A Relationship that Never Materialized...
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12/25/2008 6:25 amLast Read: |
met this guy one hot summer day so wonderful that no one can`t deny.. for who wouldn`t, as he was so gentle but we`re not meant for each other after all.. he expressed love so dearly and said love was a mystery.. words of endearment he was so generous that i thought everything was precious.. then one day he wrote me a poem and was so happy to read it when i got home from New York with love he wrote so loving and sweet i thought.. then one day i saw him online said hello but no reply.. what on earth is going on and saw him chatting with another one.. waited for his reply for hours until my eyes got tired i went to sleep with sadness thinking what has transpired.. `let go` dictates my mind `use your common sense and don`t be blind.. internet love is impossible for someone far from visible. i soon have realized internet relationship is only for few.. love from a distant is a risk now, it will be a difficult wish. Note: This is my personal experience here in FFF...the place of origin of the letter was changed as a respect to the guy concerned..i`ve written it in a poem.. My question now is, are you in favor of a Long Distance Relationship? (LDR) Please share with me your experiences..this one of mine is not so inspiring though, but i`m sure some of yours are.. I am posting the poem sent to me by my special friend..i won`t be surprised if some of you have received similar ones... Here it goes... For My Dearest Lyn, i felt the love the other day across the ocean so far away to be so far, to be so near to hold you tight is in my mind but out of sight, i feel you with me both day and night you know ive thought of you tonight with all my prayers and hopes held tight the day we meet is close in sight i watched the sun set in the west to wake my love from her sleepless night the day will come, i have no fear when we will hear the sounds of birds to wake us from our first, not last sleepless night.. With All my Heart, D.. |
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9/22/2009 9:56 am |
Hi jzen, Sad to hear that story.. Hope that guy change for being that way..
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9/22/2009 9:53 am |
hi miss venus, you change the place. im jst curious is the place brunei?
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9/18/2009 8:58 pm |
Hi jzen, Sad to hear that story.. Hope that guy change for being that way..
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9/18/2009 10:45 am |
hi miss venus, you change the place. im jst curious is the place brunei?
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2/10/2009 5:40 pm |
thanks to all my friends who have shared their thought here.. hugs and kisses to you all!!!!
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2/10/2009 8:54 am |
thanks to all my friends who have shared their thought here.. hugs and kisses to you all!!!!
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2/7/2009 8:02 am |
ate venus, you are a born writer....i really appreciate what you have posted about ldr....so great...i learned and realized it ahead...so am more cautious now.... you are really enlightening me...i will take heed of your advice... i look forward to the true confessions coming fromyour friend...tell her, i won't miss reading them...she must post them...thanks to both of you... ivy
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2/7/2009 7:55 am |
ate venus, you are a born writer....i really appreciate what you have posted about ldr....so great...i learned and realized it ahead...so am more cautious now.... you are really enlightening me...i will take heed of your advice... i look forward to the true confessions coming fromyour friend...tell her, i won't miss reading them...she must post them...thanks to both of you... ivy  ...youve been reading all my blogs..thanks to you!!this is one thing women on the net have to read really..it is very difficult to find the right one on the net what more of loving someone di ba?, but i know of some who are into LDRs and theyre happy..call it luck for them..
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2/7/2009 6:45 am |
ate venus, you are a born writer....i really appreciate what you have posted about ldr....so great...i learned and realized it ahead...so am more cautious now.... you are really enlightening me...i will take heed of your advice... i look forward to the true confessions coming fromyour friend...tell her, i won't miss reading them...she must post them...thanks to both of you... ivy
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1/31/2009 11:44 pm |
oh i hope it will sis...but unluckily, i won't give in na to this game sis....
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1/31/2009 11:41 pm |
thanks sis, i changed it na.. it was just a product of boredom hehehehe 
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1/31/2009 11:39 pm |
ohhhhh .. i had 10 LDRs and each has its own story hehehehe... hmmm i will recall each and i'll blog it out sis....
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1/29/2009 8:02 am |
ohhhhh .. i had 10 LDRs and each has its own story hehehehe... hmmm i will recall each and i'll blog it out sis.... ...thanks for this..i am looking forward to your stories
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1/28/2009 9:28 pm |
sis, i am very much interested to know your story...mind if you share it with us? A healthy friendship changes and grows – i.e. it is dynamic. How do we know if it is alive or not? It must be growing and changing constantly. A healthy friendship will encourage personal growth as well as allow both parties to explore safely with new ideas and experiences.
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1/28/2009 9:26 pm |
and, ohhhh by the way, i like your new sexy pic here  A healthy friendship changes and grows – i.e. it is dynamic. How do we know if it is alive or not? It must be growing and changing constantly. A healthy friendship will encourage personal growth as well as allow both parties to explore safely with new ideas and experiences.
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1/28/2009 9:24 pm |
tasy ...well, there are lots more perhaps who have similar experiences..but who knows LDR will work for you the next time around... A healthy friendship changes and grows – i.e. it is dynamic. How do we know if it is alive or not? It must be growing and changing constantly. A healthy friendship will encourage personal growth as well as allow both parties to explore safely with new ideas and experiences.
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1/24/2009 9:23 am |
i have forgiven, has buried the past into oblivion and ready to love again..
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1/24/2009 9:21 am |
Learn life's biggest lessons: love, forget and forgive.
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1/24/2009 9:17 am |
Learn life's biggest lessons: love, forget and forgive. thanks for visiting again my dear friend
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1/24/2009 9:14 am |
Learn life's biggest lessons: love, forget and forgive.
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1/23/2009 9:46 pm |
Learn life's biggest lessons: love, forget and forgive. Farewell! God knows when we shall meet again.
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1/23/2009 9:22 pm |
Forget love...I'd rather fall in chocolate!
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1/23/2009 9:18 pm |
Deep down you know it's best for yourself, but you hate the thought of him being with someone else. thank you my dear for dropping by ..beautiful insight you have here
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1/23/2009 9:16 pm |
Deep down you know it's best for yourself, but you hate the thought of him being with someone else.
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1/23/2009 9:14 pm |
Deep down you know it's best for yourself, but you hate the thought of him being with someone else.
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1/23/2009 6:33 pm |
Deep down you know it's best for yourself, but you hate the thought of him being with someone else.
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1/23/2009 4:25 pm |
Forget love...I'd rather fall in chocolate!
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1/22/2009 8:12 pm |
i feel your lips with mine hear you moan with great divine..
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1/22/2009 8:10 pm |
hearing the tinkling of our glass wines with both our arms entwined..
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1/22/2009 8:08 pm |
sitting here in my couch i feel your presence i can hear your breath in my silence..
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1/22/2009 8:06 pm |
how wonderful to think of the coming days when you and i would meet someday...
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1/22/2009 8:03 pm |
i feel wonderful reading this blog and the beautiful thoughts my friends have shared here
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1/22/2009 7:54 pm |
my love will forever be true no one else in my heart but you...
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1/22/2009 7:51 pm |
When one door closes, another opens; but we often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door that we do not see the one which has opened for us.
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1/22/2009 6:58 pm |
sometimes even other doors are open, we became blind to see the ones who opened them for us cuz of the past, thinking that it might just be the same one..
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1/22/2009 6:57 pm |
When one door closes, another opens; but we often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door that we do not see the one which has opened for us.
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1/22/2009 6:54 pm |
if you could only feel the beating of my heart our world won`t be that so far apart..
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1/22/2009 6:52 pm |
wish to hold you in my loving arms no one can change this feeling so warm..
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1/22/2009 6:45 pm |
When one door closes, another opens; but we often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door that we do not see the one which has opened for us. ...it`s nice to see you here...don`t worry, my other doors are open and being watched out...
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1/22/2009 6:40 pm |
When one door closes, another opens; but we often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door that we do not see the one which has opened for us. ...hmmm...this makes me think again...
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1/22/2009 6:36 pm |
waking up in the morning so cold i just want someone like you to hold..
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1/22/2009 1:56 pm |
When one door closes, another opens; but we often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door that we do not see the one which has opened for us. We may not be together but we will never be through.
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1/22/2009 8:44 am |
will spoil you with love, like i do with words you are my only love in this world...
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1/22/2009 8:42 am |
lyn, just say yes, and i`ll be okay i will love you forever and everyday..
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1/22/2009 8:40 am |
you`re all i need, you`re all i want loving you forever won`t be that blind..
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1/22/2009 8:35 am |
such a kind heart you have ohh my god, i`m so inlove..
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1/22/2009 8:33 am |
such lovely eyes i see your soul is where i will be...
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1/22/2009 8:05 am |
loving you is all that matters to me right now hoping one day you and i will be one...
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1/22/2009 8:02 am |
 from Jacksonville, Florida my sis. Its so funny how we say we are back ineach others arms, only to be answering each other blogs, but I think it is so cute! I love reading blogs too, and its easier to read them, than to respond to them sometimes. Anyway, I enjoy exchanging thoughts with everyone as well. thank you so much!!!
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1/22/2009 7:59 am |
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1/22/2009 7:56 am |
i agree with the breathing space...yes, we all need that sis...hoping though that it will be the last one for me, if ever..but i would be content if there`s no one really meant for me..
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1/22/2009 7:50 am |
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1/22/2009 7:46 am |
you are with someone, the more you know if they are being true to you.
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1/22/2009 7:42 am |
Tryin' To Get The Feeling Again Lyrics Artist(Band):Barry Manilow Doctor, my woman is comin' back home late today Could ya' maybe give me something? 'Cause the feelin' is gone and I must get it back right away Before she sees that I've been Up, down, tryin' to get the feelin' again All around.... tryin' to get the feelin' again The one that made me shiver, Made my knees start to quiver Every time she walked in And I've looked high, low, Everywhere I possibly can But there's no tryin' to get the feelin' again It seemed to disappear as fast as it came Where did it run to? I thought I'd done all that I could Just to keep the lovelight burnin' But whatever I've done I guess I just haven't done it too good 'Cause all that's left is yearnin' I been up, down, tryin' to get the feelin' again All around tryin' to get the feelin' again The one that made me shiver, Made my knees start to quiver Every time she walked in And I've looked high, and low and everywhere I possibly can But there's no tryin' to get the feelin' again It seemed to disappear as fast as it came And I've been lookin', I've been lookin', I've been lookin' I've been up, and down and tryin' to get the feelin' I've been up, I've been down, I've been tryin' to get I've been tryin', I've been tryin', I've been tryin' To get the feeling I've been tryin' to get the feeling again I want to get that feelin' I'm going to get that feelin' I got to get that feelin' I got to get that feelin' And again, and again, and again, and again Tryin' to get that feeling I've been tryin' to get the feelin' again
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1/22/2009 7:39 am |
loving you is like a melody it keeps me out of this misery...
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1/22/2009 7:35 am |
I was just thinkiing of a Barry Manilow song on the last part that you just said. When you get a chance listen to this song "Barry Manilow - Tryin' to get the feeling again Lyrics".
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1/22/2009 7:27 am |
Tryin' To Get The Feeling Again Lyrics Artist(Band):Barry Manilow Doctor, my woman is comin' back home late today Could ya' maybe give me something? 'Cause the feelin' is gone and I must get it back right away Before she sees that I've been Up, down, tryin' to get the feelin' again All around.... tryin' to get the feelin' again The one that made me shiver, Made my knees start to quiver Every time she walked in And I've looked high, low, Everywhere I possibly can But there's no tryin' to get the feelin' again It seemed to disappear as fast as it came Where did it run to? I thought I'd done all that I could Just to keep the lovelight burnin' But whatever I've done I guess I just haven't done it too good 'Cause all that's left is yearnin' I been up, down, tryin' to get the feelin' again All around tryin' to get the feelin' again The one that made me shiver, Made my knees start to quiver Every time she walked in And I've looked high, and low and everywhere I possibly can But there's no tryin' to get the feelin' again It seemed to disappear as fast as it came And I've been lookin', I've been lookin', I've been lookin' I've been up, and down and tryin' to get the feelin' I've been up, I've been down, I've been tryin' to get I've been tryin', I've been tryin', I've been tryin' To get the feeling I've been tryin' to get the feeling again I want to get that feelin' I'm going to get that feelin' I got to get that feelin' I got to get that feelin' And again, and again, and again, and again Tryin' to get that feeling I've been tryin' to get the feelin' again
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1/22/2009 7:25 am |
Tryin' To Get The Feeling Again Lyrics Artist(Band):Barry Manilow Doctor, my woman is comin' back home late today Could ya' maybe give me something? 'Cause the feelin' is gone and I must get it back right away Before she sees that I've been Up, down, tryin' to get the feelin' again All around.... tryin' to get the feelin' again The one that made me shiver, Made my knees start to quiver Every time she walked in And I've looked high, low, Everywhere I possibly can But there's no tryin' to get the feelin' again It seemed to disappear as fast as it came Where did it run to? I thought I'd done all that I could Just to keep the lovelight burnin' But whatever I've done I guess I just haven't done it too good 'Cause all that's left is yearnin' I been up, down, tryin' to get the feelin' again All around tryin' to get the feelin' again The one that made me shiver, Made my knees start to quiver Every time she walked in And I've looked high, and low and everywhere I possibly can But there's no tryin' to get the feelin' again It seemed to disappear as fast as it came And I've been lookin', I've been lookin', I've been lookin' I've been up, and down and tryin' to get the feelin' I've been up, I've been down, I've been tryin' to get I've been tryin', I've been tryin', I've been tryin' To get the feeling I've been tryin' to get the feeling again I want to get that feelin' I'm going to get that feelin' I got to get that feelin' I got to get that feelin' And again, and again, and again, and again Tryin' to get that feeling I've been tryin' to get the feelin' again
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1/22/2009 7:21 am |
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1/22/2009 7:13 am |
loving you is all i wanna do everything seems right for me and you..
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1/22/2009 6:53 am |
ohhh my!!! this is a beautiful one roxy...togetherness is really very important even in our ups and downs..it`s when you test the love you have for each other..it is really miserable for some who adores money than love if they undergo such financial difficulties..it was our vow in marriage that we have to fulfill `in richer or in poorer, `till death do us part`.. Live Life to the Fullest!  ***Me and YOU***
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1/22/2009 6:34 am |
Tryin' To Get The Feeling Again Lyrics Artist(Band):Barry Manilow Doctor, my woman is comin' back home late today Could ya' maybe give me something? 'Cause the feelin' is gone and I must get it back right away Before she sees that I've been Up, down, tryin' to get the feelin' again All around.... tryin' to get the feelin' again The one that made me shiver, Made my knees start to quiver Every time she walked in And I've looked high, low, Everywhere I possibly can But there's no tryin' to get the feelin' again It seemed to disappear as fast as it came Where did it run to? I thought I'd done all that I could Just to keep the lovelight burnin' But whatever I've done I guess I just haven't done it too good 'Cause all that's left is yearnin' I been up, down, tryin' to get the feelin' again All around tryin' to get the feelin' again The one that made me shiver, Made my knees start to quiver Every time she walked in And I've looked high, and low and everywhere I possibly can But there's no tryin' to get the feelin' again It seemed to disappear as fast as it came And I've been lookin', I've been lookin', I've been lookin' I've been up, and down and tryin' to get the feelin' I've been up, I've been down, I've been tryin' to get I've been tryin', I've been tryin', I've been tryin' To get the feeling I've been tryin' to get the feeling again I want to get that feelin' I'm going to get that feelin' I got to get that feelin' I got to get that feelin' And again, and again, and again, and again Tryin' to get that feeling I've been tryin' to get the feelin' again Live Life to the Fullest! ***Me and YOU***
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1/22/2009 6:32 am |
it was easy for me to forgive as i am a very forgiving person , but to forget takes a long time for me...there are a lot of memories around that brings back the old times, and triggers the old feelings.. I was just thinkiing of a Barry Manilow song on the last part that you just said. When you get a chance listen to this song "Barry Manilow - Tryin' to get the feeling again Lyrics". Live Life to the Fullest! ***Me and YOU***
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1/22/2009 6:30 am |
yes, the betrayal makes it hard for one to trust someone again..it`s not easy to just trust someone especially on the net..i still believe that it is gained and has to be worked hard for to gain one`s trust.. you are with someone, the more you know if they are being true to you. Live Life to the Fullest! ***Me and YOU***
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1/22/2009 6:27 am |
i was at the crossroads of my life when i have to make the decision to end my marriage , even this one on the net, though this one was just friendship for me..it was a difficult decision to make, but i have to, not only for my own sake, but for my kids as well...the strength in me as a woman helped me get through with it and i never regretted what i did... Live Life to the Fullest! ***Me and YOU***
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1/22/2009 6:24 am |
there were second chances, but the distance between us made one weak to temptations..i`ve forgiven, i`ve accepted `sorry`s, i`ve tried my best to make it work again, but like what they say and believe, a relationship is a two-way traffic..and yes, love was there that held for second chances, but, in the end forces make someone fall out of love.. Live Life to the Fullest! ***Me and YOU***
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1/22/2009 6:19 am |
hahaha!!(lots of love,too sis)...i really feel very comfy in talking about it here... i`m sure that everyone who can read this would learn from me and you and our friends` nice thoughts about LDR and relationships in general..i am enjoying this hahaha..and ohh going to Florida?..well, i need to meet someone from your place so i can go hahaha.. Live Life to the Fullest! ***Me and YOU***
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1/22/2009 6:17 am |
Good Morning from Manila sis...muaaahhh!!!yes!!!you`re back into my arms again hahaha..i`ve been into reading your blogs , too liekwise, i am enjoying exchanging thoughts with you here.. from Jacksonville, Florida my sis. Its so funny how we say we are back ineach others arms, only to be answering each other blogs, but I think it is so cute! I love reading blogs too, and its easier to read them, than to respond to them sometimes. Anyway, I enjoy exchanging thoughts with everyone as well. Live Life to the Fullest! ***Me and YOU***
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1/22/2009 4:55 am |
this long wait is making me impatient if only i have wings, i wouldn`t really wait..
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1/22/2009 4:54 am |
loving you is a wonderful feeling it`s all joy in my heart it brings..
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1/22/2009 4:52 am |
as i walk in my room tonight in my thoughts is my angel delight..
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1/22/2009 4:50 am |
i feel so wonderful when i think of you i couldn`t see anything but an image of you..
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1/22/2009 4:44 am |
Nothing hurts more than realizing they meant everything to you, but you meant nothing to them.
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1/22/2009 4:42 am |
Nothing hurts more than realizing they meant everything to you, but you meant nothing to them. any stories to share with us?
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1/22/2009 4:39 am |
Nothing hurts more than realizing they meant everything to you, but you meant nothing to them. ....i agree with you...good thing i wasn`t inlove, even how much flowery and sweet his words were...
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1/22/2009 4:35 am |
devastating!!!yes, this is the right word to describe the experience of your friend... she fell inlove with an a..hole...her story only tells us that anything , good and bad relationships can happen here...roxy and younglooking mentioned about being lucky to find that someone good to fall inlove on the net..thrish, lynmaze, malu and jane are some of the lucky ones besides those unpubliczed ones, but i am pretty sure that there are more bad stories than good ones...tsk! tsk! tsk!
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1/22/2009 3:36 am |
Nothing hurts more than realizing they meant everything to you, but you meant nothing to them.
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1/21/2009 3:14 pm |
you are my precious gem...a diamond an angel for me to behold...
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1/21/2009 3:12 pm |
yearning to hold you in my arms everyday will love you forever, come what may..
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1/21/2009 3:10 pm |
Hmmm... the word J caught me there lol... yes it depends in the situation, me and my ehemm are chatting in the room, he do hes way i do mine in the room... but yet in the end of the day we try to figure out how we both chatted and how we feel about it.. if theres something to change or not..Comunication is the key in LDR, and u must invest time,,, trust is not gain overnight, so both must work that out... its better if you build friendship first before going further, and dont pushed things according to your time table... let it flow the natural way... and enjoy each others company...just assure your partner that s/he is loved and needed..Good luck te v
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1/21/2009 3:07 pm |
Hmmm... the word J caught me there lol... yes it depends in the situation, me and my ehemm are chatting in the room, he do hes way i do mine in the room... but yet in the end of the day we try to figure out how we both chatted and how we feel about it.. if theres something to change or not..Comunication is the key in LDR, and u must invest time,,, trust is not gain overnight, so both must work that out... its better if you build friendship first before going further, and dont pushed things according to your time table... let it flow the natural way... and enjoy each others company...just assure your partner that s/he is loved and needed..Good luck te v
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1/21/2009 3:02 pm |
True love is like a ghost; everyone talks of it, few have seen it.
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1/21/2009 3:01 pm |
hello sis.. we have the same experience in this site...and yes.. LDR is a success to few and i can say that LDR is not mine to have! to others who are in it, all i can say is... all the best!
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1/21/2009 2:58 pm |
hello sis.. we have the same experience in this site...and yes.. LDR is a success to few and i can say that LDR is not mine to have! to others who are in it, all i can say is... all the best!
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1/21/2009 2:56 pm |
hello sis.. we have the same experience in this site...and yes.. LDR is a success to few and i can say that LDR is not mine to have! to others who are in it, all i can say is... all the best!
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1/21/2009 2:54 pm |
hello sis.. we have the same experience in this site...and yes.. LDR is a success to few and i can say that LDR is not mine to have! to others who are in it, all i can say is... all the best! ...well, there are lots more perhaps who have similar experiences..but who knows LDR will work for you the next time around...
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1/21/2009 2:50 pm |
True love is like a ghost; everyone talks of it, few have seen it. thank you dripstrip...see ya again here
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1/21/2009 2:47 pm |
True love is like a ghost; everyone talks of it, few have seen it.
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1/21/2009 2:46 pm |
True love is like a ghost; everyone talks of it, few have seen it.
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1/21/2009 2:43 pm |
True love is like a ghost; everyone talks of it, few have seen it.
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1/21/2009 2:40 pm |
the night is getting cold wish you were beside me to hold..
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1/21/2009 6:36 am |
True love is like a ghost; everyone talks of it, few have seen it.
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1/21/2009 6:01 am |
hello sis.. we have the same experience in this site...and yes.. LDR is a success to few and i can say that LDR is not mine to have! to others who are in it, all i can say is... all the best! A healthy friendship changes and grows – i.e. it is dynamic. How do we know if it is alive or not? It must be growing and changing constantly. A healthy friendship will encourage personal growth as well as allow both parties to explore safely with new ideas and experiences.
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1/21/2009 4:27 am |
Hmmm... the word J caught me there lol... yes it depends in the situation, me and my ehemm are chatting in the room, he do hes way i do mine in the room... but yet in the end of the day we try to figure out how we both chatted and how we feel about it.. if theres something to change or not..Comunication is the key in LDR, and u must invest time,,, trust is not gain overnight, so both must work that out... its better if you build friendship first before going further, and dont pushed things according to your time table... let it flow the natural way... and enjoy each others company...just assure your partner that s/he is loved and needed..Good luck te v
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1/21/2009 4:20 am |
someone like you i have found and love will be our bind..
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1/20/2009 6:49 am |
Lyn, LDR is difficult but it is workable, I tell you...My sister is married to an American-German and they started their relationship during the era of "snail mails", but unfortunately, ultramodern technology has made people so impatient that everyone now wants "instant relationship" where the risks of not getting to know each other better is always something to consider. I will always consider relocation if I know that the guy is worth it..
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1/20/2009 6:40 am |
i`m glad to know that you are fine elz..i believe that a strong woman like you wouldn`t just give up in life and sulk in one corner.. yes, life is good..life is better actually eveb with or without a partner especially if that partner is just a burden for you..
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1/20/2009 6:39 am |
I "had" special feelings for a couple of FFF members before, but they did not yield into something romantic because I felt that the persons involved were not emotionally ready and I would not take anythings less than I deserve, because I know that if I pushed my luck, I am going to regret it later, just the same...I'm fine, Lyn, life is still good, as a matter of fact, VERY GOOD, WITH OR WITHOUT A PARTNER...I count my numerous blessings, and I enjoy life... yes, life is good..life is better actually eveb with or without a partner especially if that partner is just a burden for you..
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1/20/2009 6:33 am |
I "had" special feelings for a couple of FFF members before, but they did not yield into something romantic because I felt that the persons involved were not emotionally ready and I would not take anythings less than I deserve, because I know that if I pushed my luck, I am going to regret it later, just the same...I'm fine, Lyn, life is still good, as a matter of fact, VERY GOOD, WITH OR WITHOUT A PARTNER...I count my numerous blessings, and I enjoy life... ...you`re an inspiring sight to see here my friend, what more of your sharing here of your own experience...getting emotionally involved with someone on the net, i would say, is difficult, especially when one is not ready for such..some would just use another to escape their loneliness in life..some would just play games...
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1/20/2009 6:14 am |
Falling in love is the most wonderful thing one has to experience but falling in love to someone who is not worth your love is devastating. We women never seems to learn our lessons, we still easily conned into believing that ...that sweet tounged guy truly loves us. Ok here is an experience of one member of FFF.....not me duh! She meet this sweet talker guy from FFF...his name is Marcelino Casintahan for other girls to know...in case he is still around in FFF and still looking for weak victim. At first he seems so true with his sencerity, he could utter the sweetest word one can imagine.Despite of the age gap the girl didnt mind cos she thinks older is better than younger guys. she thinks he is matured enough to still play around. According to his own words he is financialy stable and ready to start a family when he goes home to back home th the Philippines. He works overseas. So in short they are planning to marry, and this guy even suggests to start a business, well of course this girl believes every word that this guy said to her. For months he never fails to text her the sweetest words...how he misses her, how he loves her and looking forward for a future together. One day he invited this girl to visit him where he lives overseas, he provided her a ticket and of course promised her to tour her around the country.. The girl was so excited and overwhelmed. When she finally meet him she was so shocked to find out that this nice guy whom she is dreaming to spend the rest of her life turned out to be the most jerk person she could imagine. The moment she stepped in in his house she sensed something isnt right... In his floor she saw strands of girls long hair...he lives alone duh In his bathroom there are unused sanitry napkins and girlie stuffs. He even have a heart shaped cushion in his bed. The girl wanted to vomit and wanted to leave as soon as she gets in but her flight back is in 2 days time. Later that night he spends his time texting someone using 3 different phone. He even pretend to go to the bathroom just to talk to someone.And how about those non stop text till late at night. To cut the story short this sweet talker guy, pretending to be the most loving bf turned out to be the most creepiest jerk on earth. It turned out he was talking with few other girls at the same time telling them the same words he told that girl and promising them about settling down in the future with them...same thing he said to that poor fff girl....hay buhay. good luck to you and God bless
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1/20/2009 6:08 am |
Falling in love is the most wonderful thing one has to experience but falling in love to someone who is not worth your love is devastating. We women never seems to learn our lessons, we still easily conned into believing that ...that sweet tounged guy truly loves us. Ok here is an experience of one member of FFF.....not me duh! She meet this sweet talker guy from FFF...his name is Marcelino Casintahan for other girls to know...in case he is still around in FFF and still looking for weak victim. At first he seems so true with his sencerity, he could utter the sweetest word one can imagine.Despite of the age gap the girl didnt mind cos she thinks older is better than younger guys. she thinks he is matured enough to still play around. According to his own words he is financialy stable and ready to start a family when he goes home to back home th the Philippines. He works overseas. So in short they are planning to marry, and this guy even suggests to start a business, well of course this girl believes every word that this guy said to her. For months he never fails to text her the sweetest words...how he misses her, how he loves her and looking forward for a future together. One day he invited this girl to visit him where he lives overseas, he provided her a ticket and of course promised her to tour her around the country.. The girl was so excited and overwhelmed. When she finally meet him she was so shocked to find out that this nice guy whom she is dreaming to spend the rest of her life turned out to be the most jerk person she could imagine. The moment she stepped in in his house she sensed something isnt right... In his floor she saw strands of girls long hair...he lives alone duh In his bathroom there are unused sanitry napkins and girlie stuffs. He even have a heart shaped cushion in his bed. The girl wanted to vomit and wanted to leave as soon as she gets in but her flight back is in 2 days time. Later that night he spends his time texting someone using 3 different phone. He even pretend to go to the bathroom just to talk to someone.And how about those non stop text till late at night. To cut the story short this sweet talker guy, pretending to be the most loving bf turned out to be the most creepiest jerk on earth. It turned out he was talking with few other girls at the same time telling them the same words he told that girl and promising them about settling down in the future with them...same thing he said to that poor fff girl....hay buhay.
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1/20/2009 5:47 am |
Falling in love is the most wonderful thing one has to experience but falling in love to someone who is not worth your love is devastating. We women never seems to learn our lessons, we still easily conned into believing that ...that sweet tounged guy truly loves us. Ok here is an experience of one member of FFF.....not me duh! She meet this sweet talker guy from FFF...his name is Marcelino Casintahan for other girls to know...in case he is still around in FFF and still looking for weak victim. At first he seems so true with his sencerity, he could utter the sweetest word one can imagine.Despite of the age gap the girl didnt mind cos she thinks older is better than younger guys. she thinks he is matured enough to still play around. According to his own words he is financialy stable and ready to start a family when he goes home to back home th the Philippines. He works overseas. So in short they are planning to marry, and this guy even suggests to start a business, well of course this girl believes every word that this guy said to her. For months he never fails to text her the sweetest words...how he misses her, how he loves her and looking forward for a future together. One day he invited this girl to visit him where he lives overseas, he provided her a ticket and of course promised her to tour her around the country.. The girl was so excited and overwhelmed. When she finally meet him she was so shocked to find out that this nice guy whom she is dreaming to spend the rest of her life turned out to be the most jerk person she could imagine. The moment she stepped in in his house she sensed something isnt right... In his floor she saw strands of girls long hair...he lives alone duh In his bathroom there are unused sanitry napkins and girlie stuffs. He even have a heart shaped cushion in his bed. The girl wanted to vomit and wanted to leave as soon as she gets in but her flight back is in 2 days time. Later that night he spends his time texting someone using 3 different phone. He even pretend to go to the bathroom just to talk to someone.And how about those non stop text till late at night. To cut the story short this sweet talker guy, pretending to be the most loving bf turned out to be the most creepiest jerk on earth. It turned out he was talking with few other girls at the same time telling them the same words he told that girl and promising them about settling down in the future with them...same thing he said to that poor fff girl....hay buhay.
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1/20/2009 5:42 am |
Falling in love is the most wonderful thing one has to experience but falling in love to someone who is not worth your love is devastating. We women never seems to learn our lessons, we still easily conned into believing that ...that sweet tounged guy truly loves us. Ok here is an experience of one member of FFF.....not me duh! She meet this sweet talker guy from FFF...his name is Marcelino Casintahan for other girls to know...in case he is still around in FFF and still looking for weak victim. At first he seems so true with his sencerity, he could utter the sweetest word one can imagine.Despite of the age gap the girl didnt mind cos she thinks older is better than younger guys. she thinks he is matured enough to still play around. According to his own words he is financialy stable and ready to start a family when he goes home to back home th the Philippines. He works overseas. So in short they are planning to marry, and this guy even suggests to start a business, well of course this girl believes every word that this guy said to her. For months he never fails to text her the sweetest words...how he misses her, how he loves her and looking forward for a future together. One day he invited this girl to visit him where he lives overseas, he provided her a ticket and of course promised her to tour her around the country.. The girl was so excited and overwhelmed. When she finally meet him she was so shocked to find out that this nice guy whom she is dreaming to spend the rest of her life turned out to be the most jerk person she could imagine. The moment she stepped in in his house she sensed something isnt right... In his floor she saw strands of girls long hair...he lives alone duh In his bathroom there are unused sanitry napkins and girlie stuffs. He even have a heart shaped cushion in his bed. The girl wanted to vomit and wanted to leave as soon as she gets in but her flight back is in 2 days time. Later that night he spends his time texting someone using 3 different phone. He even pretend to go to the bathroom just to talk to someone.And how about those non stop text till late at night. To cut the story short this sweet talker guy, pretending to be the most loving bf turned out to be the most creepiest jerk on earth. It turned out he was talking with few other girls at the same time telling them the same words he told that girl and promising them about settling down in the future with them...same thing he said to that poor fff girl....hay buhay. ....ohh my!!..this is something worth-reading for..i like this story...it is very saddening that some girls would succumb to false hopes and promises...what a jerk this guys is and to quote lynmaze and funky , this guy is an arse`...i won`t wonder hearing stories similar to your friend`s...
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1/20/2009 5:40 am |
hmmm..jealousy?...it depends on the level of it and the basis to feel such..how can someone trust a person who committed and made promises to you that you`re the only one for him but sees him chatting and flirting with others in the chatroom..i think that`s not fair ...a valid reason to get jealous i guess
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1/20/2009 5:36 am |
anyway, my dear sis, take care and God bless, too..muaaahhh!!!
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1/20/2009 5:32 am |
dont worry, he is far from being poetic, lol. melodramatic often? very  thats him! lolbtw, he read this blog post and he said the poet is an arse. so he's hoping that would make u feel better, lol. thanks for the greetings. its true, there's lots of forces around but the past 6months has not been easy mainly because of the distance. we're just hoping our love is enough to hold on 'til the time comes. talk about melodramatic  ...and please don`t be so melodramatic
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1/20/2009 5:21 am |
Love is like quicksilver in the hand. Leave the fingers open and it stays. Clutch it, and it darts away.
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1/20/2009 5:18 am |
Love is like quicksilver in the hand. Leave the fingers open and it stays. Clutch it, and it darts away.
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1/20/2009 5:13 am |
dont worry, he is far from being poetic, lol. melodramatic often? very thats him! lolbtw, he read this blog post and he said the poet is an arse. so he's hoping that would make u feel better, lol. thanks for the greetings. its true, there's lots of forces around but the past 6months has not been easy mainly because of the distance. we're just hoping our love is enough to hold on 'til the time comes. talk about melodramatic
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1/19/2009 1:22 pm |
Love is like quicksilver in the hand. Leave the fingers open and it stays. Clutch it, and it darts away.
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1/19/2009 6:35 am |
Falling in love is the most wonderful thing one has to experience but falling in love to someone who is not worth your love is devastating. We women never seems to learn our lessons, we still easily conned into believing that ...that sweet tounged guy truly loves us. Ok here is an experience of one member of FFF.....not me duh! She meet this sweet talker guy from FFF...his name is Marcelino Casintahan for other girls to know...in case he is still around in FFF and still looking for weak victim. At first he seems so true with his sencerity, he could utter the sweetest word one can imagine.Despite of the age gap the girl didnt mind cos she thinks older is better than younger guys. she thinks he is matured enough to still play around. According to his own words he is financialy stable and ready to start a family when he goes home to back home th the Philippines. He works overseas. So in short they are planning to marry, and this guy even suggests to start a business, well of course this girl believes every word that this guy said to her. For months he never fails to text her the sweetest words...how he misses her, how he loves her and looking forward for a future together. One day he invited this girl to visit him where he lives overseas, he provided her a ticket and of course promised her to tour her around the country.. The girl was so excited and overwhelmed. When she finally meet him she was so shocked to find out that this nice guy whom she is dreaming to spend the rest of her life turned out to be the most jerk person she could imagine. The moment she stepped in in his house she sensed something isnt right... In his floor she saw strands of girls long hair...he lives alone duh In his bathroom there are unused sanitry napkins and girlie stuffs. He even have a heart shaped cushion in his bed. The girl wanted to vomit and wanted to leave as soon as she gets in but her flight back is in 2 days time. Later that night he spends his time texting someone using 3 different phone. He even pretend to go to the bathroom just to talk to someone.And how about those non stop text till late at night. To cut the story short this sweet talker guy, pretending to be the most loving bf turned out to be the most creepiest jerk on earth. It turned out he was talking with few other girls at the same time telling them the same words he told that girl and promising them about settling down in the future with them...same thing he said to that poor fff girl....hay buhay.
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 1/19/2009 5:37 am |
I "had" special feelings for a couple of FFF members before, but they did not yield into something romantic because I felt that the persons involved were not emotionally ready and I would not take anythings less than I deserve, because I know that if I pushed my luck, I am going to regret it later, just the same...I'm fine, Lyn, life is still good, as a matter of fact, VERY GOOD, WITH OR WITHOUT A PARTNER...I count my numerous blessings, and I enjoy life...  
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1/19/2009 5:32 am |
Lyn, LDR is difficult but it is workable, I tell you...My sister is married to an American-German and they started their relationship during the era of "snail mails", but unfortunately, ultramodern technology has made people so impatient that everyone now wants "instant relationship" where the risks of not getting to know each other better is always something to consider. I will always consider relocation if I know that the guy is worth it..
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1/18/2009 6:24 pm |
liekwise, i am enjoying exchanging thoughts with you here..
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1/18/2009 6:20 pm |
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1/18/2009 5:49 pm |
what is money when there`s no one saying `hello hon, how`s your day` when you get home from work...what is money when no one says ` i love you` to you...
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1/18/2009 5:45 pm |
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1/18/2009 5:32 pm |
yes, i agree with you my dear friend...money only gives us superficial happiness in this world like comfort, but still, having maoney is not an end to a happy and blissful life..
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1/18/2009 5:32 pm |
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1/18/2009 5:29 pm |
....ohh my kids are grown ups..my eldest is a big man now who just turned 27 yesterday, he1s working, still single and on his own, my only daughter is 25 married and in Minnesota right now and my youngest son is 16 and going to uni in June...my 3 lovely and wonderful kids are my priceless possessions that money can`t compare..
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1/18/2009 4:29 pm |
Live Life to the Fullest! ***Me and YOU***
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1/18/2009 4:26 pm |
well, some are just lucky in a relationship and you`re one of them sis..in my case, i`ve gotten used to being alone actually bringing up my 3 wonderful kids...i would just put in my mind that nothing really is permanent in this world but change..and yes, i was spoiled too, but only financially, but what does money brings to people is not really the genuine happiness felt in the heart that we want to feel but only the comfort... Live Life to the Fullest! ***Me and YOU***
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1/18/2009 4:24 pm |
yes, i have to, sis for what would the relationship be the second time around when it was already tainted by betrayal of trust... Live Life to the Fullest! ***Me and YOU***
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1/18/2009 4:21 pm |
haha roxy, i guess we will be very good friends here or maybe for real..i can sense that...i just dont know why i am very open about my story with you...well, it`s a good feeling that i can talk about it freely without getting emotional..i`ve gotten over it , thank God!! Live Life to the Fullest! ***Me and YOU***
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1/18/2009 4:20 pm |
thank you for coming back INTO MY ARMS sis  ..i mean, my blog Live Life to the Fullest! ***Me and YOU***
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1/18/2009 4:06 pm |
hahaha...you need to remind funky not to write poems for you.. melodramatic often? very thats him! lolbtw, he read this blog post and he said the poet is an arse. so he's hoping that would make u feel better, lol. thanks for the greetings. its true, there's lots of forces around but the past 6months has not been easy mainly because of the distance. we're just hoping our love is enough to hold on 'til the time comes. talk about melodramatic
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1/18/2009 7:07 am |
That kind of person is the one that you wont regret losing, infact, you made yourself a favor... ...Be Happy inspite of what happened. Best of luck!...i just wanna thank you for your inspiring words
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1/18/2009 1:10 am |
Is the Internet really much different from real life? We love, we hope, and in the end, we accept.
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1/18/2009 1:04 am |
Sometimes you think you've gotten over a person, but when you see him smile you suddenly realize you're just pretending you're over him to ease the pain of knowing that he will never be yours. When love is lost, do not bow your head in sadness; instead keep your head up high and gaze into heaven for that is where your broken heart has been sent to heal. ...mind if i ask if you have an ongoing LDR right now?
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1/18/2009 1:01 am |
Sometimes you think you've gotten over a person, but when you see him smile you suddenly realize you're just pretending you're over him to ease the pain of knowing that he will never be yours. When love is lost, do not bow your head in sadness; instead keep your head up high and gaze into heaven for that is where your broken heart has been sent to heal. ..one may have a bad experience like this but still she has to hold her head up high and not to give up, still hoping that there are still good guys out there who won`t play with other people`s feelings, good guys who won`t just play games, good guys who will be true to their words
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1/18/2009 12:47 am |
Sometimes you think you've gotten over a person, but when you see him smile you suddenly realize you're just pretending you're over him to ease the pain of knowing that he will never be yours. When love is lost, do not bow your head in sadness; instead keep your head up high and gaze into heaven for that is where your broken heart has been sent to heal.
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1/18/2009 12:04 am |
thank God my man is not a poet he's not too good with words to be able to put it in a poem, but when he says something about what he feels, it melts my heart and reaches my soul. so do i believe in LDR? i'm on it now with the one person who amazingly had come to know me and understand me. it's tough but i'm hoping... hihirit lng here: happy monthsary babe, mwahhhh *venut, funky reads my blog posts and comments, lol. i was there when u discoverred the deception of THAT poet, u are better off without him. we are fine alone sis but if someone comes along who deserves our love, well then life can still get better, right? hehe
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1/18/2009 12:00 am |
Sometimes you think you've gotten over a person, but when you see him smile you suddenly realize you're just pretending you're over him to ease the pain of knowing that he will never be yours. When love is lost, do not bow your head in sadness; instead keep your head up high and gaze into heaven for that is where your broken heart has been sent to heal.
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1/17/2009 11:56 pm |
Is the Internet really much different from real life? We love, we hope, and in the end, we accept.
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1/17/2009 11:54 pm |
Is the Internet really much different from real life? We love, we hope, and in the end, we accept.
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1/17/2009 11:51 pm |
thank God my man is not a poet he's not too good with words to be able to put it in a poem, but when he says something about what he feels, it melts my heart and reaches my soul. so do i believe in LDR? i'm on it now with the one person who amazingly had come to know me and understand me. it's tough but i'm hoping... hihirit lng here: happy monthsary babe, mwahhhh *venut, funky reads my blog posts and comments, lol. i was there when u discoverred the deception of THAT poet, u are better off without him. we are fine alone sis but if someone comes along who deserves our love, well then life can still get better, right? hehe HAPPY MONTHSARY TO YOU AND FUNKY!!! 
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1/17/2009 11:48 pm |
thank God my man is not a poet he's not too good with words to be able to put it in a poem, but when he says something about what he feels, it melts my heart and reaches my soul. so do i believe in LDR? i'm on it now with the one person who amazingly had come to know me and understand me. it's tough but i'm hoping... hihirit lng here: happy monthsary babe, mwahhhh *venut, funky reads my blog posts and comments, lol. i was there when u discoverred the deception of THAT poet, u are better off without him. we are fine alone sis but if someone comes along who deserves our love, well then life can still get better, right? hehe
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1/17/2009 11:45 pm |
thank God my man is not a poet he's not too good with words to be able to put it in a poem, but when he says something about what he feels, it melts my heart and reaches my soul. so do i believe in LDR? i'm on it now with the one person who amazingly had come to know me and understand me. it's tough but i'm hoping... hihirit lng here: happy monthsary babe, mwahhhh *venut, funky reads my blog posts and comments, lol. i was there when u discoverred the deception of THAT poet, u are better off without him. we are fine alone sis but if someone comes along who deserves our love, well then life can still get better, right? hehe
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1/17/2009 11:43 pm |
Is the Internet really much different from real life? We love, we hope, and in the end, we accept.
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1/17/2009 11:40 pm |
thank God my man is not a poet he's not too good with words to be able to put it in a poem, but when he says something about what he feels, it melts my heart and reaches my soul. so do i believe in LDR? i'm on it now with the one person who amazingly had come to know me and understand me. it's tough but i'm hoping... hihirit lng here: happy monthsary babe, mwahhhh *venut, funky reads my blog posts and comments, lol. i was there when u discoverred the deception of THAT poet, u are better off without him. we are fine alone sis but if someone comes along who deserves our love, well then life can still get better, right? hehe ...it was really fortunate on my part that you were there as my very reliable witness..and i thank you for that my dear
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1/17/2009 11:37 pm |
Is the Internet really much different from real life? We love, we hope, and in the end, we accept.
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1/17/2009 11:34 pm |
Is the Internet really much different from real life? We love, we hope, and in the end, we accept.
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1/17/2009 1:12 pm |
Is the Internet really much different from real life? We love, we hope, and in the end, we accept.
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1/17/2009 10:37 am |
thank God my man is not a poet he's not too good with words to be able to put it in a poem, but when he says something about what he feels, it melts my heart and reaches my soul. so do i believe in LDR? i'm on it now with the one person who amazingly had come to know me and understand me. it's tough but i'm hoping... hihirit lng here: happy monthsary babe, mwahhhh *venut, funky reads my blog posts and comments, lol. i was there when u discoverred the deception of THAT poet, u are better off without him. we are fine alone sis but if someone comes along who deserves our love, well then life can still get better, right? hehe
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1/17/2009 5:44 am |
Sometimes you think you've gotten over a person, but when you see him smile you suddenly realize you're just pretending you're over him to ease the pain of knowing that he will never be yours. When love is lost, do not bow your head in sadness; instead keep your head up high and gaze into heaven for that is where your broken heart has been sent to heal. *It's all said & done, it's real, and it's been fun.*
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1/16/2009 10:52 pm |
will post some of my poems in reply to those of my friends sent to me..brb...
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1/16/2009 10:45 pm |
will surely die if i lose you nothing else that i can do...
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1/16/2009 10:44 pm |
no one and nothing comes between us will make it sure that my love for you will last..
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1/16/2009 10:42 pm |
so many times i`ve tried so hard to make you feel my real, real love...
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1/16/2009 10:40 pm |
my love for you will last forever nothing can change that, ever...
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1/16/2009 10:38 pm |
if only you were here with me i would spoil you from the very best of me..
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1/16/2009 9:56 pm |
You know we're the last two pieces to a big puzzle; we just need to figure out where those pieces go and meet there. hear your voice in the wind, feeling you in the warmth of the sun, or will it just be a dream...unfathomable dream?
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1/16/2009 9:51 pm |
You know we're the last two pieces to a big puzzle; we just need to figure out where those pieces go and meet there.
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1/16/2009 8:43 pm |
You know we're the last two pieces to a big puzzle; we just need to figure out where those pieces go and meet there. Farewell! God knows when we shall meet again.
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1/16/2009 5:50 pm |
Hi Lyn, Save the best for last... keep waiting but not for this guy definitely. You deserve someone true.
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1/16/2009 5:47 pm |
venus thank you for the smile and the good times... i just want to say bye.. i'll be off from fff for a while and don't know when to comeback...take care 
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1/16/2009 5:45 pm |
there is true love on the net,lyn...but not to say as much that love will prosper through the net alone....i found my love on the net, but it prospered because we decided and moved on to have a face-to-face encounter..that qualifies it, when you say love is possible on the net....although you can get to meet the person online, you take steps further to find loving and having the relationship, the usual way...i find it really difficult to say that love can stay truly while you are having the relationship through online alone...the essence of having the right contact is never present in that kind of relationship...
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1/16/2009 5:42 pm |
there is true love on the net,lyn...but not to say as much that love will prosper through the net alone....i found my love on the net, but it prospered because we decided and moved on to have a face-to-face encounter..that qualifies it, when you say love is possible on the net....although you can get to meet the person online, you take steps further to find loving and having the relationship, the usual way...i find it really difficult to say that love can stay truly while you are having the relationship through online alone...the essence of having the right contact is never present in that kind of relationship...
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1/16/2009 5:33 pm |
. Oh Baby here I am again. BACK IN YOUR ARMS AGAIN ehe I meant is on your blog again . ..i mean, my blog
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1/16/2009 5:24 pm |
. Oh Baby here I am again. BACK IN YOUR ARMS AGAIN ehe I meant is on your blog again .
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1/16/2009 5:20 pm |
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1/16/2009 5:09 pm |
venus thank you for the smile and the good times... i just want to say bye.. i'll be off from fff for a while and don't know when to comeback...take care
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1/16/2009 5:05 pm |
venus thank you for the smile and the good times... i just want to say bye.. i'll be off from fff for a while and don't know when to comeback...take care  ..whatever your reason is, i hope to see you here again...thanks for the fun and laughter,too...hope to smile with you again sis...take care and God bless...
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1/15/2009 6:01 pm |
venus thank you for the smile and the good times... i just want to say bye.. i'll be off from fff for a while and don't know when to comeback...take care The most beautiful things cannot b seen& touched-they must felt with heart 
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1/15/2009 7:13 am |
sis roxy, it seems that your aswit spoils you a lot..little things like that really makes a woman feel special right? ..well, i really want to love again but good guys are hard to find...wish he will just be the one to find me ..and i do wish to have an aunt like yours haha..Live Life to the Fullest! ***Me and YOU***
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1/15/2009 7:10 am |
looks like we have similar situation..my ex hubby was always away and we only saw each other once a year or once every two years..i have to endure his absence, by taking care of my kids,i was a working mom and pursued my masters degree...i made myself busy too with my outreach projects just to make my time meaningful and worth my while...tried my best to make the relationship work, but like what you said, it takes two to tango...it was just an effort on my part, hence, the relationship failed...the only difference is that both of you were strong but with ours, one was weak..i have to give up.. Live Life to the Fullest! ***Me and YOU***
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1/15/2009 7:07 am |
thank you so much, too roxy..your sharing here is very much appreciated...love you sis..muaahhh!!!please come again . Oh Baby here I am again. BACK IN YOUR ARMS AGAIN ehe I meant is on your blog again . Live Life to the Fullest! ***Me and YOU***
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1/14/2009 3:19 pm |
People come and go in our lives, and we learn from them whether it has been a good experience or not. I believe that there's a reason why "out of all the people in the world" we meet certain persons in different ways, the net being one of them. YES I BELIEVE there is a pretty good chance of finding TRUE LOVE on the net and the success/failure rate is just the same as knowing someone face to face.
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1/14/2009 2:56 pm |
People come and go in our lives, and we learn from them whether it has been a good experience or not. I believe that there's a reason why "out of all the people in the world" we meet certain persons in different ways, the net being one of them. YES I BELIEVE there is a pretty good chance of finding TRUE LOVE on the net and the success/failure rate is just the same as knowing someone face to face. “I hold it true, whatever befall; I  it, when I sorrow most.
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1/14/2009 9:38 am |
do you really believe in finding and feeling true love here on the net? When I low my friends et al give me energy.
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1/14/2009 7:37 am |
you`re all i want, you`re all i love brought from heaven up above..
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1/14/2009 7:35 am |
i have that deep longing for a love that life can bring..
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1/14/2009 7:34 am |
how can i ever feel the love that i want to feel?
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1/14/2009 7:33 am |
life without you is never the same it seems that i will go insane why is it that love can`t be real for me to savor and feel..
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1/14/2009 7:30 am |
my love, my darling, my sweetheart wish that we are never be apart how much more can i take this when you`re not here with me to kiss..
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1/14/2009 7:18 am |
Venz, thanks also for visiting my blog.
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1/14/2009 7:13 am |
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1/14/2009 7:02 am |
..and i do wish to have an aunt like yours haha..
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1/14/2009 6:56 am |
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1/14/2009 6:48 am |
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1/14/2009 6:39 am |
Venussy....nice poem my friend!! I think a good realtionship must start in person, reality, and not online. There are important things we must see and feel about how the situation is.Colorful words may have been said in here online but it may also come from the mind and not from the heart. Life goes on......
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1/14/2009 6:36 am |
Venussy....nice poem my friend!! I think a good realtionship must start in person, reality, and not online. There are important things we must see and feel about how the situation is.Colorful words may have been said in here online but it may also come from the mind and not from the heart. Life goes on...... ..i agree with you ..maybe it could start from friendship, but online relationship is really far from reality..colorful words are just mere words to get someone`s attention..this is all make-believe, i`ve realized that...
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1/14/2009 4:00 am |
Venussy....nice poem my friend!! I think a good realtionship must start in person, reality, and not online. There are important things we must see and feel about how the situation is.Colorful words may have been said in here online but it may also come from the mind and not from the heart. Life goes on......
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1/13/2009 6:28 am |
Hi Lyn, Save the best for last... keep waiting but not for this guy definitely. You deserve someone true.
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1/13/2009 4:59 am |
FEAR is always there in LDR and with that fear goes the mistrust/ distrust. I would understand those feelings, and i sometimes would feel them too, but with basis..really, LDR is tough to face, even in the real world..what more on the net.. Live Life to the Fullest! ***Me and YOU***
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1/13/2009 4:56 am |
soooo nice to see you here my pretty sis... you are very lucky indeed in your LDR, and i agree with you that TRUST is very important, as well as constant communications..your waswit was really determined not mentioning that he was really inlove with you.. ...when a person has true love for someone he or she will really come to you no matter the distance will be...no boundaries, no conditions, no temptations can ruin that love..Live Life to the Fullest! ***Me and YOU***
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1/13/2009 4:54 am |
sis roxy, your story is very inspiring and i`m sure that those who will read this would learn from it.. ...your aunt is a blessing to you and i could see that you are very happy and content in your life with your aswit and your lovely tsikitings..i wish you all the best in life and your family...wish your aunt a healthy and a happy long life, too...Live Life to the Fullest! ***Me and YOU***
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1/13/2009 4:52 am |
thank you so much for your visit here and to your beautiful insights on LDR sis roxy.. ..you`re one person here in FFF who has successfully hurdled what is supposed to be a very difficult relationship..Live Life to the Fullest! ***Me and YOU***
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1/13/2009 4:50 am |
thank you so much for your visit here and to your beautiful insights on LDR sis roxy.. ..you`re one person here in FFF who has successfully hurdled what is supposed to be a very difficult relationship.. Venz, thanks also for visiting my blog. Live Life to the Fullest! ***Me and YOU***
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1/12/2009 9:09 pm |
hmmmm..will sing na lang  i saw your facein a crowded place and i don`t know what to do cuz i wanna be with you
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1/12/2009 9:07 pm |
Hi Lyn, Save the best for last... keep waiting but not for this guy definitely. You deserve someone true. ...thanks for your nice words here...yes, we all deserve better if not the best...keep hoping
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1/12/2009 9:05 pm |
driving my corvette today i can see you sitting beside me feeling your hands once in a while gazing your gray eyes i can just sigh
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1/12/2009 4:57 pm |
Hi Lyn, Save the best for last... keep waiting but not for this guy definitely. You deserve someone true. When I low my friends et al give me energy.
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1/12/2009 4:20 pm |
i wish one day you say you love me too a love that is so real and true that is all i ask of you to make me live life through...
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1/12/2009 4:17 pm |
ohhh how i miss you my dear and i have my fear your love is all i need one thing that you never said
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1/12/2009 4:14 pm |
thoughts of you haunt me everyday kissing your lips so sweet wanting you here beside me can`t wait when the day will be..
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1/12/2009 4:12 pm |
driving my corvette today i can see you sitting beside me feeling your hands once in a while gazing your gray eyes i can just sigh
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1/12/2009 4:08 pm |
..you`re one person here in FFF who has successfully hurdled what is supposed to be a very difficult relationship..
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1/12/2009 4:03 pm |
Thanks to my Aunt in Washington I meet my aswit via letter at the time back in 92, and then finally meet him in person by the month of December 1993. He’s a family friend of one of my cousin’s husband who was also in the Navy working in Oak Harbor, Wa. Its kind of funny because, he meet all my mothers 9 sisters before in Seattle, Washington, and then he meet my Mom and Dad when he went to Hawaii for a port visit before going on to what he says is a Westpac cruise. If its not for my auntie for giving him my address I don’t know how I would have meet my wonderful aswit. Remember back then there is no e-mail, so he would call me like 3 times a weeks and receiving a ton of letters by mail everyday is amazing. Now, what its 15 years later we have 3 precious children who resemble one of more than the other.. ...your aunt is a blessing to you and i could see that you are very happy and content in your life with your aswit and your lovely tsikitings..i wish you all the best in life and your family...wish your aunt a healthy and a happy long life, too...
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1/12/2009 3:56 pm |
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1/12/2009 3:50 pm |
Thanks to my Aunt in Washington I meet my aswit via letter at the time back in 92, and then finally meet him in person by the month of December 1993. He’s a family friend of one of my cousin’s husband who was also in the Navy working in Oak Harbor, Wa. Its kind of funny because, he meet all my mothers 9 sisters before in Seattle, Washington, and then he meet my Mom and Dad when he went to Hawaii for a port visit before going on to what he says is a Westpac cruise. If its not for my auntie for giving him my address I don’t know how I would have meet my wonderful aswit. Remember back then there is no e-mail, so he would call me like 3 times a weeks and receiving a ton of letters by mail everyday is amazing. Now, what its 15 years later we have 3 precious children who resemble one of more than the other.. you are very lucky indeed in your LDR, and i agree with you that TRUST is very important, as well as constant communications..your waswit was really determined not mentioning that he was really inlove with you.. ...when a person has true love for someone he or she will really come to you no matter the distance will be...no boundaries, no conditions, no temptations can ruin that love..
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1/12/2009 3:41 pm |
my love for you is true no one will ever do my thoughts are only for you thats all i wanna do
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1/12/2009 3:30 pm |
Thanks to my Aunt in Washington I meet my aswit via letter at the time back in 92, and then finally meet him in person by the month of December 1993. He’s a family friend of one of my cousin’s husband who was also in the Navy working in Oak Harbor, Wa. Its kind of funny because, he meet all my mothers 9 sisters before in Seattle, Washington, and then he meet my Mom and Dad when he went to Hawaii for a port visit before going on to what he says is a Westpac cruise. If its not for my auntie for giving him my address I don’t know how I would have meet my wonderful aswit. Remember back then there is no e-mail, so he would call me like 3 times a weeks and receiving a ton of letters by mail everyday is amazing. Now, what its 15 years later we have 3 precious children who resemble one of more than the other.. Live Life to the Fullest! ***Me and YOU***
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1/12/2009 3:29 pm |
Live Life to the Fullest! ***Me and YOU***
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1/10/2009 6:09 am |
lying in bed at night it`s your face i see in the flicker of the light imagining your lovely face warm in my tight embrace....
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1/10/2009 6:04 am |
if i only i have wings i fly to you at this very moment no oceans and seas will part us that is what my love surely means..
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1/10/2009 6:01 am |
you are my inspiration everyday despite the pains on not being with you i`m pretty sure these words i say will make you happy too.
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1/10/2009 5:58 am |
still inspiring to read...
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1/10/2009 5:56 am |
impatience being with you drives me crazy wanting very much to be with my honey if only i could move the days forward it would not be this very bad..
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1/10/2009 5:53 am |
i am surrounded by people now but it`s your pretty face i see your smile lingers in my mind i don`t want to be blind... i saw your facein a crowded place and i don`t know what to do cuz i wanna be with you
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1/10/2009 5:41 am |
sound like the song, `You`re Beautiful
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1/10/2009 5:40 am |
i am surrounded by people now but it`s your pretty face i see your smile lingers in my mind i don`t want to be blind...
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1/10/2009 5:37 am |
i can feel your soft skin in my touch ohh how i love you so much the warmth feeling that you bring makes me run to you my darling..
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1/9/2009 9:06 pm |
i am surrounded by people now but it`s your pretty face i see your smile lingers in my mind i don`t want to be blind...
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1/9/2009 8:51 pm |
called you on the phone today but only ringing i could hear where could my dearest be i feel sad for you not talking to me..
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1/9/2009 7:57 pm |
impatience being with you drives me crazy wanting very much to be with my honey if only i could move the days forward it would not be this very bad..
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1/9/2009 7:35 pm |
i dreamed of making love with you tonight kissing and holding you tight i can hear your heartbeat and i can smell your sweet breath..
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1/9/2009 7:24 pm |
thoughts of you today makes my heart beat i am always out of breath when can i be with my sweet that i cant beat yet..
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1/9/2009 9:05 am |
called you on the phone today but only ringing i could hear where could my dearest be i feel sad for you not talking to me..
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1/9/2009 9:01 am |
imaginations of you today is to cuddle you and sway in my arms will put you to sleep kissing your lips with a sweet embrace...
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1/9/2009 8:59 am |
ohhh how i miss you so much only your picture i could touch your face is like an angel and your hair i long to touch..
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1/9/2009 8:55 am |
i can feel your soft skin in my touch ohh how i love you so much the warmth feeling that you bring makes me run to you my darling..
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1/9/2009 8:53 am |
so gentle are your words so sweet your smile is so warm is your embrace i can`t help but wish...
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1/9/2009 8:51 am |
so gentle are your words so sweet your smile is so warm is your embrace i can`t help but wish...
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1/9/2009 8:49 am |
my mind travels so fast thinking about the distance between us what if i lose you in a glance makes me shiver in a trance..
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1/9/2009 8:46 am |
thoughts of you keeps me awake but my love for you makes me sleep questioning myself so late when can i take you out on a date..
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1/9/2009 8:42 am |
in the chill of the night i feel warm with the thought of me holding you tight makes me weak in this fight..
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1/9/2009 8:39 am |
i still feel wonderful and elated when i read these poems...well, who wouldn`t be
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1/9/2009 8:35 am |
my friend...let's just say that this was not the one, this not yet the time. just keep hope alive in your heart, believe that there is that one true love for you out there and eventually, when HE deems it your time to experience this magical gift, it will happen and i`m still available
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1/9/2009 8:31 am |
the minute i walk out my door i look around in splendor it`s all your face i see all i want is you, to be with me..
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1/9/2009 8:29 am |
the minute i walk out my door i look around in splendor it`s all your face i see all i want is you, to be with me..
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1/9/2009 8:06 am |
i don`t care what people say what`s important is love will stay i maybe so far away but love is on it`s way..
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1/9/2009 8:05 am |
i don`t care what people say what`s important is love will stay i maybe so far away but love is on it`s way..
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1/9/2009 8:02 am |
here`s one text message.... there were hundreds of yeterdays passed and more tomorrows still to come but there`s only one to enjoy my today and tomorrow, soon... i love you!!!
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1/9/2009 8:00 am |
loneliness creeps me at night you are always in my mind your face glows in the light makes my heart leap with delight..
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1/9/2009 7:57 am |
what can life be without you i am sure it`s full of sorrow it can never be the same until we see each other again..
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1/9/2009 7:56 am |
what can life be without you i am sure it`s full of sorrow it can never be the same until we see each other again..
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1/9/2009 7:54 am |
here`s one text message.... there were hundreds of yeterdays passed and more tomorrows still to come but there`s only one to enjoy my today and tomorrow, soon... i love you!!!
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1/9/2009 7:53 am |
here`s one text message.... there were hundreds of yeterdays passed and more tomorrows still to come but there`s only one to enjoy my today and tomorrow, soon... i love you!!!
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1/9/2009 7:49 am |
i could imagine life with you will make me whole again loving and caring for you forever is all i can offer...
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1/9/2009 7:47 am |
my day is always complete when i hear you speak thoughts of being with you makes me out of breath..
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1/9/2009 7:42 am |
hmmmmm hmmmmm hmmmmm hmmmmm same old same old story and still it happen...i guess a vacuum in oneself exist that when we reach out to someone who can fill in that vacuum, we mistakenly attribute that to "love"...the most abused word in the dictionary...we say we love you, we love this, i love that.,...but somehow we really dont know what the real meaning of love is? the meaning of love differs from one person to the other...it is what one puts up with love that gives meaning and value to the word. That is to say, if one puts up 50% of herself to love...then love for that person is different to the other person which invested, say 80 to 100% of herself or himself. Ah..its complicated...just use the fertile imagination Venus, i guess, you shouldnt fall for a poet....they surely have a way with words Not all long-distance love affair works out, some ends at the very beginning and some lasts forever, but that is actually beside the point...the point of a long distance love affair is to be able to feel love again, to love and be loved that somehow gives a person a strong sense of belonging rather than be considered a deadwood and be unloved for the rest of their life. we may not have a perfect endings....but the thrill of the process going thru that feeling of love is Priceless!!!! so savor whatever experience you have gained from it and move on and on and on and on...pang-matagalan talaga ang Energizerthis is just my 10-cent opinion..pls disregard after reading
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1/9/2009 4:56 am |
will also share some of my `friends` text messages..
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1/9/2009 4:54 am |
i could imagine life with you will make me whole again loving and caring for you forever is all i can offer...
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1/9/2009 4:47 am |
loneliness creeps me at night you are always in my mind your face glows in the light makes my heart leap with delight..
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1/9/2009 4:45 am |
my day is always complete when i hear you speak thoughts of being with you makes me out of breath..
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1/9/2009 4:42 am |
hmmmmm hmmmmm hmmmmm hmmmmm same old same old story and still it happen...i guess a vacuum in oneself exist that when we reach out to someone who can fill in that vacuum, we mistakenly attribute that to "love"...the most abused word in the dictionary...we say we love you, we love this, i love that.,...but somehow we really dont know what the real meaning of love is? the meaning of love differs from one person to the other...it is what one puts up with love that gives meaning and value to the word. That is to say, if one puts up 50% of herself to love...then love for that person is different to the other person which invested, say 80 to 100% of herself or himself. Ah..its complicated...just use the fertile imagination Venus, i guess, you shouldnt fall for a poet....they surely have a way with words Not all long-distance love affair works out, some ends at the very beginning and some lasts forever, but that is actually beside the point...the point of a long distance love affair is to be able to feel love again, to love and be loved that somehow gives a person a strong sense of belonging rather than be considered a deadwood and be unloved for the rest of their life. we may not have a perfect endings....but the thrill of the process going thru that feeling of love is Priceless!!!! so savor whatever experience you have gained from it and move on and on and on and on...pang-matagalan talaga ang Energizerthis is just my 10-cent opinion..pls disregard after reading...very much appreciated.....and the ENERGIZER is a nice thought, too..
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1/9/2009 4:37 am |
LDR........my experience none positive am afraid to say. I loved someone in my life . That love lasted my life time(37 years to be exact). I came here to seek shelter from my hurting. To make friends that would make my pain disappear...and even fell in love a time are two. Never ever in my many World nor my years did i ever experience the "J" word....Jealously!...Why did I lose trust in folks...what happen..was it the ghost of my only love...why did i not trust...To this day I don't have the answer...the women i loved were cool and so loving ..but i single handed drove them away. I have a couple of friends that made it here..are now happy and married...so what different...So it is possible for it to work...will i try again.....probably...but reluctantly...Now i feel safe with folks that are married...and those that are not but have made a lasting friendship with...so that much is very cool...but Love at 8,000 miles...Tuff
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1/9/2009 4:29 am |
hmmmmm hmmmmm hmmmmm hmmmmm same old same old story and still it happen...i guess a vacuum in oneself exist that when we reach out to someone who can fill in that vacuum, we mistakenly attribute that to "love"...the most abused word in the dictionary...we say we love you, we love this, i love that.,...but somehow we really dont know what the real meaning of love is? the meaning of love differs from one person to the other...it is what one puts up with love that gives meaning and value to the word. That is to say, if one puts up 50% of herself to love...then love for that person is different to the other person which invested, say 80 to 100% of herself or himself. Ah..its complicated...just use the fertile imagination Venus, i guess, you shouldnt fall for a poet....they surely have a way with words Not all long-distance love affair works out, some ends at the very beginning and some lasts forever, but that is actually beside the point...the point of a long distance love affair is to be able to feel love again, to love and be loved that somehow gives a person a strong sense of belonging rather than be considered a deadwood and be unloved for the rest of their life. we may not have a perfect endings....but the thrill of the process going thru that feeling of love is Priceless!!!! so savor whatever experience you have gained from it and move on and on and on and on...pang-matagalan talaga ang Energizerthis is just my 10-cent opinion..pls disregard after reading..they still give me a nice feeling even everything were merely just words..what more if everything materialized
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1/9/2009 4:26 am |
COOL, it`s actually a great feeling when you know that someone loves us..and i agree again to you that there`s a sense of belonging, the feeling of concern and care...there`s a saying that it is better to be loved than not being loved at all..that`s what applies to my experience
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1/9/2009 4:24 am |
hmmmmm hmmmmm hmmmmm hmmmmm same old same old story and still it happen...i guess a vacuum in oneself exist that when we reach out to someone who can fill in that vacuum, we mistakenly attribute that to "love"...the most abused word in the dictionary...we say we love you, we love this, i love that.,...but somehow we really dont know what the real meaning of love is? the meaning of love differs from one person to the other...it is what one puts up with love that gives meaning and value to the word. That is to say, if one puts up 50% of herself to love...then love for that person is different to the other person which invested, say 80 to 100% of herself or himself. Ah..its complicated...just use the fertile imagination Venus, i guess, you shouldnt fall for a poet....they surely have a way with words Not all long-distance love affair works out, some ends at the very beginning and some lasts forever, but that is actually beside the point...the point of a long distance love affair is to be able to feel love again, to love and be loved that somehow gives a person a strong sense of belonging rather than be considered a deadwood and be unloved for the rest of their life. we may not have a perfect endings....but the thrill of the process going thru that feeling of love is Priceless!!!! so savor whatever experience you have gained from it and move on and on and on and on...pang-matagalan talaga ang Energizerthis is just my 10-cent opinion..pls disregard after reading
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1/9/2009 4:18 am |
hmmmmm hmmmmm hmmmmm hmmmmm same old same old story and still it happen...i guess a vacuum in oneself exist that when we reach out to someone who can fill in that vacuum, we mistakenly attribute that to "love"...the most abused word in the dictionary...we say we love you, we love this, i love that.,...but somehow we really dont know what the real meaning of love is? the meaning of love differs from one person to the other...it is what one puts up with love that gives meaning and value to the word. That is to say, if one puts up 50% of herself to love...then love for that person is different to the other person which invested, say 80 to 100% of herself or himself. Ah..its complicated...just use the fertile imagination Venus, i guess, you shouldnt fall for a poet....they surely have a way with words Not all long-distance love affair works out, some ends at the very beginning and some lasts forever, but that is actually beside the point...the point of a long distance love affair is to be able to feel love again, to love and be loved that somehow gives a person a strong sense of belonging rather than be considered a deadwood and be unloved for the rest of their life. we may not have a perfect endings....but the thrill of the process going thru that feeling of love is Priceless!!!! so savor whatever experience you have gained from it and move on and on and on and on...pang-matagalan talaga ang Energizerthis is just my 10-cent opinion..pls disregard after reading...
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1/9/2009 4:15 am |
hmmmmm hmmmmm hmmmmm hmmmmm same old same old story and still it happen...i guess a vacuum in oneself exist that when we reach out to someone who can fill in that vacuum, we mistakenly attribute that to "love"...the most abused word in the dictionary...we say we love you, we love this, i love that.,...but somehow we really dont know what the real meaning of love is? the meaning of love differs from one person to the other...it is what one puts up with love that gives meaning and value to the word. That is to say, if one puts up 50% of herself to love...then love for that person is different to the other person which invested, say 80 to 100% of herself or himself. Ah..its complicated...just use the fertile imagination Venus, i guess, you shouldnt fall for a poet....they surely have a way with words Not all long-distance love affair works out, some ends at the very beginning and some lasts forever, but that is actually beside the point...the point of a long distance love affair is to be able to feel love again, to love and be loved that somehow gives a person a strong sense of belonging rather than be considered a deadwood and be unloved for the rest of their life. we may not have a perfect endings....but the thrill of the process going thru that feeling of love is Priceless!!!! so savor whatever experience you have gained from it and move on and on and on and on...pang-matagalan talaga ang Energizerthis is just my 10-cent opinion..pls disregard after reading...marriage is a commitment morally and spiritually but still breaks, what more of a commitment or promises on the net..being wise and having common sense are the keys unless of course the purpose of both is to just play games with each other..
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1/9/2009 4:09 am |
hmmmmm hmmmmm hmmmmm hmmmmm same old same old story and still it happen...i guess a vacuum in oneself exist that when we reach out to someone who can fill in that vacuum, we mistakenly attribute that to "love"...the most abused word in the dictionary...we say we love you, we love this, i love that.,...but somehow we really dont know what the real meaning of love is? the meaning of love differs from one person to the other...it is what one puts up with love that gives meaning and value to the word. That is to say, if one puts up 50% of herself to love...then love for that person is different to the other person which invested, say 80 to 100% of herself or himself. Ah..its complicated...just use the fertile imagination Venus, i guess, you shouldnt fall for a poet....they surely have a way with words Not all long-distance love affair works out, some ends at the very beginning and some lasts forever, but that is actually beside the point...the point of a long distance love affair is to be able to feel love again, to love and be loved that somehow gives a person a strong sense of belonging rather than be considered a deadwood and be unloved for the rest of their life. we may not have a perfect endings....but the thrill of the process going thru that feeling of love is Priceless!!!! so savor whatever experience you have gained from it and move on and on and on and on...pang-matagalan talaga ang Energizerthis is just my 10-cent opinion..pls disregard after reading...very well-put....you still did a calculation on the percentage of love..lol which i definitely agree..even `lust` is interpreted as love by others..wrong notion..
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1/8/2009 10:05 pm |
That kind of person is the one that you wont regret losing, infact, you made yourself a favor... ...Be Happy inspite of what happened. Best of luck!
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1/8/2009 9:54 pm |
hmmmmm hmmmmm hmmmmm hmmmmm same old same old story and still it happen...i guess a vacuum in oneself exist that when we reach out to someone who can fill in that vacuum, we mistakenly attribute that to "love"...the most abused word in the dictionary...we say we love you, we love this, i love that.,...but somehow we really dont know what the real meaning of love is? the meaning of love differs from one person to the other...it is what one puts up with love that gives meaning and value to the word. That is to say, if one puts up 50% of herself to love...then love for that person is different to the other person which invested, say 80 to 100% of herself or himself. Ah..its complicated...just use the fertile imagination Venus, i guess, you shouldnt fall for a poet....they surely have a way with words Not all long-distance love affair works out, some ends at the very beginning and some lasts forever, but that is actually beside the point...the point of a long distance love affair is to be able to feel love again, to love and be loved that somehow gives a person a strong sense of belonging rather than be considered a deadwood and be unloved for the rest of their life. we may not have a perfect endings....but the thrill of the process going thru that feeling of love is Priceless!!!! so savor whatever experience you have gained from it and move on and on and on and on...pang-matagalan talaga ang Energizerthis is just my 10-cent opinion..pls disregard after reading
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1/7/2009 8:00 pm |
LDR........my experience none positive am afraid to say. I loved someone in my life . That love lasted my life time(37 years to be exact). I came here to seek shelter from my hurting. To make friends that would make my pain disappear...and even fell in love a time are two. Never ever in my many World nor my years did i ever experience the "J" word....Jealously!...Why did I lose trust in folks...what happen..was it the ghost of my only love...why did i not trust...To this day I don't have the answer...the women i loved were cool and so loving ..but i single handed drove them away. I have a couple of friends that made it here..are now happy and married...so what different...So it is possible for it to work...will i try again.....probably...but reluctantly...Now i feel safe with folks that are married...and those that are not but have made a lasting friendship with...so that much is very cool...but Love at 8,000 miles...Tuff ...not only me, but those people who have and will still read this blog will also learn, im sure...hope you share more of your words of wisdom and insights here
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1/7/2009 7:34 pm |
LDR........my experience none positive am afraid to say. I loved someone in my life . That love lasted my life time(37 years to be exact). I came here to seek shelter from my hurting. To make friends that would make my pain disappear...and even fell in love a time are two. Never ever in my many World nor my years did i ever experience the "J" word....Jealously!...Why did I lose trust in folks...what happen..was it the ghost of my only love...why did i not trust...To this day I don't have the answer...the women i loved were cool and so loving ..but i single handed drove them away. I have a couple of friends that made it here..are now happy and married...so what different...So it is possible for it to work...will i try again.....probably...but reluctantly...Now i feel safe with folks that are married...and those that are not but have made a lasting friendship with...so that much is very cool...but Love at 8,000 miles...Tuff
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1/7/2009 7:31 pm |
LDR........my experience none positive am afraid to say. I loved someone in my life . That love lasted my life time(37 years to be exact). I came here to seek shelter from my hurting. To make friends that would make my pain disappear...and even fell in love a time are two. Never ever in my many World nor my years did i ever experience the "J" word....Jealously!...Why did I lose trust in folks...what happen..was it the ghost of my only love...why did i not trust...To this day I don't have the answer...the women i loved were cool and so loving ..but i single handed drove them away. I have a couple of friends that made it here..are now happy and married...so what different...So it is possible for it to work...will i try again.....probably...but reluctantly...Now i feel safe with folks that are married...and those that are not but have made a lasting friendship with...so that much is very cool...but Love at 8,000 miles...Tuff ...a valid reason to get jealous i guess
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1/7/2009 7:25 pm |
LDR........my experience none positive am afraid to say. I loved someone in my life . That love lasted my life time(37 years to be exact). I came here to seek shelter from my hurting. To make friends that would make my pain disappear...and even fell in love a time are two. Never ever in my many World nor my years did i ever experience the "J" word....Jealously!...Why did I lose trust in folks...what happen..was it the ghost of my only love...why did i not trust...To this day I don't have the answer...the women i loved were cool and so loving ..but i single handed drove them away. I have a couple of friends that made it here..are now happy and married...so what different...So it is possible for it to work...will i try again.....probably...but reluctantly...Now i feel safe with folks that are married...and those that are not but have made a lasting friendship with...so that much is very cool...but Love at 8,000 miles...Tuff
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1/7/2009 7:18 pm |
LDR is very difficult even for married couples, what more of an online relationship...the main reason why most marriages break here in the Philippines is when either the wife or the husband works overseas..temptations will always be around and loneliness makes one vulnerable to it..i`m speaking from experience again.. i`ve given my full trust but when the betrayal happened, it is difficult to trust again...now fff offers opportunities for relationships, but my gosh, distance and time are obstructions...some relatinoships work on the net, but still, one can`t be sure of it hence most are LDRs...really TUFF to borrow your word
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1/7/2009 7:16 pm |
LDR........my experience none positive am afraid to say. I loved someone in my life . That love lasted my life time(37 years to be exact). I came here to seek shelter from my hurting. To make friends that would make my pain disappear...and even fell in love a time are two. Never ever in my many World nor my years did i ever experience the "J" word....Jealously!...Why did I lose trust in folks...what happen..was it the ghost of my only love...why did i not trust...To this day I don't have the answer...the women i loved were cool and so loving ..but i single handed drove them away. I have a couple of friends that made it here..are now happy and married...so what different...So it is possible for it to work...will i try again.....probably...but reluctantly...Now i feel safe with folks that are married...and those that are not but have made a lasting friendship with...so that much is very cool...but Love at 8,000 miles...Tuff i`ve given my full trust but when the betrayal happened, it is difficult to trust again...now fff offers opportunities for relationships, but my gosh, distance and time are obstructions...some relatinoships work on the net, but still, one can`t be sure of it hence most are LDRs...really TUFF to borrow your word
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1/7/2009 6:26 pm |
LDR........my experience none positive am afraid to say. I loved someone in my life . That love lasted my life time(37 years to be exact). I came here to seek shelter from my hurting. To make friends that would make my pain disappear...and even fell in love a time are two. Never ever in my many World nor my years did i ever experience the "J" word....Jealously!...Why did I lose trust in folks...what happen..was it the ghost of my only love...why did i not trust...To this day I don't have the answer...the women i loved were cool and so loving ..but i single handed drove them away. I have a couple of friends that made it here..are now happy and married...so what different...So it is possible for it to work...will i try again.....probably...but reluctantly...Now i feel safe with folks that are married...and those that are not but have made a lasting friendship with...so that much is very cool...but Love at 8,000 miles...Tuff
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1/7/2009 9:37 am |
in the morning when you wake up i am your alarm clock the rining of the phone is a sign that my day is on top...
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1/7/2009 9:36 am |
in the morning when you wake up i am your alarm clock the rining of the phone is a sign that my day is on top...
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1/7/2009 9:34 am |
in my loneliness i think of you i see a glimpse of light miles and miles away you really make my day..
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1/7/2009 9:30 am |
when i met you, love became a mystery even from a distance i could see will cross the miles and the oceans just to make you feel my presence..
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1/7/2009 9:29 am |
when i met you, love became a mystery even from a distance i could see will cross the miles and the oceans just to make you feel my presence..
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1/7/2009 9:26 am |
`your voice is music to my ears, your smile is my rainbow everyday your eyes give glow to my life you are my sunshine today.
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1/7/2009 9:24 am |
here`s another poem i wanna share with you from my `poet`.. My Red Rose (note: he saw my pic in my red top which inspired him to write this poem) you`re like a red rose lovely when you pose butterflies would hoover that`s not to wonder 
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1/7/2009 9:22 am |
`life is worthliving for me now and to love you is my vow to respect you as a person until we become one..
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1/7/2009 9:19 am |
to continue::: an orchid that can over grow everyone an orchid that could weather any storm an orchid that is beyond any man`s reach an orchid that is in full bloom..
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1/7/2009 9:18 am |
`here i am again wanting to see my orchid cuz for me she`s the sweetest any man could not resist..
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1/7/2009 9:16 am |
love from a distance is so hard but sure i am glad to meet someone as lovely as you i can`t wait to be with you.
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1/7/2009 9:15 am |
love from a distance is so hard but sure i am glad to meet someone as lovely as you i can`t wait to be with you.
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1/7/2009 9:08 am |
i wanna add more lines, but i need my beauty sleep Good night everyone
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1/7/2009 9:05 am |
My goodness, this Blog is getting a lot of attention. But, mostly from ladies so I better get out of here before it ruins my MACHO image.
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1/7/2009 9:03 am |
My goodness, this Blog is getting a lot of attention. But, mostly from ladies so I better get out of here before it ruins my MACHO image. ok,thank you for dropping bye ...guess, you`re just one of the courageous men who would read such blog about men`s false craziness here on the net ...maybe,others would be guilty reading this
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1/7/2009 8:19 am |
My goodness, this Blog is getting a lot of attention. But, mostly from ladies so I better get out of here before it ruins my MACHO image.
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1/6/2009 8:23 pm |
sorry to hear that. i know you can manage though!
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1/6/2009 5:08 am |
i was experienced before a LDR..akala ko okey ang lahat and we met in person and we lived for a month...but after that akala ko kami na talaga..but in the end we broke up dahil hindi daw nya kaya ang LDR i love him so much and i believed on what he said and promises...but in the end..he found another woman on the net at nagkasiraan pa...depende sa partner mo ang LDR...may successful through LDR only pero and hindi ay hindi...now..im not believe a LDR ...
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1/5/2009 6:31 pm |
somehow, it inspires me to read these poems over and over again..
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1/5/2009 6:07 am |
so, has anyone of the ladies here received such lovely, lovely poems? don`t be deceived, some men are like that even in real life..hope this serves as a lesson for everyone, men and women alike... ..will post more
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1/5/2009 6:00 am |
`words are easy to say but my heart will always stay i love you with all my heart it is from the deepest part..
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1/5/2009 5:57 am |
`words are easy to say but my heart will always stay i love you with all my heart it is from the deepest part..
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1/5/2009 5:53 am |
geez!!!it`s flattering...but, hey, everything can`t be written in a poem especially love..it couldn`t be a measure of one`s love for another..perhaps just one of the ways to show it..
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1/5/2009 5:45 am |
here`s another poem i wanna share with you from my `poet`.. My Red Rose (note: he saw my pic in my red top which inspired him to write this poem) you`re like a red rose lovely when you pose butterflies would hoover that`s not to wonder
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1/4/2009 11:08 pm |
when i read these lines, i feel like i have to believe..but just like any poet, these are just flowery words...mind you ladies, some men are good at it especially in the courting stage , but later on sweet words become bitter...
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1/4/2009 11:03 pm |
`here i am again wanting to see my orchid cuz for me she`s the sweetest any man could not resist..
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1/4/2009 11:01 pm |
to continue::: an orchid that can over grow everyone an orchid that could weather any storm an orchid that is beyond any man`s reach an orchid that is in full bloom..
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1/4/2009 10:58 pm |
how can a woman resist someone who`s very sweet in his words, sending them everyday like this...
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1/4/2009 10:56 pm |
`life is worthliving for me now and to love you is my vow to respect you as a person until we become one..
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1/4/2009 10:53 pm |
`i am so blessed to have met you i feel so wonderful when i see you just talking to you makes my heart glow loving you will be whole life through..
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