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Bebong2010 56F
13113 posts
10/12/2010 5:34 am
clever women

The other day at 6:00 I was woken up by commotion outside on the other side of the street. I heard car doors slamming, things being thrown on the ground and of course voices. I raised myself up and look through the slits of the white wooden venetian blinds and saw the neighbour couple shouting at each other while hurling keys and personal belongings at one another, I thought: “so early???”

I always find them strange (God knows what they think of me) when we first moved in, their house was (and still is) the most untended among the neighbourhood. Weeds are growing between the pavements in the front of their house and sprouting under their window sills. There were junk parked on their drive way and under the windows and on their balcony outside their bedroom window on the second floor including a claw foot bath which I’m dying to put in my garden to use as a flower bed.

But since we moved in and begun to renovate our place they starting doing that too. They even gone further copying our interior deco right up to the colour of every little thing that is visible from the front window, but taste you cannot buy. Just recently, they installed a new swimming pool and a sauna in their backyard and again I thought: “if they only set their minds on cleaning first before anything else.” Besides, I don’t believe in wallowing myself in some stagnant water full of chlorine.

I don’t like them from the very beginning. Not so much because they are not saying hello whenever we see each other, or if we encounter them on the road they will drive passed us so they can be the first on the door and slam it right on our face. I wonder why. No, my dislike is originated of these people being loud and I mean loud. They cannot talk like normal people do and does it has to be till 4:00 in the morning? But oh la la if you are the one who dare to use electric lawnmower or jackhammer or drill during the weekend… you will find the police knocking at your door. Stpid people!

Yesterday the elderly couple next to us caught me trying to dodge them on my way to the front door and the result is I had to talk to them for 3 hours holding my purchases from the supermarket. But at least I learned that the other neighbours split, that she thrown him out with nothing but the clothes on his back. That they are not married and no legal contract or whatsoever that it’s her house and he have no right even though he spent his salary for 9 years and his savings beautifying the place. That the I thought theirs is only hers and the reason for the split is he started to wake up and begun questioning his rights. That the woman said somewhere that if that exotic foreigner who just moved in can find someone like that young engineer… well, she thought she can do better. I thought: "she's welcome to it."

I was genuinely shock and I said that too to the elderly couple and they told me:
“Oh , it’s nothing compare to our neighbour few houses further. She bought a shack/hovel of a place and begun having an affair with a contractor, then a plumber, a mason, an electrician, a house painter and so on. When her house is finished, she throws out all of them and currently having an affair both with an officer in the army and when he’s away an owner of a menagerie and she’s now riding/owns a for free as a hobby.”

I thought to myself: “Clever women.”





only dead fish go with the flow ~ JolieLaide


Bebong2010 56F

10/12/2010 5:40 am

let's see if someone will flood the front page again

only dead fish go with the flow ~ JolieLaide


Bebong2010 56F

10/12/2010 5:48 am

this is my bedroom
on the right side of the picture there is a door connecting to D's bedroom
handy and exciting
the master bathroom is adjoining his
i have my own bathroom but only using it during "me time"
i have to pass through hubby's space when i have to dress up
coz the dressing is there too
imagine what things i could do while passing
like walking half/naked and so (kidding )

only dead fish go with the flow ~ JolieLaide


eb1209

10/12/2010 8:11 am

It's just me..The front page Queen...

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

10/12/2010 8:11 am

I guess, I am not that clever after all? Deng!

Just call me ELZ


Bebong2010 56F

10/12/2010 9:27 am

    Quoting  :

it looks cozy because making love is not allowed here
this is a virgin room
mine and mine alone

btw i saw that you found him but he put another picture than the one i saw
he looks better than before
(i think my meds are kicking in)

only dead fish go with the flow ~ JolieLaide


Bebong2010 56F

10/12/2010 9:30 am

    Quoting  :

you know him well
i think it depends on what day it is
if it's been 3 days... he might react
if it's longer he would knock
if longer longer he might suggest
if it's even longer he will complain
but earlier than that... nada!

only dead fish go with the flow ~ JolieLaide


Bebong2010 56F

10/12/2010 9:31 am

    Quoting  :

i mean that angel thing who burried your bday post

only dead fish go with the flow ~ JolieLaide


Bebong2010 56F

10/12/2010 9:33 am

    Quoting eb1209:
    It's just me..The front page Queen...
i remember DS calling you the queen of bloglandia
btw he's on your blog trying to arrange a meeting in camiguin or anywhere you fancy
he wanted to talk to you about 3fs and everything except yourselves
you don't answer yet
i'm curious

only dead fish go with the flow ~ JolieLaide


Bebong2010 56F

10/12/2010 9:35 am

    Quoting eb1209:
    I guess, I am not that clever after all? Deng!
same here same here
like i said in honey's blog
i should have take the money and run
maybe this time i'm not worrying about mundane things

but seriously we are not like that
i think i would not be able to sleep or look at myself in the mirror if i put a stunt like that

only dead fish go with the flow ~ JolieLaide


Bebong2010 56F

10/12/2010 12:57 pm

    Quoting  :

in every rule...eh?

reminds me of what one particular woman said "It is the kind of 'c*ck-it-up-jack-it-up-dig-out-de-red' discussion" whatever in jesus name she meant by that

only dead fish go with the flow ~ JolieLaide


Bebong2010 56F

10/12/2010 12:58 pm

    Quoting  :

i guess women like that will unload everything in their arsenal to reach their goal and obtain what ever is is they set out to gain
i admire them

only dead fish go with the flow ~ JolieLaide


jane82 110F

10/12/2010 1:46 pm

Guy mates and myself are admiring your room.



within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
10/12/2010 1:48 pm

Bebs,

Love the decor. Very elegant and sophisticated. Peaceful and serene!!! Someone for sure got blogged happy!!! Tried to read some pointers so my next marriage would work...

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


Bebong2010 56F

10/12/2010 3:13 pm

    Quoting jane82:
    Guy mates and myself are admiring your room.
are you having an orgy
kidding
thanks darling i thought i post it so you can see my space since you cannot view my album
i will post D's later
and other rooms too

only dead fish go with the flow ~ JolieLaide


Bebong2010 56F

10/12/2010 3:19 pm

    Quoting TessRb:
    Bebs,

    Love the decor. Very elegant and sophisticated. Peaceful and serene!!! Someone for sure got blogged happy!!! Tried to read some pointers so my next marriage would work...
thanks darling
my whole house is more or less in this style only varying in theme and colour

is not blog happy tess it's more like blog crazy
i can stand 4 or 5 in a row but 45??? c'mon

personally i don't know if that would help (me) since every situation and person is different and if i cannot be myself in a relation/frindship i think i would die

do you think men do that effort too?
i encounter a lot of articles about how to please your man and all that sort of things but so seldom i come accross the same articles for men i wonder why?

only dead fish go with the flow ~ JolieLaide


Bebong2010 56F

10/12/2010 3:20 pm

    Quoting  :

antonio
yes very

only dead fish go with the flow ~ JolieLaide


Bebong2010 56F

10/12/2010 3:22 pm

    Quoting  :

me too that's why usually it doesn't work

different strokes for different folks

when i was young i said the same things
if you become as old as me we talk again

only dead fish go with the flow ~ JolieLaide


Bebong2010 56F

10/12/2010 3:25 pm

    Quoting  :

and any chance rekindling the past i mean fire

he looks cuter now
before i thought... why? (shallow me)

seriously isn't he looks better?

only dead fish go with the flow ~ JolieLaide


Bebong2010 56F

10/12/2010 3:26 pm

    Quoting  :

wait... i'll check

(sht! i have headache! just finished painting the stairs to 3rd floor
smells awful! pardon me brb

only dead fish go with the flow ~ JolieLaide


jean_1000 47F

10/12/2010 4:52 pm

i love your room! so elegant...

love is the greatest gift of all


jean_1000 47F

10/12/2010 4:54 pm

some woman are smart eh

love is the greatest gift of all


jean_1000 47F

10/12/2010 4:56 pm

i notice your at fff on your computer... my eyes are good today

love is the greatest gift of all


Bebong2010 56F

10/13/2010 2:57 am

    Quoting  :

the proper term is french country chic but indeed the house is victorian/edwardian
people who been in my house said the same including my children
my son sometimes said as a joke: mama, why don't you mess up few things here and there to take the interior magazine look off? it's scary to even sit anywhere."

sometimes if my daughter visits the first thing she's going to say the moment i opened the door is: "is somebody lives here?" or " how could you move freely in here?"

only dead fish go with the flow ~ JolieLaide


Bebong2010 56F

10/13/2010 3:01 am

    Quoting  :

i'm only joking
if i remember correctly i was one of the many who adviced you strongly against pursuing a relationship with this guy
his moral view on a relationship was not how it supposed to be
people could change their ways but the basic will remain the same

only dead fish go with the flow ~ JolieLaide


Bebong2010 56F

10/13/2010 3:04 am

    Quoting  :

mostly
aside from electric/plumbing/gas installation... yes
before i knew him i never hold a paintbrush and so does he
but the difference between us is i can learn... and fast
the decoration, i have an inborn talent and natural instinct for this

only dead fish go with the flow ~ JolieLaide