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Kathy1987 37F
419 posts
2/21/2009 3:47 pm
question of the day?


do you believe of finding someone online?if your answer is yes please share your experience and if you dont believe still free to share it with me !! Im new to this online chat so I need your opinion on things thank you all ! have a nice weekend!!!

Sulei 66M
8039 posts
2/21/2009 4:03 pm

it is possibleb but very hard! it is worth giving it a try, but u have to be careful at the same time!


True_Blue22 50F
868 posts
2/21/2009 4:09 pm

No, i dont have big expectations when i started online. The only reason i got to FFF is to talk to others, communicate, chat , blog but mostly to waste time lol i got so much on my hands!


instanet 47F
743 posts
2/21/2009 8:33 pm

It's not been easy for me..but you have to give it a try sis!

But the thing is, I am still believing. Still learning.Good luck!


luv_a_fair 54F
4621 posts
2/21/2009 11:40 pm

you can find "someone" anywhere...online, in a bar, in a church, at work, even a miscall on your fone can usher in "someone" in your life...the question is can you hit it off?...and next, can you sustain it?...and of course, will you take the chance to meet?...

about online predators?...that is the advantage of being online...you can avoid meeting them for real...

anywhere, take the best of whatever that world can offer...it really is all up to you


This is ME...I don't need your approval...


Kathy1987 37F

2/22/2009 3:56 pm

hi Aloha first of all I wanted to say Im sorry about the woman who chose your cousin over you ,is it awkward to see her knowing that you and her could have been a couple ?but thanks for the thoughts here I do need some friends who knows about being in the chatroom ,sinced I dont go there a lot so thank you for the heads up and you have a nice day ,oh btw are you from Hawaii?


Kathy1987 37F

2/22/2009 4:01 pm

Sulei sounds like you have tried it ,I do want to find it out first by going chatroom often and see what I can learn but you know what scares me ? the arguments , name calling is uncalled for but I would like to see if online dating works for me .. thanks Sulei for the visit here


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
2/23/2009 3:47 am

    Quoting  :

hello mangyans, nice meeting u here, at Kathy garden! lol wish u the best of FFF and real life too!


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
2/23/2009 3:53 am

    Quoting Kathy1987:
    Sulei sounds like you have tried it ,I do want to find it out first by going chatroom often and see what I can learn but you know what scares me ? the arguments , name calling is uncalled for but I would like to see if online dating works for me .. thanks Sulei for the visit here
good luck kathy! well, I don't want to generalize my experiences here.. some of them were great and unforgettable, but i also know "sweet moments never last" now if u can make them last, kathy, u r in heaven! if not, u r just another brick in the wall! any way time will tell! I advise u of more blog readings than chat rooms though! chat rooms is meant for us when we don't want to use our minds a lot! just relaxing every thing! lol


Kathy1987 37F

2/23/2009 6:47 am

luv_ thanks for the visit take care


Kathy1987 37F

2/23/2009 6:49 am

mangyans ,I do agree Sulei seems to know all the answers wow this is great finding friends here but chatroom? i dont seem to find someone to talk to there and most times they just wanted to post rude remarks to get noticed and I have no time for it but thanks for the visit here,K


Kathy1987 37F

2/23/2009 6:51 am

instanet thanks for the encouragement and yes I may try it but like ALoha said we have to be careful and I need to practice by chatting when I find a nice , peaceful room to go .take care


Kathy1987 37F

2/23/2009 6:58 am

Sulei ,i just started blogging recently sinced I cant find time to go in the chatroom without being called names or labeled as from other planet etc etc and I also read blogs but somehow I cant access some of them and I havent visited yours but Ill do it soon and also going chatroom is not really for me and Ive tried it couple times but I end up watching and reading comments that arent nice but thanks again for the post here and glad to met you here ,take care Kathy


Kathy1987 37F

2/23/2009 7:00 am

mangyans,pardon me Ma'am but what is LDR means? is that one of FFF term you use in the chatroom ? just curious thanks


Kathy1987 37F

2/23/2009 11:04 am

hi Aloha thanks for the comments here ,Im glad you moved on but seeing her must be so painful but if your cousin and her are happy you should be happy for them too .as far as chatroom Im not sure if its for me because I couldnt handle the name calling but Im always at work so I cant chat much but I hope to see you there one day and thanks for the nice and warm thoughts here .so were those ladies youve been in love with chatters? have you met them both in person ? Im glad youre also in CA small world and I have friends in your neighborhood and met them sometimes ..take care Aloha ,Kathy here


im_stacy
(Stacy Gielen)
113F
2795 posts
2/23/2009 7:26 pm

Yes ... it is possible, it is easy to detect the chemistry while chatting, but it takes an EB to validate that feeling!

When I low my friends et al give me energy.


Kathy1987 37F

2/24/2009 3:30 pm

hi Stacy , pardon me Ms but what do you mean by EB? thanks for the visit here take care


Kathy1987 37F

2/24/2009 3:33 pm

Yani , we all have tried and sometimes we failed but we do it again until we know the right person is there for us and all my life I have fallen for someone whom I thought would stand by me but because he was so afraid of our culture differences he followed his families and chose them over me but I have accepted it and moved on thanks for the visit ,Kathy


Kathy1987 37F

2/24/2009 3:35 pm

wow congratulations mr Scorpio ,now you have proven that online relationship does work and to those of us who still in doubts perhaps we can ask those couples who made a commitment here and made it a reality , good luck to both of you Sir,from Kathy