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ajaw430 54F
4341 posts
1/13/2012 6:52 am
Remembering Jan. 13...



I had a picture of my mom where she was cuddling my eldest niece when she was a little baby. Who would think that when this little girl turned 18, her grandma will pass away.

Today is my mother`s death anniversary.

And today is my mother in law`s 64th birthday.


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
1/13/2012 9:29 am

Grace,

May your mom rest in peace. Happy birthday to your mom in law. Today is one of the sweetest lady that treated me like her daughter she's 85yrs old today. Orlando Bloom too his bday today.

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


ajaw430 54F

1/13/2012 11:27 am

Tess thanks, been long while,....took me two years to get healed. I`ll never forget her voice, her love and the fellowship I spent with her during my childhood days, it`s all at the back of my mind. I could say until now she`s the source of my strength.

on the other hand, it`s the birth of another mom...inspite the failure of my relationship with her son, she`s alwqays there for me, giving moral support and advises...

that`s great Tess, old ladies are full of wisdom. I remember one experience when I was new here in Germany. I got befriended with an 82 year old lady, she still drives car that time and we visited "home for the aged" giving sweets and spending quality time with them, they were happy whenever they see me, guess bec. my skin color is different from them...

Happy birthday to Orlando as well


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
1/13/2012 3:30 pm

    Quoting ajaw430:
    Tess thanks, been long while,....took me two years to get healed. I`ll never forget her voice, her love and the fellowship I spent with her during my childhood days, it`s all at the back of my mind. I could say until now she`s the source of my strength.

    on the other hand, it`s the birth of another mom...inspite the failure of my relationship with her son, she`s alwqays there for me, giving moral support and advises...

    that`s great Tess, old ladies are full of wisdom. I remember one experience when I was new here in Germany. I got befriended with an 82 year old lady, she still drives car that time and we visited "home for the aged" giving sweets and spending quality time with them, they were happy whenever they see me, guess bec. my skin color is different from them...

    Happy birthday to Orlando as well
Grace,

I know in my case any loss from relatives. My lolo dying i was in shock for years, and when my father in law died. To my dogs that died. The pain was so much. Then hubby and lovers come and go. I've just about retired for good now. The heartache cannot bear to live thru again...

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


casper97 44M

1/13/2012 3:45 pm

Rest in peace with Him to your mother......... ajaw and Happy birthday to your mother in law...


ajaw430 54F

1/13/2012 10:45 pm

    Quoting casper97:
    Rest in peace with Him to your mother......... ajaw and Happy birthday to your mother in law...
bro. casper, thanks


ajaw430 54F

1/13/2012 10:49 pm

    Quoting  :

okey, I will listen, thanks! I am sure it`s a nice one

Yes, the more I appreciate what I have now that I`m a mom myself. You seem to have a great relationship with your mom too, you`re very sweet Kim. Have a great weekend my cute sis.


ajaw430 54F

1/13/2012 10:55 pm

    Quoting  :

alice awww, so sweet! thanks sis happy weekend!


eb1209

1/14/2012 3:01 am

Hmm? Isn't that symbolic? That when someone dies, someone is born on that same day, as well... It's really hard to lose someone we love, Grace, but life is such, that sometimes, it's better to leave this world in peace, than to live its present miseries...She's spared. And hopefully, your mother in law is no not a pain in your behind...

Just call me ELZ


theta2011 53F
1917 posts
1/14/2012 6:48 am

Gracey,

The balance of life. Our loss. Our gain. Accepting true facts however painful like the death of someone we hold dear to our heart, all things come to pass. We can be thankful for the time loved, spent and enjoyed together.

And life will come full circle till our time to follow. And a new born baby lives.

I've written about "Celebration of life and death" after my father died, guess I have to look for it and post. Thank you sis for the inspiration.


ajaw430 54F

1/14/2012 12:23 pm

    Quoting eb1209:
    Hmm? Isn't that symbolic? That when someone dies, someone is born on that same day, as well... It's really hard to lose someone we love, Grace, but life is such, that sometimes, it's better to leave this world in peace, than to live its present miseries...She's spared. And hopefully, your mother in law is no not a pain in your behind...
Elz, while it`s true she gives me her moral support, sometimes she exceeds her limitation. I can`t change her, it`s her personality so to avoid conflict, sige na lang, labas sa kabilang tenga minsan


ajaw430 54F

1/14/2012 12:33 pm

    Quoting TessRb:
    Grace,

    I know in my case any loss from relatives. My lolo dying i was in shock for years, and when my father in law died. To my dogs that died. The pain was so much. Then hubby and lovers come and go. I've just about retired for good now. The heartache cannot bear to live thru again...
Tess, you remind me of this bible phrase from Isa. 40:30-31, it helps me a lot

"Even youths grow tired and weary,
and young men stumble and fall;
but those who hope in the Lord
will renew their strength.
They will soar on wings like eagles;
they will run and not grow weary,
they will walk and not be faint.""


ajaw430 54F

1/14/2012 12:46 pm

    Quoting theta2011:
    Gracey,

    The balance of life. Our loss. Our gain. Accepting true facts however painful like the death of someone we hold dear to our heart, all things come to pass. We can be thankful for the time loved, spent and enjoyed together.

    And life will come full circle till our time to follow. And a new born baby lives.

    I've written about "Celebration of life and death" after my father died, guess I have to look for it and post. Thank you sis for the inspiration.
Indeed Theta, part of living is dying...what will remain is the good old memories of our loved ones ,an inspiration too to keep us going no matter what

Likewise sis. thanks for being a part of my world


ajaw430 54F

1/14/2012 9:23 pm

    Quoting  :

Leo...thanks I know my mom is in much better place and someday, I will see her again Take care my friend and have a great weekend.Grace


ajaw430 54F

1/15/2012 8:39 am

    Quoting  :

hey smilerz,

thanks sis. how have you been? good to see you around again, you keep the elr livelier and funny have a great weekend and tc

Grace