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Why Do People Lie ??  

6/28/2009 11:07 pm
Yeah, i wanted to text for an opinion from a friend who's known for being a liar as to why people lie but i thought she might not be truthful with her answer

Bad thing about lying is it's bad when it risks a precious reputation. When i was in ELR long time ago, some schmuck there was trying to court a girl i knew for a private chat and the girl kept on making excuses so i told her, Oh that guy is not even worth a lie! The point is, if lying at that moment is losing one last point for a destination to hell, it would be disgusting if some was the cause of such doom

Chocolate cake is expensive, its look is extremely scrumptious but not all of them is actually nice. It's easier to profess it totally tastes nice for the sake of preserving its value- it's a chocolate cake! Even if in fact it's not totally pleasing.

Sacrifice is flavorful when a little girl hopes for Santa than learning to accept there's no way or there can be no other way to obtain what her heart yearns about. The road to take would be harder as she will start to accept a certain fact.

Anyway, this isn't about liars, but why do we lie? Is it necessary to lie? There are some areas of my vulnerability that are not too nice, oh just how disgusting, which i think should be better kept as mystery or a puzzle that only myself could solve for a gift of peace and freedom, whatever that would sound nicer! There are also times i could not find help which sometimes that help is not even allowed nor necessary.

Sometimes it's better to offend God than to hurt the people who also live inside my heart, in my thoughts, in my house, in my neighborhood and the people who are fragile and needy God is much more understanding than them anyway. It's not that Im blaming anyone that i have to lie sometimes but we are just so sensitive, ya know!


... juz my kiddie thoughts
jane82
7837 posts 

6/29/2009 9:22 am

For many reasons.
Lying is part of living.
Or

Even saints were sinners.

LadyEros
1460 posts 

6/29/2009 9:54 am

you can read my blog on the reasons people lie...if its in terms of relationships

motivator8
98 posts 

6/29/2009 10:49 am

There is a saying that "truth hurts". True friends are sometimes forced to lie to avoid hurting their friends. Risking that the untimely discovery of the lie could cause more pain.

MrsJohnny

6/29/2009 5:09 pm

    Quoting AphexJohnny:
    Nice babeI think the only people it`s really necessary to lie to is kids! I think if they know too much they`ll grow up too fast
Absolutely babe! It's like kids force us to lie most of the time esp when we try to scare them, "there's witch, there's witch!" and anything just to make them follow!

... juz my kiddie thoughts

MrsJohnny

6/29/2009 5:10 pm

    Quoting jane82:
    For many reasons.
    Lying is part of living.
    Or

    Even saints were sinners.
Or sinners were once saints till they started to lie



... juz my kiddie thoughts

MrsJohnny

6/29/2009 5:12 pm

    Quoting motivator8:
    There is a saying that "truth hurts". True friends are sometimes forced to lie to avoid hurting their friends. Risking that the untimely discovery of the lie could cause more pain.
Now that's the risky part there, sir Capi! It's better to be transparent as much as we can towards the people who trust us and who are dear to us.

... juz my kiddie thoughts

MrsJohnny

6/29/2009 5:14 pm

    Quoting LadyEros:
    you can read my blog on the reasons people lie...if its in terms of relationships
Which blog? You failed to mention the title, LafyE! Dont forget to mention the date, the time and the reference number too



... juz my kiddie thoughts

LadyEros
1460 posts 

6/30/2009 8:53 am

    Quoting MrsJohnny:
    Which blog? You failed to mention the title, LafyE! Dont forget to mention the date, the time and the reference number too


thats the title "the reasons people lie" posted july 27 2008 and i cant find a reference number

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