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Bebong2010 56F
13113 posts
10/8/2010 4:15 am
Let's play!

When I was young ( I don’t remember anymore how and why the conversation leads to this but yeah…) I’ve been told that if I touch myself my hand will be rotten till it falls off. So, I never did till about five years ago (because I need to!) but guess it was too late for I don’t like it. In short, I never (meaning almost not or not so very often) do- the - bate. Do you? They say it’s normal and healthy. Agree?

Cheating… is anyone here cheated in a perfectly (or not perfectly) good (or not good) relationship? If yes why? They say if women cheated it is mostly for emotional reason while men can do it anytime anywhere for purely physical purposes. Do you believe in this? If no, did it ever cross your mind or been tempted to do it even just for once? My answer to that is yes. Why? Call it curiosity call it revenge call it anything but yes I did.

Toys… who own one? Who has plenty? Do you keep it for yourself or share it with somebody? Is it pure luxury or rather necessity? I have one called European lover. It is an exact replica of you-know-what. Got it as a gift when I married you-know-who and still in the box, unopened and unwrapped. For the time being I don’t need it.

Faking…
We women all fake it at some point of our life weather we would like to admit it or not. If someone says to me that she never did it, she is either joking or lying. And the odds is great that it is the latter rather than the first, simply because it is the painful truth; we have to fake it sometimes if (God forbids) not all the time.
But we really do fake it once and a while whatever the reasons are. It could be as mundane as being tired or not being in the mood or simply having a headache.
But at one point in our life, we really do. Who has enough courage to admit doing it ha ha…

And remember… this is all but fun. You can answer with the truth or you can lie. You can make up story to humour me, still I would appreciate it. C’mon, let’s play!







only dead fish go with the flow ~ JolieLaide


Bebong2010 56F

10/8/2010 4:27 am

both my ex and my current said: men find emotional cheating (meaning sharing intimate feelings with somebody) far more worse that physical infidelity. they say $ex is just $ex. after it happened you can forget about it(sounds an excuse to me for whatever it is they are doing or about to do) but being close and sharing friendship with the opposite is deeper, last longer and more threatening. for me, it's the other way around.

only dead fish go with the flow ~ JolieLaide


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
10/8/2010 6:20 am

Good morning Bebs!!! Gonna go into further details after work. Crunch for time. This is really so taboo for some folks...

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


Bebong2010 56F

10/8/2010 7:50 am

i know tess
i wonder who would dare

only dead fish go with the flow ~ JolieLaide


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
10/8/2010 8:22 am

huh? what was this blog about?
i read it all but didn't get it!
its either i no more comprehend easily
or because i spend all the time reading and looking
at ur mini skirt in the pic!
godness! it doesn't even take an effort to see
every thing naturally!
and it is so tepmting po!



Sulei 66M
8039 posts
10/8/2010 8:28 am

when i read the title first,
i said good it is weekend here
in the middle east and am so
prpared for playing!
am at home alone and even lazy to cover
my sin weapons, till i saw the mini skirt!
i gone for some time gloating at the pic
as if it was a total unconsciousness!



Sulei 66M
8039 posts
10/8/2010 8:29 am

as to the first part
playing...nowadays, for us, guys,
no need!
so many are always ready to play us
in a way or another!



Sulei 66M
8039 posts
10/8/2010 8:33 am

second part.. cheating:
a naughty souls is always forgiven
when gone in a whim!
women knowing that fact
don't really make that caprice
a cause of a heartbreaking issue!



Sulei 66M
8039 posts
10/8/2010 8:35 am

toys?
i cant relate to that!



Sulei 66M
8039 posts
10/8/2010 8:37 am

On faking: i have the courage to say i never fake anything, no matter what! and i confess it is stupid to do so because it brings lots of headaches! but i just cant do it, and that is me!


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
10/8/2010 8:38 am

    Quoting Bebong2010:
    both my ex and my current said: men find emotional cheating (meaning sharing intimate feelings with somebody) far more worse that physical infidelity. they say $ex is just $ex. after it happened you can forget about it(sounds an excuse to me for whatever it is they are doing or about to do) but being close and sharing friendship with the opposite is deeper, last longer and more threatening. for me, it's the other way around.
hon, i agree with ur 2 men too! am I gonna be the 3rd now?


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
10/8/2010 8:40 am

    Quoting Bebong2010:
    i know tess
    i wonder who would dare
dare what, sweetheart? am here just an open book for u, as long as it is not on the shelf


Bebong2010 56F

10/8/2010 8:43 am

mr. sulei i am wearing a jacket a shawl and boots and the picture was taken from quite a far distance
either you have a very strong imagination or your horses indeed gone wild

btw we're waiting for you somewhere
jeanny is alreading threatening to copy and paste the past

only dead fish go with the flow ~ JolieLaide


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
10/8/2010 8:51 am

(sweetface) said my typing sucks here! isn't sucking part of the "foreplay" ?


Bebong2010 56F

10/8/2010 11:51 am

    Quoting Sulei:
    when i read the title first,
    i said good it is weekend here
    in the middle east and am so
    prpared for playing!
    am at home alone and even lazy to cover
    my sin weapons, till i saw the mini skirt!
    i gone for some time gloating at the pic
    as if it was a total unconsciousness!

are you a legs man mr. sulei
you see thighs everywhere it seems

cover your weapon of sin? what in God's name you mean by that
till you see the mini skirt? help! my imagination is running wild

only dead fish go with the flow ~ JolieLaide


Bebong2010 56F

10/8/2010 11:53 am

    Quoting Sulei:
    as to the first part
    playing...nowadays, for us, guys,
    no need!
    so many are always ready to play us
    in a way or another!

coming from a true ladies man yourself
i have no choice but to believe it

how many times a week you go the playground to play? 2-3 times?
or gaming is restricted only in the weekend?

only dead fish go with the flow ~ JolieLaide


Bebong2010 56F

10/8/2010 11:59 am

    Quoting Sulei:
    second part.. cheating:
    a naughty souls is always forgiven
    when gone in a whim!
    women knowing that fact
    don't really make that caprice
    a cause of a heartbreaking issue!

reminds me of what someone said to me in the philippines
he said he is always faithful in his heart whatever that means
in my observation, women there is more lax when it comes to "caprice"
of their men where areas here in the west, those devices is guarantee for an instant divorce me myself i could not tolerate

only dead fish go with the flow ~ JolieLaide


Bebong2010 56F

10/8/2010 12:00 pm

    Quoting Sulei:
    toys?
    i cant relate to that!

good for you
i'll keep that in mind
a man after my own heart

only dead fish go with the flow ~ JolieLaide


Bebong2010 56F

10/8/2010 12:02 pm

    Quoting Sulei:
    On faking: i have the courage to say i never fake anything, no matter what! and i confess it is stupid to do so because it brings lots of headaches! but i just cant do it, and that is me!
i assume you are talking about emotionally faking
because i find it hard to believe that a man can fake physically
it virtually and technically impossible

only dead fish go with the flow ~ JolieLaide


Bebong2010 56F

10/8/2010 12:03 pm

    Quoting Sulei:
    hon, i agree with ur 2 men too! am I gonna be the 3rd now?
depends
would you like to be one

only dead fish go with the flow ~ JolieLaide


Bebong2010 56F

10/8/2010 12:04 pm

    Quoting Sulei:
    (sweetface) said my typing sucks here! isn't sucking part of the "foreplay" ?
we're on foreplay already?
time flies
and i'm running behind

only dead fish go with the flow ~ JolieLaide


Bebong2010 56F

10/8/2010 12:06 pm

and where is the sweetface you are talking about?
don't see her around
can you see something i don't?
in my other blog
i cannot see jeanny at all
unless she's quoting herself

only dead fish go with the flow ~ JolieLaide


Bebong2010 56F

10/8/2010 1:28 pm

    Quoting  :

agree
pleasantly surprised you see it that way

only dead fish go with the flow ~ JolieLaide


Bebong2010 56F

10/8/2010 4:20 pm

    Quoting Sulei:
    dare what, sweetheart? am here just an open book for u, as long as it is not on the shelf
if you remember our pact when we're two gypsies playing on the sand
that we will not call each other darling (my fault i called u first) sweetheart or anything so common
we said we are going to find a special name for each other
something nobody use before
but the storm came and we forget all about it

read from cover to cover and still know nothing
five years is a long time to wait

only dead fish go with the flow ~ JolieLaide


Bebong2010 56F

10/8/2010 4:46 pm

    Quoting  :

before anything else i want to commend you for answering all my inquiries in a clever and very educated manner. it shows decent background and equally befitting training and i agree to all of them except when someone is looking for reciprocation or in a stable relationship the rules might varied a bit

only dead fish go with the flow ~ JolieLaide


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
10/8/2010 5:52 pm

    Quoting Bebong2010:
    depends
    would you like to be one
only if the 3rd is the last!