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Karma... Don't you ever wished that sometimes bad things would happen to people that hurt you so bad in life??? That's what i really feel tonight. But, instead i had him prayed in the Mother of Perpetual Help before his birthday. I was so fast in forgiving him and still love him. Love is a mystery. Time and again chose the love of his life. Why did i love him so much??? Really beats me, i think he put a love spell over me. I just don't know. Went head over heels to help. Didn't want anything in return but love. Which he could never give me. For finding out the lies and cheating. And the nerve to turn it all around that it was my fault. I have to give him an applause for that. Because really made me feel so stupid. I really want to hate this person, but i can't. In a short while he made me laugh. So, in the end if Karma doesn't chase him...only God will be the last judgement. Happy weekend everyone!!!   Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other... |
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Kim, Ate feels so hurt. First it was fear he would kill me, etc. But, now just pure hate. Yet, i still had prayed the novena on him. The why does bad people get away with murder and hurt others... Happy weekend and lotsa hugs 'teGreatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...
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7/28/2012 2:25 pm |
Tess, it's really hard to fight your own "nature"...You fall in love and forgive easily, and do the same mistakes over and over again, and that's just simply being you...NO ONE CAN EVER CHANGE THAT (except you) and NO ONE CAN TAKE THAT AWAY from you either...We can say and write all that we want to you, but at the end of the day, it's still about your TRUE FEELINGS, OWN DECISIONS, and OWN PERCEPTIONS of how you go about things...I may sound a bit harsh about this but EVEN GOD'S OWN COMMANDMENTS (since we all know that you are one religious person) will NOT CHANGE YOU, because HE GAVE US OUR OWN FREE WILL on how to run our lives. And really, it has nothing to do with being "godly" or "just being smart"...To me, these are two different aspects in life that can either guide you or disguise you...You know me, I am straightforward... Just call me ELZ 
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7/28/2012 2:33 pm |
And on those guys who took advantage of you: "they are evil", alright, and you knew it, but you hoped against hopes that they'll change for you (again, that is not a realistic expectation). Sometimes, when we show too much of kindness, despite the fact, we are actually making ourselves the "bait" or instruments for these bad guys to even go worse, instead of changing them. I believe that's exactly what happened to you... Just call me ELZ
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7/28/2012 2:47 pm |
One last: There are so many men and women out there who are REPEAT OFFENDERS, and knowing you from before, I'd say, you are a REPEAT VICTIM of both blind love ( deng! is love really blind? ) or great pretenders...Again, the decision is yours. It's really okay to fall in love again...BUT, it's not okay to be a victim again..First mistake, you maybe a victim (either by circumstances or merely by the person)...Second time you fell for the same situation (different person), I may give you the benefit of the doubt, that you are just giving love another chance, irregardless...But the third time and so on and so forth that you keep making the same mistakes...Outrightly, I say to you...YOU ARE A VICTIM OF YOUR OWN WRONG DECISIONS AND CHOICES...IT'S NOT THESE GUYS ANYMORE...You know, we love you, and we want only the right love for you...and We know you feel the same way for me and your other friends as well..How HARD is it really to GET RID OF THIS PERSON COMPLETELY FROM YOUR LIFE? Just call me ELZ
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Jeff, I know the turmoil i was going thru i had prayed the 9 day novena of Mother of Perpetual Help. coz of all the anger and disbelief and fear. It was the only way i could rise. Happy weekend Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...
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Jeanie, I've seen how karma works and it ain't pretty and would not wish for it to happen. It's the anger that's taken over me. First it was the fear and then anger. there was forgiveness along the way... happy weekend. Sorry, u had to go thru all that trouble.  Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...
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Antonio, My marriage was such a case. And i prayed to God and he saved me. It was such a torture. Happy no it was not at all...it's a sin to keep a person rather set him free to love another. Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...
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Tess, it's really hard to fight your own "nature"...You fall in love and forgive easily, and do the same mistakes over and over again, and that's just simply being you...NO ONE CAN EVER CHANGE THAT (except you) and NO ONE CAN TAKE THAT AWAY from you either...We can say and write all that we want to you, but at the end of the day, it's still about your TRUE FEELINGS, OWN DECISIONS, and OWN PERCEPTIONS of how you go about things...I may sound a bit harsh about this but EVEN GOD'S OWN COMMANDMENTS (since we all know that you are one religious person) will NOT CHANGE YOU, because HE GAVE US OUR OWN FREE WILL on how to run our lives. And really, it has nothing to do with being "godly" or "just being smart"...To me, these are two different aspects in life that can either guide you or disguise you...You know me, I am straightforward... By far am not religious. I just love God. And try to follow the commandments "love one another". That's why when i warned the girl and all the rumors and what not. I couldn't believe and all the attacks from him. It was a Dr Jeykl and Hide all over again. Am only human and make a lot of mistake and not hide it. From the get go i knew it was wrong but this force was so much stronger it pulled me in. And in the end it was all deceit. Admit it was all my fault and apologized. Happy Sunday Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...
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And on those guys who took advantage of you: "they are evil", alright, and you knew it, but you hoped against hopes that they'll change for you (again, that is not a realistic expectation). Sometimes, when we show too much of kindness, despite the fact, we are actually making ourselves the "bait" or instruments for these bad guys to even go worse, instead of changing them. I believe that's exactly what happened to you... In that aspect too all true. Hope that they would choose me. Moved mountains. But, in the end they chose the other love. Play a fool twice. Three time to forgive i would have done it too. I was mesmerised by all his text and attention... Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...
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One last: There are so many men and women out there who are REPEAT OFFENDERS, and knowing you from before, I'd say, you are a REPEAT VICTIM of both blind love ( deng! is love really blind? ) or great pretenders...Again, the decision is yours. It's really okay to fall in love again...BUT, it's not okay to be a victim again..First mistake, you maybe a victim (either by circumstances or merely by the person)...Second time you fell for the same situation (different person), I may give you the benefit of the doubt, that you are just giving love another chance, irregardless...But the third time and so on and so forth that you keep making the same mistakes...Outrightly, I say to you...YOU ARE A VICTIM OF YOUR OWN WRONG DECISIONS AND CHOICES...IT'S NOT THESE GUYS ANYMORE...You know, we love you, and we want only the right love for you...and We know you feel the same way for me and your other friends as well..How HARD is it really to GET RID OF THIS PERSON COMPLETELY FROM YOUR LIFE? That's why i feel so stupid for the last time. And just finally give up. I don't want to suffer as much as i did on this one... Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...
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I agree on that 100%. Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...
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7/30/2012 4:53 am |
during my first relationship, when i was young i have wished my ex bad luck in his future relationships, and ive wished to be there as well should it need any help..But you know sis cursing works sometimes, to make you feel better.I have, for instance, cursed someone who wronged me once with testicular cancer. I don't know if he ever got it. But I certainly felt better after. Breaking up is hard and sometimes takes the worse out of us. We start to resent the person and possibly even hate them.now that im old, ohhh matured pala, i take everything in its spiritual value.these values and principles serves as roots that will give me nourishment when the storms of adversity pound on me. In the most responsible and developed stage of morality and values, we have an obligation to use our gifts and talents to serve others, even in the midst of suffering and pain.The only thing that will let you move on really,is to forget about him and concentrate on filling your own life with so many wondrous things that he really won't figure into it. Set up dates for every weekend.Go on 52 dates a year. Write a blog about it all. oh! sis tess im gonna be a fan of this site..  kidding aside , i am with you.
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Sis, The irony of it all was he betrayed me w/ my account and made an email/fb. Then changed the pw. Flirting and making plans in the future. While i was helping him all this time. If yahoo didn't verify it was my account i would have not found out. This was made last year. And he goes i stoled it. The nerve. First, i was scared for my life coz his a total whacko. To get some peace i prayed the Mother of Perpetual help for him. Then just this week i felt so much anger. Karma seen countless time happen to folks and it isnt pretty at all. I forgave, but the hurt and anger still remain. Eventually, will come a time totally will look on this and just laugh it off. I am thankful he gave me so much laughter but the betrayal no thanks. I don't know about 52 dates, since i no longer trust men... Happy week ahead Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...
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Sis, Everyone would say forgive, forget and then move on. Easier said than done, for that one person we're trying to forgive is the last person asking for forgiveness. And we let fate decide. Only to discover, when they get hurt, we hurt more. Because, after all - our LOVE superceded all emotions especially hate. 'te Tess, live and let go.. 
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Sis, I'm trying to move on. But, every bit still sneaks in my mind. Glad your back and saw some lovely pics of you on EB!!! Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...
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Sis, Everyone would say forgive, forget and then move on. Easier said than done, for that one person we're trying to forgive is the last person asking for forgiveness. And we let fate decide. Only to discover, when they get hurt, we hurt more. Because, after all - our LOVE superceded all emotions especially hate. 'te Tess, live and let go.. Of course i would be hurt if anything bad happens to him. that's why i tried to help him from the get go. he said he respected me so much. Pero, what was that??? Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...
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Tajane, Tinakot niya ako ng husto saying "tadhana, or just wait coz he was praying something awful for to happen to me..." I went way overboard in loving this person??? Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...
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