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TessRb 64F
2590 posts
3/31/2012 1:41 pm

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5/5/2012 11:14 am

what does it really take...

Commitment what does it really mean? And how come it only comes from the man you are not into. The one you want plays around? Why can't it be insinque. It always have to be one way or the high way? You know what i mean. Once they have you, they don't even think of marriage. Because they have you already. Then years go by and no commitment. Is it such a horrible word for some men? Not wanting to commit?

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


eb1209

3/31/2012 11:06 pm

Tess, you read my mind...I was gonna blog about men's opinion about marriage...I guess, we are on the same page, thoughtwise today...Heheheheheheh!....Not that I want to get married...lolz... I just want a "sane" and faithful/loyal MAN...

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

3/31/2012 11:06 pm

    Quoting  :

Ayan na!

Just call me ELZ


oldkanaba 73M
2458 posts
4/1/2012 12:58 am



Yeyyyyyyyy, Idol ko na si bro Shaqkol A good voice of reason


I'm a senior citizen . Don't expect me to remember anything


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
4/1/2012 6:18 am

    Quoting  :

Antonio,

I know heard that from a friend of ours and he eventually married her. But, she never wants to have any babies. Marriage and the wedding means so much to all women of the world. Belonging to the man that loves them faithfully. Happy lenten season.

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
4/1/2012 6:20 am

    Quoting  :

Tajane,

I haven't learned my lesson yet. So to speak. Keep meeting the same type. Baka it's me all along with the problemo. Happy Palm Sunday

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
4/1/2012 6:21 am

    Quoting  :

Tajane,

Your opinion are great for everone to learn.

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
4/1/2012 6:22 am

    Quoting  :

Bro,

See there are not many men out there like you...

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
4/1/2012 6:24 am

    Quoting  :

Tajoolz,

I'm trying to see both side of the coin. To be or not to be pasakal. You really make me laugh on this coz often times so true. Why bother and just live a carefree life w/o all the hassles. Happy Palm Sunday

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
4/1/2012 6:26 am

    Quoting  :

Shangkol,

Yes, agree it takes two to tango and do the deed. I've done what has to be done and more...

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
4/1/2012 6:27 am

    Quoting  :

Charlie,

Courage would be #1. Some just get to fraidy cat to go on...

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
4/1/2012 6:31 am

    Quoting eb1209:
    Tess, you read my mind...I was gonna blog about men's opinion about marriage...I guess, we are on the same page, thoughtwise today...Heheheheheheh!....Not that I want to get married...lolz... I just want a "sane" and faithful/loyal MAN...
Elz,

Good morning! Happy Palm sunday. See we're on the same wavelenth. Not really wanting to get hitch to. But, part of me does. After all that i went thru. By now i would be running the opposite direction. How being taken for granted and what not. And seeing all the other sister in a blink of an eye get married. Yes, i want a faithful man and not a crazy looney one...

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
4/1/2012 6:33 am

    Quoting oldkanaba:


    Yeyyyyyyyy, Idol ko na si bro Shaqkol A good voice of reason

Bert,

thanks for dropping by. Happy palm sunday.

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
4/1/2012 6:37 am

Thanks everyone for putting all your inputs. It's just a wish that everyone wants that special someone next to them sleeping and cuddling with. All the effort to keep together and not missing a beat. Now off to do the 5K walk for the Wildflower Run benefiting women/girls for education that can't afford. Wish me luck! Have a great Palm Sunday and God bless everyone...

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


oldkanaba 73M
2458 posts
4/1/2012 9:25 am

    Quoting  :


I didn't join the marines but my exes say I am ha ha ha. I just love these intelligent ladies. How can we live without them?


I'm a senior citizen . Don't expect me to remember anything


jane82 110F

4/1/2012 4:41 pm

hi 'te Tess. As you know, I don't always get men. But I understand that commitment means different things to each person. Commitment doesn't have to be about getting married. Loyalty is more important in general whether it be lovers or friends.

Faithfulness is important to me.
But of course wedding etc is an icing on the cake I can't deny that.
In due time, everything will come along.

It's good to hear you've walked for a great cause and you've a lovely Sunday.



within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
4/1/2012 7:08 pm

    Quoting  :

Jeanie,

You are so lucky to have men commit to you. Maybe am just not the commitment type. Once they look at me or something. Have a great lenten season...

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
4/1/2012 7:12 pm

    Quoting  :

DS,

It's a big issue to me. Whole commitment and marriage. Maybe i'll just find someone and not marry them. If they promise to be faithful and loyal. Have a great lenten season.

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
4/1/2012 7:14 pm

    Quoting  :

DS,

I did and they are still the same players...

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
4/1/2012 7:18 pm

    Quoting jane82:
    hi 'te Tess. As you know, I don't always get men. But I understand that commitment means different things to each person. Commitment doesn't have to be about getting married. Loyalty is more important in general whether it be lovers or friends.

    Faithfulness is important to me.
    But of course wedding etc is an icing on the cake I can't deny that.
    In due time, everything will come along.

    It's good to hear you've walked for a great cause and you've a lovely Sunday.
Janey,

yes, agree 100%. Just want a faithful man that will love me and vice versa. I enjoyed the scenery of the 5K walk, my co-worker's daughter and father-in-law was my company in walking. Her daughter goes it looks like we just walked around a big box. It was seeing lots of cherry and apricot trees on the last mile. But, my body aches now so bad. LOL Enjoy the week. Hugs and kises 'te

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
4/2/2012 5:22 am

    Quoting  :

Jeanie,

I'll give it a try. Have a glorious Easter

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
4/2/2012 5:27 am

    Quoting  :

Mindy,

Good morning and wishing you a happy Easter!!! Love watching "Sex and the City" movies. Never tried dating a lot of men. Just too scary...

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
4/2/2012 5:39 am

    Quoting  :

Tajoolz,

Love ur honesty!!! Happy Easter week

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


theta2011 53F
1917 posts
4/2/2012 7:15 am

'te Tess,

Commitment's a very big word that entails a very big responsibility. Though we differed in how far we can commit ourselves to someone, we can agree - most of us (I hope) of practicing monoamory. Like the word itself that can be hard to find in dictionaries or thesaurus, and so's the real meaning of the word.


oldkanaba 73M
2458 posts
4/2/2012 10:02 am

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Hey Mindy, I'm beginning to think you're smart too Way to go!


I'm a senior citizen . Don't expect me to remember anything


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
4/2/2012 5:10 pm

    Quoting theta2011:
    'te Tess,

    Commitment's a very big word that entails a very big responsibility. Though we differed in how far we can commit ourselves to someone, we can agree - most of us (I hope) of practicing monoamory. Like the word itself that can be hard to find in dictionaries or thesaurus, and so's the real meaning of the word.
Sis,

Well i know if i commit to solely one person i will abide by it. Not like all the men i've met. Anyways,

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...