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TessRb 64F
2590 posts
1/16/2012 10:03 am

Last Read:
5/5/2012 4:08 pm

Goodbye to all...



How can i say good bye to all the men in the past that captured my heart and left me in the dust!!!

1. Thank YOU, atleast i will never have to deal with you again!!!

2. A very good lesson from each one, yet i haven't learned
that's why i keep making the same mistake!!! Stupid me.

3. Made me stronger to never ever trust a man again...

Here's a song from non other than Anita Baker singing "wrong man"... Happy monday to all!!!)

I feel you moving, slipping away

I try to call, but I can't find the
words to say

My lips move, ah but they don't make a sound

I hear your voice baby, but you're nowhere around

I close my eyes, I can't find my sleep

My wounds will not heal, you cut me too deep

My mind is strong but my spirit is weak

I got to get back on my feet


Well, you can be so cruel

Oh, that I just don't understand

Do the tears that I cry baby

Hey, does it make you feel like a man

And I told you once boy,
Oh baby let me tell you again

You can't do right cause you're the
Wrong man


Chorus:
You're the wrong man

You're the wrong man

You're the wrong man


I hear you calling, but I ain't no fool

I've got to be stronger

I've got to get over you

Each time I cry, its a sign of my pain

Every tear that falls, carries your name

All I know is it cannot go on

Everything I do for you is wrong

[ From: http://filipinofriendfinder.com ]

Ain't nothing I can say or can do

I just got to, I gotta get up

I gotta move


Hear me baby

Tell me what you want me to do

Ain't my, my my my, ain't my lovin good enough for you

I told you once boy, baby lemme tell you again

You can't do right cause...


(Chorus)


You know I love you

But sometimes love ain't enough

And I don't wanna leave you

Baby but I'm giving you up

And I told you once boy

And I don't wanna tell you again

You can't do right cause
You're the wrong man

You can't do right baby

You can't do right baby


I'd rather lose you

Than to lose my mind, yeah


Said I'd rather lose you,

Thann to lose my mind

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


ajaw430 54F

1/16/2012 11:36 am

Tess, for some seconds my heart stop beating! I thought what kind of goodbye I´ll read here

Indeed, eventhough they`re part of the past, still part of them is with us and we can only say "thank you" for all the lessons we`ve learned

Happy monday Tess and a great song from Anita Baker


eb1209

1/16/2012 11:41 am

NO COMMENT

Just call me ELZ


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
1/16/2012 11:48 am

    Quoting ajaw430:
    Tess, for some seconds my heart stop beating! I thought what kind of goodbye I´ll read here

    Indeed, eventhough they`re part of the past, still part of them is with us and we can only say "thank you" for all the lessons we`ve learned

    Happy monday Tess and a great song from Anita Baker
Grace,

I tried not to blog anymore that the one before this was it for a while. Then i kept thinking of the jerks i've been exposed to. So, i had to literally blog about to vent it out of my system. I was even cracking up. Thinking "Good bye to all the jerks". Then what if my friends think am really saying good bye to blogging. Haven't heard the song yet, what i wanted was from Mary Blige. I'm glad you like the song. Will hear later, so busy at the moment. Just taking a break. Have a great day Sis

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
1/16/2012 11:51 am

    Quoting  :

Sulei,

So very sweet of you for praying for me. In a way it's detaching myself from all the heartaches. Learning the lesson and taking action is what i must do. To survive...

Have a wonderful day, ok

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
1/16/2012 12:14 pm

Elz,

You make me laugh. No comment giving me the 5th amendment. Ok, lang am just trying to do some action in recovering my old self. Realizing that all my blogs are about heart broken many times. Isn't that ironic. Poweroflove3, Betrayed4solong, and FrozenFlower3. Di ba all of it was one lost lover to the next. For once i would really love to write about true love...

Happy day so sunny here yet cold

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


Kissey_Anne 48F

1/16/2012 1:46 pm

Te tess....i guess thats they called it love...sometimes u win sometimes u lose...but its okey life must go on...

Walk with me through the rain


oldkanaba 73M
2458 posts
1/16/2012 4:16 pm


A very serious matter so I won't make fun of it.

On the other hand, don't give up on love. I haven't and I've been officially divorced for 20 years . She can be beyond my grave

Paging my love. Paging my love. Please reply. 10-4


I'm a senior citizen . Don't expect me to remember anything


racerx428 110M
1000 posts
1/16/2012 4:43 pm


Tess, u live and learn. Time will heal your sadness. Just need to weed out the sour grapes....



TReAt oTHerS LiKe YoU wAnT tO BE TReAteD !!!


oldkanaba 73M
2458 posts
1/16/2012 4:47 pm


By the way , are you going to Vegas?


I'm a senior citizen . Don't expect me to remember anything


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
1/16/2012 5:32 pm

    Quoting  :

Kim,

I was smiling when i wrote this blog. The pic cracked me up the most. Anyways, live and learn alright in this world. Have a great week

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
1/16/2012 5:34 pm

    Quoting Kissey_Anne:
    Te tess....i guess thats they called it love...sometimes u win sometimes u lose...but its okey life must go on...
Anne,

Sometimes i feel like a child having a tantrum in this old body. So, exasperating. Like wanting so bad and can't have. I must really think of the consequences of the outcome...

Love is pain and i don't want pain. Have a great day

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
1/16/2012 5:39 pm

    Quoting  :

Sis,

I know am so grateful of you all here to care so much. Just mad for not listening to all the advice and signs. Para bang tumalon ako sa cliff in spite of all the warnings. Leap of faith. Tapos na dapa. And i'm glad no one is saying "mabuti nga sa iyo for falling so fast all the time in love"...

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
1/16/2012 5:40 pm

    Quoting  :

Sis,

Baka ka na i really have to make all this mistake na finally never to rush into love ever or just totally forget about it all. Thanks

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
1/16/2012 5:44 pm

    Quoting oldkanaba:

    A very serious matter so I won't make fun of it.

    On the other hand, don't give up on love. I haven't and I've been officially divorced for 20 years . She can be beyond my grave

    Paging my love. Paging my love. Please reply. 10-4

Bert,

Thank you for not making fun. It's just am so tired. Finally, natutu na can never find happiness in one person. Just all comes from within, and i know that now...

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
1/16/2012 5:48 pm

    Quoting racerx428:

    Tess, u live and learn. Time will heal your sadness. Just need to weed out the sour grapes....

Racerx428,

In time yes, and this will just be a wee memory. He will always have a special place in my heart. Kaya his the last na last...

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
1/16/2012 5:52 pm

    Quoting oldkanaba:

    By the way , are you going to Vegas?
Bert,

yes, i am. Was just on vacation started thursday til today. Gonna go to Aneheim for a convention. Missed it coz my dad was rush to the hospital for pneumonia. Am glad i stayed home. Next month if God willing definitely. Party like no tomorrow!!!

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


theta2011 53F
1917 posts
1/17/2012 3:10 am

TessRB,

Is there really such a thing as wrong man or woman? Maybe not, but wrong dimensions I guess. Some people just don't fit together.


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
1/17/2012 4:13 am

    Quoting theta2011:
    TessRB,

    Is there really such a thing as wrong man or woman? Maybe not, but wrong dimensions I guess. Some people just don't fit together.
Theta,

Ok, fitting together is the whole concept of a relationship. I just wish that i didn't meet them. Because i grown attach and for me really hard to let go. If i had the wish na just one day of mourning about this last love fine. Pero, not that easy. From every wrong we make that's how we really learn in life di ba.

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
1/17/2012 4:26 am

    Quoting  :

Tajane,

Why can't i just accept it's over and move on? It's never was meant to be. In all things i want to be in the moment. Grieving over this one is sad. Knowing it will never work out. Kaya am so tired na of loving. If it will end. This was only not more than a year, yet the pain is greater...

Have a great

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
1/17/2012 4:32 am

    Quoting  :

Mindy,

You made me smile, thank you. I should be a veteran of heartaches already and this shouldn't have phased me at all. Kaya all i want to remember is the happy times. How he made me crack up big time. Going thru the motion of numbness and being dead like is not good. He made me feel so much alive. Have a great tuesday

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
1/17/2012 4:37 am

    Quoting  :

Raquel,

thanks for being here for my cries and all my craziness. Just hurts every time. Grieving over spilt milk. Picking urself up because it's finally over. And to just let it be. Now, on don't ever want to deal with love for sure...

Have a wonderful tuesday

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
1/17/2012 4:39 am

Thanks everyone for the generosity of supporting me at this time of grieving over someone i thought was real and not fake. And thinking he was God sent. Have a wonderful day and smile...

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


Dan_Dan3 43M

1/17/2012 12:45 pm

hugssss Tess


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
1/17/2012 5:02 pm

Dan_dan3,

Thanks for the hugs

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


jane82 110F

1/18/2012 8:46 am

Occhh thank goodness I wasn't sure who and what the goodbye was for.

Like the brave men said like Sulei and Bert. You're worth loving and so don't let it keep you down.

God loves you always and everyone you touch even after they leave you, you're rest assured you left a mark of love in their lives.



within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.