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Let's volt in (Keep in touch) "Sorry for everything," my xhub's comment in one of my FB pics. Coming from someone who's got the bigger ego between us - two, utterly humbling. I should have said something like "it's water under the bridge now," or "let's forget the past and be friends..." Instead, I kept my silence. We're not even friends in FB, landsake. He never asked me  Such childish acts on both sides, I got entertained, for I suddenly find myself answering illegitimate questions from legitimate friends. Irritated the same time, why make something private be publicized? Up to this point, my separation's known only to a handful of friends. After all, I don't advertise my private affairs lest my lovelife. There are limit to things you can share online fearing for unsolicited reactions. Separations, divorces, annulments are simply bad news to those who cares, good news for posers. Social networking's a good thing, meeting new friends, reconnecting to old ones, finding lost relatives, making peace with estranged ex's, rekindling old flames if possible. Bridging the distance of north and south, east and west. Modernization. I don't want to be left behind so I joined in the fun. Still I'm old fashioned, I'll welcome knocks on my door, anytime...  
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Are you the friendly Electrolux man? Remember the famous door to door salesmen and women of the 80's?
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1/8/2012 8:16 am |
Knock knock sis Theta. Good afternoon. Yes sometimes some things are better left unsaid. If you aren't in the mood for it, there's a chance one could say something regrettable.   within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.
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Sis, Sometimes things happen beyond our control. Why fight it anymore. True the past leave behind... Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...
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I used to knock at windows. They called me bertong akyat Until I saw a shotgun noozle on my forehead. Then I got married Now I just do it the modern way  I'm a senior citizen . Don't expect me to remember anything
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1/8/2012 6:51 pm |
Thet, so this is what you were talking about on my blog...Very nice, and very realistic...It happens, and even though people will say it's up to us, still...the fact remains, that FB has reconnected people from all walks of life, and had awakened the sleeping emotions, broken some hearts and homes, and reunited some long lost friends and loved ones..But, life is such, that we live in this modern world, and at times, we just have to go with the flow, but just like you...I am conservative in so many ways...My doors are open, but I won't let everyone come in. There's definitely a key to my heart, but since it is broken, one has to be patient to smoothen out the jagged edges, so that the key will finally fit in. Just call me ELZ 
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1/8/2012 6:53 pm |
I understand what you mean...I don't really think "e es)" will really be good or best of friends...We seldom see it happening. Hence, there should have been no splits to begin with..Just call me ELZ
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1/8/2012 6:54 pm |
Oooopppppsss! that should have been EXES...lols...pati dito magkagalit ang mga exes... Just call me ELZ
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1/9/2012 2:56 am |
I agree with sis. Alice Have a great day sis Theta  
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Knock knock sis Theta. Good afternoon. Yes sometimes some things are better left unsaid. If you aren't in the mood for it, there's a chance one could say something regrettable.That's true. When I was younger, I said things outright, think later. More reaction, more retraction. But now that I'm less younger hrrmpp  ..I have to think first then talk later or not at all. Less reaction, less retraction.As it is, there's goodness in silence.
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Sis, Sometimes things happen beyond our control. Why fight it anymore. True the past leave behind... There are unfinished love stories, hanging waiting for conclusions. This one's different - ended the moment I walked out the door. Friendship's another thing. That's when I keep the door and windows open.
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My sis Alice, And I've missed you..Nag rest lang ako, nag bonding with the kids but I checked on you guys..I can't stay away too long from all of you. I can't reply for all the world to see, where's the privacy di ba? Too delicate to publish, baka may masagasaan - from his side of the family or mine. Besides, where's the sincerity?
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I used to knock at windows. They called me bertong akyat Until I saw a shotgun noozle on my forehead. Then I got married Now I just do it the modern way And what's the modern way? It just don't happen anymore, shotgun??? It's either illegal possession or B&E (breaking and entering)..both carried jail terms By any chance, are you related to Tiagong akyat?
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Thet, so this is what you were talking about on my blog...Very nice, and very realistic...It happens, and even though people will say it's up to us, still...the fact remains, that FB has reconnected people from all walks of life, and had awakened the sleeping emotions, broken some hearts and homes, and reunited some long lost friends and loved ones..But, life is such, that we live in this modern world, and at times, we just have to go with the flow, but just like you...I am conservative in so many ways...My doors are open, but I won't let everyone come in. There's definitely a key to my heart, but since it is broken, one has to be patient to smoothen out the jagged edges, so that the key will finally fit in. Among many wonders of FB, this is one of it. Making peace with the enemy but not necessarily sleeping with There are sure more benefits than downfall in this thing. But saying sorry and ask for forgiveness, for an ex-couple - hmmm..way too uncaring. There's nothing more sincere than facing up close and personal the one you've wronged. And forgiving's such an easy thing to do, for a repentant soul, a simple "ok" or a nod of the head or a pat in the back..Doors and windows shall be open for friends, but the door to my heart, double locked and guarded Like you sis, my heart's torn but recuperating and on the way to recovery. In due time, ready for another love (and heartbreak) WAG NAMAN
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I understand what you mean...I don't really think "e es)" will really be good or best of friends...We seldom see it happening. Hence, there should have been no splits to begin with..We had the chance to be best friends when we're still a couple. So good, in fact that I missed the friendship more. To have it back even half as it used to be, big enough to ask for. I'll start by forgiving.
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Oooopppppsss! that should have been EXES...lols...pati dito magkagalit ang mga exes... Thought "X" marks the spot. grave marker pala yun
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I agree with sis. Alice Have a great day sis Theta Good thing I'm a converted nagger Kidding, never will, never was. I'm the passive kind when it comes to discords, I just listened. And I've always find it helpful. Catching up lost times with my kids. They've been busy with their own lives, belatedly giving their mom some tender loving care. Thanks sis.
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Tajane, I wouldn't have this resentment if I'm a public figure, or a political figure. As it is, I'm a private citizen wanting to share some updates to friends/relatives and getting online's one of them (cheaper than cellphones.) Ka Rene's right, why make myself the butt of every cynic's judgments, even commiserations from those who cares, not at this point pls. Just a hollow comment, testing the water. He can try again with more veracity - in person. Separation's a mutual thing for us, I just don't know if we undergo the same degree of pains, guilts..I had a hard time recovering and obliterating traces of animosity and... LOVE - towards the man. We can be friends for the sake of the kids, not the way it used to be though. Goodness, he was my best friend for a long time.
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Joseph, Almost missed your comment. Good thing I checked again in between. As I've told you, this one's unpolished as I posted this on the spur of the moment, inspired by ELZ blog/s about FB. Regret/s, I don't have much. Trivial things perhaps, like, I din't take an offer for mammaplasty - 50% discounted, several years ago, just kidding What I mean to say, I can't alter the past but it can help me shape my future. And my doors open, and windows too...Thanks.
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