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Blogs > kawaibelle > A moment Frozen in time


kawaibelle 49F
229 posts
7/5/2012 5:37 am

Last Read:
7/24/2012 4:34 am
falling for someone is the hardest thing to do...
I think that the problem is that I’m stuck waiting for him to do something, to make a move, to say the perfect thing. And the problem is, that I shouldn’t be that girl, the one who sits and waits for him. I should be independent. I should think clearly and consistently without having my mind jump straight back to him. Yeah, falling for someone is the hardest thing to do. And the stupid thing is the thing standing in my way is fear of losing him, the fear of rejection, the fear that I might lose a friend that means everything to me. I want to be everything to him, but I’m not. I’m not the kind of girl he needs, and I’ll never be that girl.

If you can't handle me at my worst... You don't deserve me at my BEST!
Igorotamontanosa 58F

7/23/2012 9:17 pm

 And the stupid thing is the thing standing in my way is fear of losing him, the fear of rejection, the fear that I might lose a friend that means everything to me."
______________________________________________________________________________"And the stupid thing is the thing standing in my way is fear of losing him, the fear of rejection, the fear that I might lose a friend that means everything to me."
__________________________________________________________________

Alas that is in our nature and it is very difficult and painful to fight it.

There is a theory that men would be better (and more successful)in relationships if they made there intentions clear up front. I do not know if it works the other way round (and I am not qualified to say).

Let men be wise by instinct if they can, but when this fails be wise by good advice.

SOPHOCLES, Antigone

Many receive advice, few profit by it.

PUBLILIUS SYRUS, Moral Sayings

well said ....and very true.
Sad thing is emotions is the hardest to win ..specially your own emotions.___________________________________________________


kawaibelle 49F

7/7/2012 11:39 pm

 Thanks to all u those who give some a piece of advice...
If you can't handle me at my worst... You don't deserve me at my BEST!


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
7/5/2012 11:20 pm

 Sis,

If ur afraid of rejection and what not maybe he is not the right one for you. Because only wanting a friend maybe. If a guy wants a girl so bad he will say it already. And not beat around the bush...
Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


eb1209

7/5/2012 6:41 pm

 Ahhhh! If you are NOT his kind of girl, then, please do yourself a favor...GET OVER HIM!...HE will always be a friend to you, but if you cannot help falling for him, I "suggest" you stay away...(my two cents)
Just call me ELZ




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