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blueberry_26 39F
3 posts
5/27/2008 7:27 am
Quality Time or Quantity Time?


There was a couple who had been 7 years together . The girl who is 23 year old and had been in two proffesion before was jobless right now, and the guy who is 28 year old who didnt have a chance to get his work and seems dependent to the girl has his first job now. The girl felt that she's useless and dependent to the guy. and as the months goes by the schedule of the man seems to be hectic that there are no time for them to spend even single meal together. the girl kept her feelings and her agony to her love. She wants to understand and be a wife for him just for the first time. But one night she was so depressed and feel helpless. She can't hide her feelings anymore. She talk to him and she bursted to cry." I want quality time for us '' she shouted! "dont go to work tomorrow..pls.." but the man refuse to what his wife ask to him. He hugged his crying wife and said " if i do that there are possibities that i will not be promoted..i will not be able to buy all the things i want for you. i will be irresponisble again. eventhough it is only for one day."the girl didnt understand him. "then resign! i want you by my side" i want QUALITY TIME!". the man look at her eyes, "what do you really want?" he asked, Quality Time or Quantity Time?. I can give that both for you. but i choose to give you my quality time on my day off because if i give quantity time it would not be precious i will not be able to sustain all our needs. you will work again and i will be dependent to you. " the girl was still crying but this time she understand what her man was saying to her. she say sorry and before they sleep they manage to talk about having quality time for each other.

moral lesson:
Before doing what you think is right for you try to consider other people feelings and opinion.
there are lot of proffesionals out there who has a family. they dont have enough time for them.But i am sure that they spend QUALITY TIME for their love ones.