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tinkahMaviel 49F
2658 posts
6/27/2017 6:00 pm
Normal ???


In today's world "normal" seems to be a vague term. How does one define normal in a world of diversity.
One show i happen to come to see was "The KIngs" on TLC(travel and living asia). It was a story of a man married to a celebrity(Joey Mead). The "man" used to be a man He rode fast cars, he was a race car driver, worked out until he was macho, typical alpha male. He fell in love with Joey Mead who he married. Then he finally decided he wanted to come out of his hiding. HE initially crossed dressed. His friends were shocked especially his best friend who was devastated.
He actually wanted to become transsexual, get an operation to become a :"she". What interest' me is they still want to be married, they still kiss even in front of the camera. They were still you couple, yeah you know the love and respect was there but what about the normal sex????
Or should my question be is sex part of the normal married activity/ Or ms joey mead would prefer a lesbian relationship??
So tell me what is you take on this ??


it is only with the heart that one sees clearly, clearly. what is essential is invisible to the eye


tinkahMaviel 49F
3916 posts
6/27/2017 6:01 pm

Maybe we sahould ask that personal question too the couple

it is only with the heart that one sees clearly, clearly. what is essential is invisible to the eye


fantasiamore 65F
10796 posts
6/29/2017 1:14 am

depends on one's orientation i guess...normal can be relative and objective for the kind of person one has become...what maybe normal for me may not even make your standards, truth of the matter there...so i guess how one finds and is comfortable with in, his own perspective, he should find that normal...but because we live in a society that dictates our behavior and norms, any deviation from that can be considered out of range or what is believed to be abnormal by those who strictly conform to what is standard..

“I hold it true, whatever befall; I it, when I sorrow most.


tinker_viel 49F
2002 posts
6/29/2017 2:52 am

    Quoting fantasiamore:
    depends on one's orientation i guess...normal can be relative and objective for the kind of person one has become...what maybe normal for me may not even make your standards, truth of the matter there...so i guess how one finds and is comfortable with in, his own perspective, he should find that normal...but because we live in a society that dictates our behavior and norms, any deviation from that can be considered out of range or what is believed to be abnormal by those who strictly conform to what is standard..
tajaaaaanneee thanks for visiting again and thanks for your thoughts. maybe you should read my take on neurodiversity
good to see you around tajane

It is only with the heart that one sees clearly.....
What is essential is invisible to the eye


coolaboola 44F
14 posts
6/29/2017 7:34 pm

Kinda hard to know what's normal nowadays. Wham a he is a she and a she is a he or both. When a teenager is a patent and the 50 year old just became first time mom. Or the tattooed man dances ballet. Look , I'm confuse most of the time.

Hello by the way. First time here.


tinker_viel 49F
2002 posts
6/30/2017 1:01 am

    Quoting coolaboola:
    Kinda hard to know what's normal nowadays. Wham a he is a she and a she is a he or both. When a teenager is a patent and the 50 year old just became first time mom. Or the tattooed man dances ballet. Look , I'm confuse most of the time.

    Hello by the way. First time here.
well it is as it is in today's neurodiverse world
everything is a matter of perspective

It is only with the heart that one sees clearly.....
What is essential is invisible to the eye


tinker_viel 49F
2002 posts
6/30/2017 1:02 am

now i wonder why this blog is off the main page

It is only with the heart that one sees clearly.....
What is essential is invisible to the eye


ccdomonic 66M
112 posts
6/30/2017 7:17 am

I have never been accused of being normal ...
nor do i want to be
hugs cc


ccdomonic 66M
112 posts
6/30/2017 7:20 am

coolaboola welcome
i am sure things are no different than the used to be its just out in the open more and better known due to the media we have now
cheers.. cc


tinker_viel 49F
2002 posts
6/30/2017 11:12 am

    Quoting ccdomonic:
    I have never been accused of being normal ...
    nor do i want to be
    hugs cc
am glad am not normal too been feeling weird myself lately

It is only with the heart that one sees clearly.....
What is essential is invisible to the eye


ccdomonic 66M
112 posts
7/1/2017 9:32 am

we;come to the club


bluesky8 35M
1 post
7/13/2017 1:38 am

it's relative.