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stellaheart_CC 44F
175 posts
5/11/2014 8:50 pm

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5/17/2014 6:16 am

Pulling the trigger to Racerx428

As CHEATING roots from the cheater, the one being cheated on shouldn't take the blame no matter what the excuses. Cheating arises from many different angles but I should say that the root of the action is still on the cheater... If he ends up unsatisfied with his choice, if he's got issues he can't face alone that he needed to drag an innocent one who hopes for his love... In general, as a person, he himself isn't WHOLE. To the one being cheated on, don't do the same thing. Don't make cheating become your personal issue, it can't be all about you, in that your primary concern is the best that you can do out of pain or joy and not out of other people's.

MAINLY, I'm posting this, sir because I like your graphical photo This is a self-reflection on my part...

On the other hand, being happy in a relationship is a decision. If you want to remain in a situation, we only have to make sure that a noble reason is a scaffold for staying and not anything that concerns of a cognitive dissonance because it's cowardice. Just my two scents and a half



TWIN SOULS


eb1209

5/12/2014 8:30 am

I believe in honesty, no matter how it will hurt either the recipient or the giver of the truth. At least, you end the relationship with RESPECT, even though you fell out of LOVE...

Just call me ELZ


racerx428 110M
1000 posts
5/12/2014 2:38 pm

Stella, why does it have to be a " He " that cheats it can be a " She" that cheats too....


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TessRb 64F
7258 posts
5/13/2014 8:28 am

Karma is real. Some just love to cheat coz they are not satisfied. They find something wrong and looks else where. They will not change ever...

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


racerx428 110M
1000 posts
5/17/2014 3:05 am

    Quoting stellaheart_CC:
    If I do that everyone will think I'm a lesbian. Or probably the best way is to search the world history, by which the cheating or adultery was first committed- male or female. Once you find out it was the female I would use SHE in general terms
Stella, i don't have the time to search history...life is too short


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racerx428 110M
1000 posts
5/17/2014 3:07 am

    Quoting  :

What comes around goes around....


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racerx428 110M
1000 posts
5/17/2014 3:12 am

    Quoting  :

I totally agree... the truth is she stayed with her story to the very last txt and never showed up! Its all good, big brother knows...


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