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A Relationship that Never Materialized... met this guy one hot summer day so wonderful that no one can`t deny.. for who wouldn`t, as he was so gentle but we`re not meant for each other after all.. he expressed love so dearly and said love was a mystery.. words of endearment he was so generous that i thought everything was precious.. then one day he wrote me a poem and was so happy to read it when i got home from New York with love he wrote so loving and sweet i thought.. then one day i saw him online said hello but no reply.. what on earth is going on and saw him chatting with another one.. waited for his reply for hours until my eyes got tired i went to sleep with sadness thinking what has transpired.. `let go` dictates my mind `use your common sense and don`t be blind.. internet love is impossible for someone far from visible. i soon have realized internet relationship is only for few.. love from a distant is a risk now, it will be a difficult wish. Note: This is my personal experience here in FFF...the place of origin of the letter was changed as a respect to the guy concerned..i`ve written it in a poem.. My question now is, are you in favor of a Long Distance Relationship? (LDR) Please share with me your experiences..this one of mine is not so inspiring though, but i`m sure some of yours are.. I am posting the poem sent to me by my special friend..i won`t be surprised if some of you have received similar ones... Here it goes... For My Dearest Lyn, i felt the love the other day across the ocean so far away to be so far, to be so near to hold you tight is in my mind but out of sight, i feel you with me both day and night you know ive thought of you tonight with all my prayers and hopes held tight the day we meet is close in sight i watched the sun set in the west to wake my love from her sleepless night the day will come, i have no fear when we will hear the sounds of birds to wake us from our first, not last sleepless night.. With All my Heart, D.. 
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1/15/2010 2:08 pm |
I am on a Long Distance Relationship as of now and so far all is going on well with the both of us. We always find time to communicate through phone. We've already celebrated our first year anniversary, ( and still counting ). Whenever he goes back to the Philippines, we always make sure we always find time to be with each other. We both have our own lives and priorities but we always set time for each other. Just being together is already a big thing. One important thing is TRUST. One can tell if the person is really into us. We women has our instincts.
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1/15/2010 1:54 pm |
Hello Venus, This is in connection with the so called LDR's. If you think the person you are in relation with is worth the wait, then it must be! Check out if both of you are really compatible and love each other to the extent that you can wait for a long time before being together. It is not easy going through lonely days and waiting for endless nights. But you can always imagine the immense pleasure you will experience when you meet up. Trust me, it is worth every lonely moment spent together. And remember, you are not alone. Your partner is also going through the same situation. And not just the two of you, there are thousands of couples out there who have a similar situation, probably worse than yours. Another important thing to be kept in mind in a long distance relation is the fact that communication should not suffer and distance is not an excuse. There are a lot of ways to keep in touch in a long distance relation. This is the age when communication takes place at the speed of thought. You name it, you have it. Internet has revolutionized the way we used to communicate and snail mails have been replaced by the super fast e-mails. Chatting is a popular way to communicate and most people resort to this, as it is cheaper than talking on the phone. It is definitely the next best thing to talking in person. So, don't worry if your beloved is miles away from you. Always believe in yourself and learn to trust the person you love. If you are in a long distance relation and you feel you can make it work, it is definitely worth a try. All the best! It has been said that we need just three things in life: Something to do, Something to look forward to And someone to love.” No matter how far you are, no matter how near, to lose you in the end is my greatest fear.. So I’m doing my best to show you how much I care!
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12/12/2009 9:06 pm |
Hello venusangel, I've been reading through your blogs, and it's just today that I am able to post comments. Honestly, I am reading your blogs at work where I don't have full access to internet.  One of these days, I will post my LDR experience here. I'm still trying to arrange my words as I don't know where to start .. God bless and more power.. Keep blogging!!
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9/22/2009 9:56 am |
Well, most guys are like that here in fff or in the internet for that matter, so be careful yourself..who is jzen by the way?
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9/22/2009 9:53 am |
No, lily, i never met anyone from brunei here..he`s a a caucasian..would you mind to tell me about your story?..thanks!
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2/10/2009 5:40 pm |
thanks to all my friends who have shared their thought here.. hugs and kisses to you all!!!!
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2/10/2009 8:54 am |
thanks to all my friends who have shared their thought here.. hugs and kisses to you all!!!!
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2/7/2009 8:02 am |
ate venus, you are a born writer....i really appreciate what you have posted about ldr....so great...i learned and realized it ahead...so am more cautious now.... you are really enlightening me...i will take heed of your advice... i look forward to the true confessions coming fromyour friend...tell her, i won't miss reading them...she must post them...thanks to both of you... ivy
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2/7/2009 7:55 am |
ate venus, you are a born writer....i really appreciate what you have posted about ldr....so great...i learned and realized it ahead...so am more cautious now.... you are really enlightening me...i will take heed of your advice... i look forward to the true confessions coming fromyour friend...tell her, i won't miss reading them...she must post them...thanks to both of you... ivy  ...youve been reading all my blogs..thanks to you!!this is one thing women on the net have to read really..it is very difficult to find the right one on the net what more of loving someone di ba?, but i know of some who are into LDRs and theyre happy..call it luck for them..
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ate venus, you are a born writer....i really appreciate what you have posted about ldr....so great...i learned and realized it ahead...so am more cautious now.... you are really enlightening me...i will take heed of your advice... i look forward to the true confessions coming fromyour friend...tell her, i won't miss reading them...she must post them...thanks to both of you... ivy
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1/31/2009 11:44 pm |
oh i hope it will sis...but unluckily, i won't give in na to this game sis....
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1/31/2009 11:41 pm |
thanks sis, i changed it na.. it was just a product of boredom hehehehe 
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1/31/2009 11:39 pm |
ohhhhh .. i had 10 LDRs and each has its own story hehehehe... hmmm i will recall each and i'll blog it out sis....
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1/29/2009 8:02 am |
ohhhhh .. i had 10 LDRs and each has its own story hehehehe... hmmm i will recall each and i'll blog it out sis.... ...thanks for this..i am looking forward to your stories
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1/28/2009 9:28 pm |
sis, i am very much interested to know your story...mind if you share it with us? A healthy friendship changes and grows ‒ i.e. it is dynamic. How do we know if it is alive or not? It must be growing and changing constantly. A healthy friendship will encourage personal growth as well as allow both parties to explore safely with new ideas and experiences.
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1/28/2009 9:26 pm |
and, ohhhh by the way, i like your new sexy pic here  A healthy friendship changes and grows ‒ i.e. it is dynamic. How do we know if it is alive or not? It must be growing and changing constantly. A healthy friendship will encourage personal growth as well as allow both parties to explore safely with new ideas and experiences.
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1/28/2009 9:24 pm |
tasy ...well, there are lots more perhaps who have similar experiences..but who knows LDR will work for you the next time around... A healthy friendship changes and grows ‒ i.e. it is dynamic. How do we know if it is alive or not? It must be growing and changing constantly. A healthy friendship will encourage personal growth as well as allow both parties to explore safely with new ideas and experiences.
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1/24/2009 9:23 am |
i have forgiven, has buried the past into oblivion and ready to love again..
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1/24/2009 9:21 am |
i have forgiven, has buried the past into oblivion and ready to love again..
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1/24/2009 9:17 am |
...but, i have learned my lessons... thanks for visiting again my dear friend
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1/24/2009 9:14 am |
it`s easy to forgive, too many reminders to forget and cautious to love again..
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1/23/2009 9:22 pm |
haha you`re right..
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1/23/2009 9:18 pm |
Deep down you know it's best for yourself, but you hate the thought of him being with someone else. thank you my dear for dropping by ..beautiful insight you have here
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1/23/2009 9:16 pm |
Deep down you know it's best for yourself, but you hate the thought of him being with someone else.
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1/23/2009 9:14 pm |
Deep down you know it's best for yourself, but you hate the thought of him being with someone else.
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