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val_entino 44M
717 posts
5/4/2010 11:28 am
JEALOUSY TIP

Don't tell me you've never been jealous. It's normal to be jealous and in fact it's healthy to be jealous cause it gives us determination to do things a little harder in order to accomplish what others have that we don't have. This is why people, companies or nations want to strive harder whether it involves money, power, love, business, sports or just want an exposure or fame to become better than others, we live in a competitive world!

This behavior becomes detrimental when it reaches the extreme level and the person in that state of mind not being aware of it. Most people who experience severe jealousy never discuss it with their close friends or family members for anxiety of being humiliated so they rather keep it onto themselves. This lead to an accumulation of anger and frustrations inside to the point of emotional breakdown. If this person can't show it through physical violence, s/he will show it by threats and other means in retaliation to hurt the person who made them felt inferior or degraded including the person who they have an emotional attachment.

Here is one tip when you're in this situation, back up and evaluate yourself. You're not admitting a defeat but mending the psychological aspect while rejuvenating yourself into the positive person you should, to regain self-esteem, the lost energy and focus in rebuilding integrity, hope and confidence..instead of adding enemies.

frozenflower3 64F

5/4/2010 12:12 pm

 I just wish someone would listen to this great advice...


sweetheart10 41F

5/4/2010 12:21 pm

 wow.. very well said


val_entino 44M
604 posts
5/4/2010 5:47 pm
    Quoting frozenflower3:
    I just wish someone would listen to this great advice...
That someone might read it but the person will pretend blind thou


val_entino 44M
604 posts
5/4/2010 5:50 pm

 Thanks, have you ever had an extreme jealous bf


val_entino 44M
604 posts
5/4/2010 5:52 pm
    Quoting  :
Musta na


val_entino 44M
604 posts
5/4/2010 6:09 pm
    Quoting  :
Unfortunately, when jealousy is taken to the next level it becomes traumatic to the relationship. Sometimes a jealous lover makes u to feel special but an overjealous bf or gf who can't control this type of behavior can become a pain in the neck


val_entino 44M
604 posts
5/4/2010 6:13 pm
    Quoting  :
It's a part of life but it's also something we should be in control of


jean_1000 47F

5/4/2010 10:30 pm

 i remember when i was in 4th year HS...i have a crush to this guy but that time i don't like to have a boy friend but crush na crush ko siya... he so handsome to my eyes and smell so good... but since i told him i don't want to have a bf yet so he make ligaw to his classmate.... every day when i saw them i'm so jealous... but end of the year his classmate told me that his girl was crying for he want to break up with her... we celebrate our graduation party and we have dance that night... he ask me for a dance and ghosss he hold me so close and told me he just use the girl to make me jealous... it works .... but still i don't wanna have a bf.
love is the greatest gift of all


val_entino 44M
604 posts
5/5/2010 7:35 am
    Quoting jean_1000:
    i remember when i was in 4th year HS...i have a crush to this guy but that time i don't like to have a boy friend but crush na crush ko siya... he so handsome to my eyes and smell so good... but since i told him i don't want to have a bf yet so he make ligaw to his classmate.... every day when i saw them i'm so jealous... but end of the year his classmate told me that his girl was crying for he want to break up with her... we celebrate our graduation party and we have dance that night... he ask me for a dance and ghosss he hold me so close and told me he just use the girl to make me jealous... it works .... but still i don't wanna have a bf.
Your parents were strict or afraid to be in a relationship? I don't know if that's jealousy if you didn't want him to be your bf coz you're not ready..more envy than jealousy ..for certain someone here is either envious or jealous for not letting my comments read by one of the bloggers..her comments are probably invisible on my blogs too.


val_entino 44M
604 posts
5/5/2010 7:48 am
    Quoting  :
Perhaps, but to put jealousy in a category of love if a third party was already involve then you try to break that relationship is more of an insane jealousy.


sweetheart10 41F

5/5/2010 8:05 am
    Quoting val_entino:
    Thanks, have you ever had an extreme jealous bf
Yes and it was not a good experience for me.


jean_1000 47F

5/5/2010 6:01 pm
    Quoting val_entino:
    Your parents were strict or afraid to be in a relationship? I don't know if that's jealousy if you didn't want him to be your bf coz you're not ready..more envy than jealousy ..for certain someone here is either envious or jealous for not letting my comments read by one of the bloggers..her comments are probably invisible on my blogs too.
its my choice not to have a bf... my father's gone when i was 9 years old and for 7 children in the family and i'm the 3rd child... hard life is what makes me strong to fight the feeling of not to be in love.....i'm scared to got pregnant and get married at young age... i have lots of plan to my brothers and sisters... but i do have a great time with friends....but when i was in college i have a bf for i'm old enough to understand... but not my first crush but i do love my first bf. and we go to fiesta. and i got so lucky my patient during my intern ask me to travel with him so here i am still in cali... and the sad part is that i left my bf heart broken
love is the greatest gift of all


jean_1000 47F

5/5/2010 6:08 pm
    Quoting val_entino:
    Your parents were strict or afraid to be in a relationship? I don't know if that's jealousy if you didn't want him to be your bf coz you're not ready..more envy than jealousy ..for certain someone here is either envious or jealous for not letting my comments read by one of the bloggers..her comments are probably invisible on my blogs too.
it could be not jealousy for i know i can destroy their relationship anytime but instead if his gf ask me something ' school stuff' i give her what she want... i don't let her know that her bf have a feeling for me and his my crush.
love is the greatest gift of all




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