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CELEBRATION OF LIFE Many believe that January's a good month to start off on anything. For the past 2weeks, I was a willing attendee to different celebrations. I attended christening of a godchild's (so thats already another "apo") coincided with the feast of the Sto. Nino. I remember going to the same church 20 yrs ago for that godchild's own baptismal. Such a tiny baby at 3mos. old, in pink satin and white organza dress. Babies do look like cherubims. of God. Like the Sto. Nino, the image of a young Jesus, the innocence of a and the purity of heart.  ...And death.  A friend's father died of heart ailments at 83. I went to the wake on the 2nd night. My friend though sad and teary eyed, accepted her father's demise as an act of God. Death comes as the end. There was a band playing on the following night. It used to be just guitars.  A new beginning. Alpha and Omega. I was invited in a wedding. As I was watching the exchange of vows, I can't help wondering why so many of these ceremonies, however grand, solemn would turn into nasty separations, costly annulments and divorces (paying more than the cost of the wedding). I had the best time at the foodies anyway.  Friends! How can we survive life without them? As we pass through life, we accumulated a lot of things, possessions, experiences, lessons, enemies, friends. Like picking flowers in a vast meadow, some kind were sweet, some bland, others have thorns, others were plain irritants. We can keep what we like and appreciate, discard or throw away, leave those we don't. A matter of choice. My meet ups (E  reunions with high schoolmates, luncheon despedida for friends who're going abroad. ...And my birthday. I celebrated alone. Intentionally, for I was hoping to find the answers within me, browbeating myself. I made the biggest discovery ever. "One friend" said that my life is boring, that I needed some actions, adventures - in short living it up. I want something new in my life. It's a new phase I'm opening and I already have that something new, you guessed it right... that "one friend"... Cheers to life!!!  
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1/25/2012 9:05 am |
Yeah, Why Not? After all, Life is full of celebrations, and celebrations are always done with others in tow, or at least, with that "one friend"...GO FOR IT, THET! Just call me ELZ 
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1/25/2012 1:33 pm |
...And my birthday. I celebrated alone. Intentionally, for I was hoping to find the answers within me, browbeating myself. I made the biggest discovery ever. "One friend" said that my life is boring, that I needed some actions, adventures - in short living it up. I want something new in my life. It's a new phase I'm opening and I already have that something new, you guessed it right... that "one friend"... It`s okey to celebrate bday alone, been doing that for years now!  but I`m more excited for that "one friend" go go go sis. wish you all the best this time  
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Jane, Now I know why that menage was out the door so quick I'm a senior citizen . Don't expect me to remember anything
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Wish you the best Theta Though you broke my heart Be a Dumaguete gal. Learn how to smoke +)) I'm a senior citizen . Don't expect me to remember anything
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Lady Mindy, Ang sarap mabuhay sis noh? Even though at times, you just want to give up bcoz of difficulties & trials - that makes life more exciting. You bested problems, you enjoy friends, love relatives, sleeping with the enemies the chase for love..Never give up!! I won't...Thank you sexy smilerz! Big hugs to you!
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Yeah, Why Not? After all, Life is full of celebrations, and celebrations are always done with others in tow, or at least, with that "one friend"...GO FOR IT, THET! I am taking a chance sis..and i'm just so excited about it. Who knows, that "one friend" might be "one lover".. Thanks for the encouragement. Going in... 
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...And my birthday. I celebrated alone. Intentionally, for I was hoping to find the answers within me, browbeating myself. I made the biggest discovery ever. "One friend" said that my life is boring, that I needed some actions, adventures - in short living it up. I want something new in my life. It's a new phase I'm opening and I already have that something new, you guessed it right... that "one friend"... It`s okey to celebrate bday alone, been doing that for years now! but I`m more excited for that "one friend" go go go sis. wish you all the best this time Celebrating birthdays alone, not bad sis. You get to weigh options, think things intensely, come up with justifiable conclusions, hence, a new something for me. Whatever may come out of this, I will enjoy the ride definitely. I am in full gear now, hope my friend's ready Thanks, big hugs to you
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Sistah, Definitely, I will. And I'm open to all the possibilities. Never know , this "one friend" might be "one love"..And we can do a lot of "exploring" together Thanks 'te. Big hugs..
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Tajane, Not only smiling 'te, grinning impishly I am taking a bold step here, you know that. Like you said, life is too short for any "what if"..I don't want to delay any longer, I had too much time wasted on second thoughts. I will definitely play this by heart, if it didn't work out right (the idea crossed my mind), charge it to experience. And live. I'm sure you checked the "one friend" PM mo sa kin. Love you too. Take care. Big hugs.
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My dear Alice, Sweet tayo sis, we have other uses for our hands other than "upak"..Leave them to the kanto boys Right, I guess I needed that one time alone for consulting faculties and soul searching. Ay nahanap ko naman and it said, "double time" I will enjoy another phase of life now, thats for sure. With open eyes, open mind and open heart, I wish to say "this is it" real soon. Thanks missy, will update you. Big hugs
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Jane, Now I know why that menage was out the door so quick Because you're screaming anotha' girlazz name! In fact, too many
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1/26/2012 6:04 am |
Belated happy birthday sis Theta. Pray you'll have more celebrations and maybe even have a monthsary celebration with a special friend.    within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.
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Wish you the best Theta Though you broke my heart Be a Dumaguete gal. Learn how to smoke +))Broke your heart? Huh? That Dumaguete gal talaga's between us eh We should have been "smoking" instead you're mopping about how good she is. Think she appreciate smoking cigarettes than cigars? Oh oh, second hand smoke is bad for your health. Go for the one that held your hands all night long. The one checking and texting you all night when she's not holding yours (hands - what else?) Enwayz, thanks for being so nice. I got better ideas than smoking Thought you'll be in HK till Fri? Oh well, wherever you are, enjoy, just do take care..
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Oh oh, and he's advising me to be like her I'd rather be driving
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Belated happy birthday sis Theta. Pray you'll have more celebrations and maybe even have a monthsary celebration with a special friend. Will try to hold on to that special friend till the 100monthsary or more. It's a giant leap I'm taking and I do wish to enjoy.Thanks sis for the greet and the wishes. Big hugs to you
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Sis, Well go for it. Life is all about exploration and taking that risk. How we gonna know if it's real or fake in life. Enjoy every minute!!! Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...
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Teng, Ayss, di ko nga alam kung bakit ganito 'to. Naligaw na din si ELZ in one of my blogs. Try ko nga iayos in chrono..hilo na din ako Teng, I have a kwestiyon? Nadalas ba ang samid mo nong 22nd? ehehey... Hugzz...
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Sis, Well go for it. Life is all about exploration and taking that risk. How we gonna know if it's real or fake in life. Enjoy every minute!!!
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Teng ok na..
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