the real score why its hard to find love at a certain age!
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no! its not about me. i can always find that love if i wanted to. its just that i prefer not to love and be loved at the moment. i am talking about women in general. yes at a certain age, the opportunity to be liked or even loved diminishes as one gets older. there is a dearth of pool of available men as women gets older. the ratio of women in their 60s with men is 10 is to 1. generally men would prefer younger women as they get older. its not an assumption, its more than the truth and its indeed a pervasive reality - specially for men of power and money. donald trump, larry king and hollywood men mostly have young wives or relationships. generally speaking, what if you are in your 50s? who do you think would hit on you? its just too few or far and between that a woman in her 50's will be hit by men in their 50's. and then those who are in their 60's would still prefer their women be in their 30's. some even goes for women as young as in their 20s. so where are you then in the scheme of things as you aged? admittedly, its pathetic whether you like it or not! sometimes what you are left is just to "dream on." or just settle for anything just to say and feel that you are in a relationship. or you totally give up on finding that relationship and rationalize whatever shape, form or method you can imagine. the rational women can find comforts in the pursuit of a noble agenda other than having a relationship. the irrational women are mostly mad at themselves and the world and of men. but some women of power and money do surgically correct the disparity. they get their toys too and they are enjoying it with willing dismissal of the expectations of the society, their peers, associates and even loved ones. men on the other hand as long as they take care of themselves, can father a child even at his 70s. meaning the libido is still functioning. would yours too? i doubt it for majority of women in their 50s because there is one tragic word we called menopause. what happened when a woman is in menopause? for some men its something that they deal with in a fashion detrimental to women. in the old days, once you find love, it stays forever menopause or not. but its no longer the old days. the dynamics of relationship have changed so much. as women gained empowerment and success in many endeavors, they pay dearly in terms of relationship. i guess only few women can have their cakes and eat it too! |
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10/26/2009 10:35 am |
Antonio, As a watcher of people all around. As a friend tells me men over age 50 are having a hard time getting it up. Good for the women with power and means who out dones a plastic to enhance her facial/figure(like the stars). Whatever make them feels good especially w/ their toys or boytoys!!! Some women really let it go after having children, atleast very happy. They can accept life with gusto! Some men grow gracefully and can have yes it's true about younger wives or trophy as much as they want. The olden days are sacred when marriage was the golden rule never to divorce. They made it work. Nowadays, that's gone because too many delicacy staring them every where and temptation. And men with power do get away with them big time. They can house their lover some where and go home for his wife or to the other mistress. Whatever makes everyone happy. Only one life to live. Who cares if you have morals or not.       [I God is pure love...
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 10/26/2009 12:28 pm |
Antonio, As a watcher of people all around. As a friend tells me men over age 50 are having a hard time getting it up. Good for the women with power and means who out dones a plastic to enhance her facial/figure(like the stars). Whatever make them feels good especially w/ their toys or boytoys!!! Some women really let it go after having children, atleast very happy. They can accept life with gusto! Some men grow gracefully and can have yes it's true about younger wives or trophy as much as they want. The olden days are sacred when marriage was the golden rule never to divorce. They made it work. Nowadays, that's gone because too many delicacy staring them every where and temptation. And men with power do get away with them big time. They can house their lover some where and go home for his wife or to the other mistress. Whatever makes everyone happy. Only one life to live. Who cares if you have morals or not. thanks for your engaging thoughts Tess. i know you are not offended of the reality of women lives after menopause or of certain age that i am honestly depicting. i am glad you are at peace with yourself instead of being mad at the world and men of my kind.
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10/26/2009 12:39 pm |
i think men in their 60s still hitting on younger women because to them, younger women are natural viagras. what does women of age could offer in a relationship? that part thing is always part of the equation for men. we can't just be mesmerized by your kindness and affections, there must be more than that. it not all about meaningful relationship 24/7 without that thing that you can no longer provides or hardly provides.
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10/26/2009 5:13 pm |
i think men in their 60s still hitting on younger women because to them, younger women are natural viagras. what does women of age could offer in a relationship? that part thing is always part of the equation for men. we can't just be mesmerized by your kindness and affections, there must be more than that. it not all about meaningful relationship 24/7 without that thing that you can no longer provides or hardly provides. For some reason it cut out my sentence after the fact men diminish after 50 so they do need viagra. But, women hitting 50 are only starting their libido to sky rocket. Their more sexually driven!!! And it's in the person, if they have the nympho attitude no menopause is gonna stop them from getting what they want. [I God is pure love...
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10/30/2009 12:30 am |
i think men in their 60s still hitting on younger women because to them, younger women are natural viagras. what does women of age could offer in a relationship? that part thing is always part of the equation for men. we can't just be mesmerized by your kindness and affections, there must be more than that. it not all about meaningful relationship 24/7 without that thing that you can no longer provides or hardly provides. there are indeed cases wherein women can no longer give what was expected of them.. most of them are either too busy with the kids and housework or their own careers to even bother themselves with wifely obligations.. but once u find someone WORTHY of ur love and affection, u will realize that there is MORE TO LIFE than just sexual pleasures.. being LOVED and CARED FOR by someone who genuinely loves u should be more than enough reasons for u to say that u have finally found urself a KEEPER.. LOVE doesn't fade away with time.. pleasures of the flesh are only as good as it gets.. in time, all these will fade away.. but GENUINE LOVE will remain.. have a nice weekend 
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