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stellaheart_CC 44F
175 posts
5/7/2014 12:03 am

Last Read:
5/18/2014 3:23 am

Blame Yourself NOW

Yes, still true that nobody else can help us but ourselves by simply
accepting, “There is something wrong with me why I am not happy”,
instead of wailing, “ What did I do wrong? I did everything, I gave everything and yet he betrayed me. What kind of people or Christians are they!” Such kind of usual fuss wouldn’t do any good as it blocks you from your own self-recognition because your actual focus is on others. So, it’s alright. Go ahead, blame yourself! Psychologists won’t tell you that but it’s better that way than blaming others especially for everything! Who made the decision? You. Who made a choice to stick around? You. Whatever the consequences, don’t expect that somebody will come up to you and say, “I’m sorry, I’m blaming myself” because they too are busy blaming others including you. Whatever the consequences, you will find yourself alone and nobody else will lift you up in the darkest room but yourself. So tell yourself now, “You are so selfish, you are so stupid. Can you be careful this time? Can you be easy with your temper, pride, ego, so you won’t be sorry afterwards? You have no right to demand! You are responsible of your own! If somebody else is blaming you right now, I am also blaming you! Make it right!”



TWIN SOULS


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
5/7/2014 12:44 pm

Yes, this is so true...all the way!!!

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
5/8/2014 12:35 pm

Sis,

I guess maturity comes with age. When we are young and immature we are reckless, and love with abandonment! The truth is everyone around us see the guy u love is a jerk. And leaves it up to you to finally wake up...just my two cents after all these years!

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


racerx428 110M
1000 posts
5/11/2014 3:54 am

Just be true with yourself...everything else will fall in place...


TReAt oTHerS LiKe YoU wAnT tO BE TReAteD !!!


racerx428 110M
1000 posts
5/17/2014 6:02 am

Stella, u can call me racerx...lol


TReAt oTHerS LiKe YoU wAnT tO BE TReAteD !!!