separate the two and so hard for me to imagine loving someone without trusting as they go hand in hand..I wish you find at least a good friend who will come up to that trusting level, it feels so wonderful to have one thanks for dropping by, your input is also appreciated Grace
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3/15/2012 1:40 am |
Well Tajane, Some guys have difficulty saying the word "I love you" but actions speak louder than words though as they say...on the other hand, if you hear that word often and the action is betraying him, I´d rather not to hear him say it to me ....hmm Tajane, maybe it`s worth waiting so until then, be patient and enjoy the actions )
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3/15/2012 1:43 am |
Yes, Tajane, I fully agree with you we are one on these )
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3/15/2012 1:46 am |
Gracey dear, If you can't trust a person, you can't love that person..Trust and Love is complimentary and symmetrical..However you love so much is however you trust so much. You lose one, you gradually lose both.. Hi sis
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I'm glad to be back Gracey dear though I never leave blogland in spirit - ever!!
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3/22/2012 3:38 am |
I come back here.yesterday, i searched for your blogs bacause i am not find it. i am used to use the this site yet. anyway,hahaha i am reading your blogs one by one. trust.... i am sorry that i haven't trusted myself. i think i seem to have a weak-minded person. i was about to set off the voyage. i'd like to read a lot of good blogs. i'd like to read the good sentences like your blogs. thank you and that you find my blog interesting take care
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