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Blogs > ajaw430 > My Thoughts of You


ajaw430 54F
4341 posts
1/11/2012 7:40 am
Difference of Bestfriend from Lover...


Love is a natural feeling and we may fall in love with anyone. Love is the most exquisite gift of God. He has sent a boon from Heaven so we could enjoy the charm of love the way we want to enjoy it. It is like caring for somebody else unconditionally. Love wants love as love's reward but it never asks for it, it is freely given.
A lover is happy in the happiness of his beloved .

On the other hand, friendship is about developing close acquaintances with somebody else. We may find a number of people daily but we make friends very keenly. Not all of them are our friends. A friend is a person who knows what we want and knows us the way we know ourselves. A friend is someone who knows all about you and still loves you. A true friend is a relaxation for the whole life.

Friendship can be changed into love but love can never be changed into friendship. A best friend is the one who tries to solve your problem and a lover is the one with whom those problems are mostly associated with.

One big difference of lover from bestfriend is that you can tell everything to your bestfriend but you keep secrets to your lover. A bestfriend can be your lover in some later stage but seldom can your lover be your bestfriend . What do you think?

eb1209

1/11/2012 12:56 pm

 hmmm? some eyebrows might be raised... but all I CANNOT be friends anymore with EX lovers wo broke my heart or to someone I no longer love we may be civil acquaintances but not real friends
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

1/11/2012 12:58 pm

 who...
Just call me ELZ


casper97 44M

1/11/2012 2:07 pm

 Fully agree with you my bff


ajaw430 54F

1/12/2012 3:39 am
    Quoting eb1209:
    hmmm? some eyebrows might be raised... but all I CANNOT be friends anymore with EX lovers wo broke my heart or to someone I no longer love we may be civil acquaintances but not real friends
Elz, this is what I`ve been saying, hard to maintain friendship when the relationship don`t worked so I`m drawing the line... is it really worth the risk? hmm


ajaw430 54F

1/12/2012 3:56 am
    Quoting casper97:
    Fully agree with you my bff
casper, thanks bff, you`re one of my blessing here in fff

remember the first time we had misunderstanding? after that, we became closer...so pls. continue...not the fight but being a good friend hugs, your Grace


ajaw430 54F

1/12/2012 3:59 am
    Quoting  :
alice, very true sis. you`re one of my friend here now and I look forward to see you in real...we`ll have a great coffee together


ajaw430 54F

1/12/2012 4:02 am
    Quoting  :
Sulei, I know!


theta2011 53F
1917 posts
1/13/2012 7:27 am

 Gracey,

You can be a lousy friend but still a friend at the end of the day.

When you become a lousy lover, your partner'll wish the end of the night..

Let's put some significance in the "X" , it should be REPLACED!!!




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