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I DON'T LIVE THERE ANYMORE... I had an interesting exchange of emails from a female member here. Re: About the men (actually there's just 2, well err 3 and that includes my xhubby)) in my blogs. According to her, she's writing a book and my love stories took her fancy. I will categorize them as great, huge, and big love. 1. My great love is my xhubby. You don't spent 20 yrs together if not for that immense love. And you can't easily forget after the separation. It takes time to get it over your system, extensive healing period for the heart to heal. But does it heal? Perhaps in a way like deep wounds drying up outside but still fresh in the inside. A little nudge will hurt. 2. I had a huge crush on my 'margarita guy' the first time I saw him eventually turned to huge love. But came with it a colossal presentiment that: Here is a young man, gorgeous, hunk (I cant use the word 'virile'  ), with a steady job, single and available, in short - good catch. What's there not to like? The 'anathema' word 'to start a family' meaning to have /s. Holy Chili! I'm already past my 'conceive' stage. Motherhood? Na ah.. More on the grandmotherhood  3. 'P' is my big love. We started small, friends, travel mates until we crossed the barrier of friendship and love. The friendship became big along with the mutual feelings. From clandestine, he professed love overtly. A big undertaking for a man in his status. And that endeared me so to him. But like the foreboding of Solomon's proverb "Like a bird wandering from the nest, so is a man wandering from his home." At the end of the day, they will both look for their nest and come to rest  And then my friend (she is, already) asked of the possibility of getting back together. For the 3 of them, this I said, 'Let sleeping dogs lie.' I have a short selective amnesia  . I forgot the past easily but time to time, bits of beautiful memories drifted by. Let them remain that way in my mind, and I, in them. 
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Sis, What a beautiful love story all rolled into one. It's true x-hubby no matter how they treated u horribly in the full impact of marriage. Time will always remember the good reminincing. And the love that came after. Where they only want to be friends no commitments. That's in my case. When finally wondering is this real turned out to be fake... Happy sunday  Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...
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One nice thing about you writing blogs is I get to know you better. And aside I get to read a well written blog. Just sorry I didn't get to be one of those men  I'm a senior citizen . Don't expect me to remember anything
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1/27/2013 3:12 pm |
Home is where the heart is. There's time for another love to settle down and move into.   within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.
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1/28/2013 4:17 am |
Thet, each one of us has a love story(ies) to tell, and it's good to know that inspite and despite of, we are sane enough to share them. It's never easy to lose someone who've become a major part of your life. There will always be good memories to linger on, but the good part is, no matter what happened, we've moved on. Yes, we do have scars from the wounds inflicted to us by those experiences, but still: "IT IS BETTER TO HAVE LOVED and LOST, THAN NEVER TO HAVE LOVED AT ALL". Just call me ELZ 
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Sis, What a beautiful love story all rolled into one. It's true x-hubby no matter how they treated u horribly in the full impact of marriage. Time will always remember the good reminincing. And the love that came after. Where they only want to be friends no commitments. That's in my case. When finally wondering is this real turned out to be fake... Happy sunday Yes, they're all beautiful love stories but they lived in my past. I can only say thanks for the good memories for each and every one of them. If by chance, I meet any or every one of them in the future - all I'm asking is a friendship borne of the shadow of the love that was.
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One nice thing about you writing blogs is I get to know you better. And aside I get to read a well written blog. Just sorry I didn't get to be one of those men Thank you as always for seeing the beauty within my blogs and beyond my person. From a wise man such as you, its all high praises. I write to vent out frustrations, happiness, joy, pain, what I feel and what I thought I feel and everything's light. No, you don't want to be no. 4. Its luck that you only get to meet the good side of me, bet ya wouldn't want the bad side.
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Tajane, You know me too well. I still have high hopes until I get tired and lay down to rest. Counting? Hmm..maybe taking chances. To think that I gave my best in my past, wonderin' what more I can give for my future. I believed there will still be happy love stories to tell, for thats what they all are in the end.. Just good memories 
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Home is where the heart is. There's time for another love to settle down and move into. Yeah sis..And I'm taking all the time for thats what I got now. Its an exciting ride and I got to enjoy the trimmings along the way.
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MIZZ, As I'm enjoying making them..In a sense, imparting some of me, who knows, someone or somebody might pick a lesson or two. Thanx missy.
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Joseph, Thank you. And you're one special guy. Oh oh, are we declaring something openly? Just kidding.
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Thet, each one of us has a love story(ies) to tell, and it's good to know that inspite and despite of, we are sane enough to share them. It's never easy to lose someone who've become a major part of your life. There will always be good memories to linger on, but the good part is, no matter what happened, we've moved on. Yes, we do have scars from the wounds inflicted to us by those experiences, but still: "IT IS BETTER TO HAVE LOVED and LOST, THAN NEVER TO HAVE LOVED AT ALL". I feel that way too, to share your love story/ies is the sanest thing to do. Not out of bragging or eliciting sympathy from others, more on the fact that just maybe, someone or somebody may enlightened by the lesson within. If I can respect someone else's privacy, is it too much to ask to respect my 'un -privacy?' There's nothing to do after a separation but to move on and be on the way. And never regret what you did for love 
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'te Tess, Yes, they're all beautiful love stories but they lived in my past. I can only say thanks for the good memories for each and every one of them. If by chance, I meet any or every one of them in the future - all I'm asking is a friendship borne of the shadow of the love that was. You truly have a beautiful heart. To be friends with them. In my life once its over that's it the bridges are burned. Keep being the kind and beautiful you...next thing u know someone special comes Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...
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Sis, You truly have a beautiful heart. To be friends with them. In my life once its over that's it the bridges are burned. Keep being the kind and beautiful you...next thing u know someone special comes We still can be friends after being lovers. Friendship is a good start for love, why not make it the ending? Thanks so much for your kind words sis. I have all the time waiting till that someone special comes along. 
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Tinks, No hurry doc. Haste makes waste. I'm enjoying along the waiting..
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Manok, I'm not very good at brooding or mopping instead I thought of people and events that made me laugh and voila, my happy face plastered around the four points of coordinates where I am in. I can add you definitely to my list of 'fun' people. Sure, I can live with you. But can I bring the kids and the dog, 2 stray cats, 3 hens and about 20 chicklets? And oh, I forgot the ducks..  Are you sure there's enough space for them in the bedroom?
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Hi Merian, Thank you. If its about LOVE, always lovely to read and inspiring. Glad you enjoy and thanks for dropping by.
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Invictuz, I agree with you. You can't dictate a person to like you, but you can dislike a person..however, LOVE is the most stubborn feeling of all, has a will of its own and nothing or no one can stop the damage or good it can do.. and we're merely puppets in its mercy. 
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2/11/2013 7:00 am |
You said your great love is your ex-hubby. Is there any chance you can get back together especially if he asked for it on bended knee? My dad begged to my mom but she still filed for divorce when I was two.
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You said your great love is your ex-hubby. Is there any chance you can get back together especially if he asked for it on bended knee? My dad begged to my mom but she still filed for divorce when I was two. As I've said, if I can have my way - let sleeping dogs lie. Maybe better that way. But I'm not discounting that possibility since its still a two way traffic (shrug)
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