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theta2011 53F
781 posts
12/29/2011 6:20 am
Pride and Prejudices

I've got some feelers lately, from "holier than thou" attitude of the xhub. The million dollar question of "who bungled what?" And the little thing called Pride.

I kept my silence, not bad mouthing him to the , in fact, raising his good points, the virtues of the man. Suddenly, why poked me out of the blue? After all the moving on, braving the unexpected, the unbridled truth about "what went wrong?" should be "who went wrong?" No third party, no profanities, no dialogues at all. Simply two people drifted apart, walking away in opposite directions, neither one turning back to join the other.

Conceit. Vanity. I guess not. Independence maybe. Knowing my capacity to live alone, relying on myself more. I moved along his shadow for a long time, the wind beneath his wings, cliche'. I've found my freedom but I'm still afraid to fly freely, proven my worth but sometimes feeling inadequate, regained my bearings but self conscious. My bad, I'm enjoying the transformations and the learning.

Should the question be ask; Would I be willing to reconcile with my "ex"?...Next question please...

Another year to look forward to, a new hope, a new beginning, a new life - a new love. Why not?


HAPPY NEW YEAR EVERYONE!! GOODLUCK TO ALL OF US, GOOD WISHES


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
12/29/2011 11:52 am

Sis,

Yes, good luck to all!!! Happy New Year!!!

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


ajaw430 54F

12/29/2011 12:40 pm

Theta,

you already started, keep moving forward and never entertain negative feelings, that will only pull you down...

God bless you and your kids sis. and all the best wishes for 2012


theta2011 53F
1917 posts
12/30/2011 4:47 am

    Quoting TessRb:
    Sis,

    Yes, good luck to all!!! Happy New Year!!!
Sis,

It will be a good year 'te Tess. Happiness, blessings, peace of mind, a new love, a new hope for a new good chapter about to unfold. After all, we deserve no less.

My love and big hugs for you. Have a happy one


theta2011 53F
1917 posts
12/30/2011 4:59 am

    Quoting ajaw430:
    Theta,

    you already started, keep moving forward and never entertain negative feelings, that will only pull you down...

    God bless you and your kids sis. and all the best wishes for 2012
Gracey,

I do sis. One of my best, being the positive person that I can be. Nothing can bring me down. I'll always look for the silver lining even from the darkest clouds.

Likewise, i feel comforted knowing there're friends here well wishing one another. And to your kids as well. They're blessed having you for a mom. Big hugs. Happy New Year


theta2011 53F
1917 posts
12/30/2011 5:02 am

    Quoting  :

Chik,

Happy New Year sis.

All the good wishes - happiness, blessings, love for the coming year. Big hugs for you


theta2011 53F
1917 posts
12/30/2011 5:15 am

    Quoting  :

Tajane,

Women are always the enduring kind. Seeing a flicker of hope is more than enough to brave the darkness. Going through the act over and over again's quite tiring so I'd chose another path somewhere lighted, where I can see my way through.

With luck, finding my way to love. Thanks 'te, for the advices. Food for my soul. Big hugs Happy New Year!


theta2011 53F
1917 posts
12/30/2011 5:26 am

    Quoting  :

Sulei,

We can never know if any decisions we've yet to make will work or not at all but you are right, follow the counsel of the heart and mind. Ten to one, it will never go wrong.

Haste makes waste. I dont rush things for I'm the type counting to a 100 before putting things into actions.

Happy New Year Good wishes for the coming year


theta2011 53F
1917 posts
12/30/2011 5:34 am

    Quoting  :

Joseph,

Why do I get the feeling there's a reciprocated admiration here?

Thank you as always...I'm wishing you the same thing; Happy New Year Happiness, prosperity, peace, all the fun this coming year.

A new love for you? Hhmmm...Goodluck


theta2011 53F
1917 posts
12/30/2011 5:57 am

    Quoting  :

Sis,

It's not romantic love anymore, but a little bit stronger than humanitarian for it's the love I have for my neighbors and he' used to be my housemate.

Lost it long ago, a great one in fact. I missed the feeling but not the man. We have our time together and we both blew it up. I may or may not love that way again, but certainly, I will love again.

All the best for you, happiness, love, peace, blessings this coming year. Happy New Year my friend, Alice the vamp Big hugs.


theta2011 53F
1917 posts
1/1/2012 12:02 am

    Quoting  :

Legend,

That's exactly Pride. Mine was not actually "it" more on falling out of love. But I will be truly happy had he found someone else.

Thank you for the comment and for dropping by

HAPPY NEW YEAR! Goodluck, good wishes


theta2011 53F
1917 posts
1/1/2012 12:05 am

    Quoting  :

May,

HAPPY NEW YEAR to you too sis. All the good wishes. Thank you for dropping by. Goodluck


jane82 110F

1/1/2012 9:55 am

I can imaging it's difficult moving on when you're poked constantly, but you don't always have to retaliate back. I wish you peace and strength. May he give you peace soon in Jesus' name.

Happy new year Theta.



within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.


eb1209

1/1/2012 3:13 pm

Hello Thet! Happy New Dear!....Well, I'd say, enjoy your freedom and think a thousand times before you let any past nor new love into your life again...Remember, it's not only all about you. If you have kids, they are to be considered as well...Take care!

Just call me ELZ


theta2011 53F
1917 posts
1/2/2012 4:33 am

    Quoting jane82:
    I can imaging it's difficult moving on when you're poked constantly, but you don't always have to retaliate back. I wish you peace and strength. May he give you peace soon in Jesus' name.

    Happy new year Theta.
Janey,

It took me awhile, but now I'm enjoying my freedom. I don't have time for retaliation, instead why make myself (more) pretty and live in peace, di ba? After all, its what new years are for - new beginning, new life

Same to you sis, HAPPY NEW YEAR!!Happiness, Peace, Love, more Blessings. Thank you for the beautiful words, hope to see you more this year


theta2011 53F
1917 posts
1/2/2012 4:53 am

    Quoting eb1209:
    Hello Thet! Happy New Dear!....Well, I'd say, enjoy your freedom and think a thousand times before you let any past nor new love into your life again...Remember, it's not only all about you. If you have kids, they are to be considered as well...Take care!
ELZ,

I am enjoying a lot, in fact, being single has its bliss and advantages. One of them is mastering the art of timing, i can say I'm getting the hang of it. I shall wait for the perfect time and reason to fall in love again, definitely taking my kids into consideration. I am a mother first, all things secondary.

Thank you sis, for all the good advices, and wishes. Don't get tired reminding me - sometimes I can get foolish over petty things. Take it from the pro

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!! All the best wishes for you