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TessRb 64F
2590 posts
10/2/2010 8:18 am

Last Read:
9/9/2015 2:35 am

Fate & Destiny...

What you are is God's gift to you; what you make of yourself is your gift to God. By George Washington Carver.

Often times wondering what happen? And seeing the surrounding and the emotion of everyone losing faith. Economy of it's recession and downfall/inflation. When will it get better. Layoffs. That's the money side of things. But, love the second problem. When will anyone truly find the one they been looking for or them being found. Ok, just this last week i was so tempted to consult a psychic. And my belief in God stopped me in time. Except, listen to their short vids. Imagine it put some light into the questions been soul searching all my life.

What it came down too was from a psychic. That most of her miss the two meanings of Fate & Destiny. Folks would say that "i can't change my stars that i'm born with" or that this is my destiny!!! And what's been written in the bible for ages is we are put on this earth by what unique gifts God has given us. Also, that we are given "free will". And the verse, "ask and ye shall receive". With all these gifts from God why not use them all. Throughout our journey we make excuses, and run off to find ourselves again. And all we can do is look in that mirror and ask what the whole mess is all about and fix it. But, for some that "never did learn" i for one that's moi!!! A really good friend will come along and kick your butt or knock some sensibility in our head/minds. Whatever helps, go for it. And that you have the choice to make a difference in your life and everyones. So, make the choice wisely. The journey is still far and wide. And to take every lesson and learn from them.

Are you gonna leave it up to Fate? Or make a dashing Destiny and share it with everyone...

God bless everyone, and be happy. Most of all spread that love. I want to thank everyone here and Elz for taking the time to call one evening to enlighten me. My abys was so low. Trust was broken. I didn't leave because of my dear friends here, i love all of you. It only took one bad apple that knock me down. God's love is unending, his blessings abound.



Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


eb1209

10/2/2010 9:51 am

Tess, always remember that true friends will be with you no matter what the situation is...SOmetimes, it only takes one person to make you feel better..Luckily, here at FFF, we have quite a heap of caring people...Carry on, live life to the fullest that you can, not those that you CAN'T...Take care! Keep on blogging..

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

10/2/2010 9:53 am

Life is such that you gamble a little, you step back a little, you're somewhat neautral at times and just leave it to chance, and at times, you just get lucky without doing anything..

Just call me ELZ


jean_1000 47F

10/2/2010 10:41 am

welcome back sis

love is the greatest gift of all


jean_1000 47F

10/2/2010 10:47 am

god give us everything we needs and problems and he make us smart to solve the problems...and i know as long we believe on him... every things will be alright...

love is the greatest gift of all


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
10/2/2010 12:27 pm

    Quoting eb1209:
    Tess, always remember that true friends will be with you no matter what the situation is...SOmetimes, it only takes one person to make you feel better..Luckily, here at FFF, we have quite a heap of caring people...Carry on, live life to the fullest that you can, not those that you CAN'T...Take care! Keep on blogging..
Elz,

I thank you immensely for calling me up and straightening my little head and weary heart. Btw, this is my pic taken last saturday in walking that 5K walk. Remember i thought he was gonna walk with me. Finally, took matters into my own hand. Walked it alone! I was so happy just to finish it. When i left i was pissed and just didn't like what i was turning into. Foods and live music after the race, there were two other ones today in Fremont one high school the other a hospital. Both for the Breast cancer foundation. October is the month for celebration and remembrance of this disease. So, i stayed away for a little bit. Until, got two emails asking why? And FB. Pray tell the whole reasons. Now, much calmer. I just wish him happiness. The lesson learned was don't ever rely anyone for your happiness. Where am i gonna look for happiness is moi!!! God help me...

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


coxkevin 42M

10/2/2010 12:29 pm

Sister, welcome back and thanks to my boss, elzzzzzzzz who always enlightening ppl by giving courage and good advice..............

Sister, enjoy you too the weekend!!!


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
10/2/2010 12:34 pm

    Quoting eb1209:
    Life is such that you gamble a little, you step back a little, you're somewhat neautral at times and just leave it to chance, and at times, you just get lucky without doing anything..
Elz,

Truly believe that life is a big gamble and all a risk. The whole problemo was i made it so huge. First a simmer until full blown and exploded. Fate and Destiny. Believe it's meant for you and make it happen. Don't need a man to make us whole. Funny, i was making castles in the air dreaming!!! While browsing at those homes. Dreaming i can invite friends over and such. hahahaha gosh, too good to be true and bubbles burst!!!

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
10/2/2010 12:39 pm

Jeanie,

Thank you!!! I feel better now. Taking off from the site didn't like what i was turning into. You name it was so ugly. I don't like being that. Wanna be beautiful. hahahahaha. talagang cira. Missing everyone. Regrets na my blogs are gone!!! Those happy birthdays and all. Enjoy your weekend!!!

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
10/2/2010 12:41 pm

    Quoting jean_1000:
    god give us everything we needs and problems and he make us smart to solve the problems...and i know as long we believe on him... every things will be alright...
Sis,

Every now and then when at the lowest point in life. Praying to him he answer our prayers. All the worst senarios, eventually it's alright. God is this wonderful being with so much unconditional love.

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
10/2/2010 12:44 pm

    Quoting  :

Dan,

Thanks for sharing the scriptures. Yes, a given that we will not get along with everyone. Keeping our faith on Him, will always straighten our sadness and no more worries...

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


Bebong2010 56F

10/2/2010 1:58 pm

i don't know you personally but as far as i can see based on my personal observation of your character in this site i can honestly say that you got a sweet desposition about you. you always try to see the good in everyone and that's not an easy task to do. i think you have a beautiful soul. so, cheer up. you will get what you truly deserve. have a good weekend.

only dead fish go with the flow ~ JolieLaide


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
10/2/2010 3:44 pm

welcome back Tess! it is good to have u again with us!


_Heath_cliff_ 39F
116 posts
10/2/2010 4:59 pm

People often meet their destiny on the road they take to avoid it.


eb1209

10/2/2010 5:11 pm

    Quoting  :

Aha! Now you are talking, Antonio!

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

10/2/2010 5:12 pm

Now, I feel so lazy blogging...I think this flu has something to do with it...Besides, I will be out of the country in 11 days...

Just call me ELZ


jean_1000 47F

10/2/2010 6:50 pm

    Quoting TessRb:
    Elz,

    I thank you immensely for calling me up and straightening my little head and weary heart. Btw, this is my pic taken last saturday in walking that 5K walk. Remember i thought he was gonna walk with me. Finally, took matters into my own hand. Walked it alone! I was so happy just to finish it. When i left i was pissed and just didn't like what i was turning into. Foods and live music after the race, there were two other ones today in Fremont one high school the other a hospital. Both for the Breast cancer foundation. October is the month for celebration and remembrance of this disease. So, i stayed away for a little bit. Until, got two emails asking why? And FB. Pray tell the whole reasons. Now, much calmer. I just wish him happiness. The lesson learned was don't ever rely anyone for your happiness. Where am i gonna look for happiness is moi!!! God help me...
thank god your so strong

love is the greatest gift of all


jean_1000 47F

10/2/2010 6:52 pm

    Quoting TessRb:
    Jeanie,

    Thank you!!! I feel better now. Taking off from the site didn't like what i was turning into. You name it was so ugly. I don't like being that. Wanna be beautiful. hahahahaha. talagang cira. Missing everyone. Regrets na my blogs are gone!!! Those happy birthdays and all. Enjoy your weekend!!!
sis we are all beautiful in our own way

love is the greatest gift of all


mia_belle 38F
533 posts
10/2/2010 7:30 pm

If we treat others the right way,
if we are always honest and always mind the truth,
perhaps bad fate will go around us,
showing us that we can make our own destiny.


*It's all said & done, it's real, and it's been fun.*


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
10/2/2010 10:31 pm

    Quoting  :

Antonio,

Thanks for the visit. Missed connection. I truly believe we are put on this earth to connect. Now in hitting it off right away or not. That's the big question. Think about it Elz is a great catch. It wasn't in the cards for you to connect relationship wise. Aren't you glad it happen that way, coz now you have your beautiful love that was really meant for you in the end. Everyone is happy!!!

Enjoy your Sunday!!!

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
10/2/2010 10:33 pm

    Quoting coxkevin:
    Sister, welcome back and thanks to my boss, elzzzzzzzz who always enlightening ppl by giving courage and good advice..............

    Sister, enjoy you too the weekend!!!

Raj,

Yes, we are very blessed that Elz watches over us all. She is a beautiful angel sent from God. Have a great weekend too!!!

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
10/2/2010 10:50 pm

    Quoting  :

GMA,

It takes courage to deal and accept what one can become. It's like do u wanna go to the dark side or see the light again? And once you fall in that pit of that deep abys...

Thank you so much and happy sunday too.

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
10/2/2010 10:55 pm

    Quoting  :

Marian,

You're making ate cry tears of joy on this one. Last time was when they deleted my handle. There you gave me these link that i thought was a gonner. So precious of you. Gratitude for always being so caring. God bless you abundantly with love and happiness!!!

Have a great sunday!!!

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
10/2/2010 11:10 pm

    Quoting Bebong2010:
    i don't know you personally but as far as i can see based on my personal observation of your character in this site i can honestly say that you got a sweet desposition about you. you always try to see the good in everyone and that's not an easy task to do. i think you have a beautiful soul. so, cheer up. you will get what you truly deserve. have a good weekend.
Bebs,

Thank you, coming from one beautiful soul to another!!! All i ever want is to make everyone happy. Because when i see their sadness i cry like a big baby.

Enjoy your sunday and blessings!!!!

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
10/2/2010 11:17 pm

    Quoting  :

Justine,

Thanks for the reassurance. Earlier had the t-shirt picture came back and FFF switch it back to this pic? I guess they don't want any other advertisement. My first marathon was way back in the 90's but that was just for a newspaper. Registered to run the 10K, but walked 5k. This time it was for this foundation. Didn't know there are so many. They honored a lady that just found out 2 months diagnosed and a nun for 35yrs surviving. Recieved ribbons. She did the run, imagine how strong she was!!! We walked around the lake and it was so awesome everyone uniting for one cause...

Have a blessed sunday and take care!!!

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
10/2/2010 11:20 pm

    Quoting Sulei:
    welcome back Tess! it is good to have u again with us!
Sulei,

Thank you and for the chat on FB. Just going with the flow of life. And see where it leads me. Biggest question "when will i ever learn"???

Enjoy your sunday!!!

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...