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quark_cognition 47M
71 posts
12/28/2010 10:48 pm
"She ruined my life."


Here's another good one: "All women are crazy."

Or, this one: "There are different types of women."

On several occasions, other guys have given me their sob story about how their life was ruined by a woman. One of the mistakes men make is they consider women to be property; something they own. Even if a woman tells a man she loves him and stays married to him for many years, she still has the right to walk out.

Once, a man told me he bought his wife a $300,000 house and a new Mustang. She left him for a man that lived in a trailer home. Just because you're married doesn't mean other people are not going to flirt with your spouse and attempt to form an emotional bond. What you want, others want. Don't play the game if you are not comfortable with the rules.

A Korean movie expertly deals with that philosophical problem, the notion of "what you want, others want". It's called "Spring, Summer, Fall, Winter... and Spring"

As for "all women are crazy", I have never understood why men say that. One guy told me: "All women are crazy and your goal is to find the least craziest". Some women are clinically insane; they are hopefully institutionalized. In my experience, most women are smart, sneaky and flirtatious. A few have been compulsive liars. But this does not give one the right to call them "crazy", since they can function perfectly well in society and hold jobs. Again, if you don't like the rules, then don't play the game.

And this one: "There are different types of women". Well, yes, there are. But it's more complicated than that. There are different types of people. For any given personality type, there is no divisive line between male and female. Every "type" of female has a corresponding "type" of male.

In reality, there is little difference between the minds of men and women. Consider the similarities between men and women: we both detect light, sound, odors, tastes, touch, heat, and gravity. Although the latter two are often not included in the list of senses, all fully able humans have at the minimum 7 senses. If you were to suddenly lose your five traditional senses, you would still be able to detect temperature differences and know if you were falling or upside down. So the sensory inputs of men and women are the same. The only difference lies in the processing of those inputs and which memories are regarded as more important than others. Thus, I would argue that the differences between any two humans are just as great as the difference between men and women. Gender doesn’t mean one f****** thing.

HONEYs_Sense

12/29/2010 3:33 am

how about PMS?

... only a REAL diamond has flaws.


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
12/29/2010 9:57 am

Sis,

I've seen what PMS does. It ain't pretty. For sure. Goes over board. But, just like the song from Seal "everyone's gotta be little crazy to survive..." Further more two coming together has to have a little similarity in their features and like the same things. Compromise is the key to keeping that love alive.

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


quark_cognition 47M

12/29/2010 8:35 pm

Men go through the equivalent of PMS roughly 20 times per day. Us men have got the powerstrokers, so we need a lot of power.


jean_1000 47F

12/30/2010 8:49 pm

happy new year

love is the greatest gift of all