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YOUR FAULT; NO, YOURS.......haaaay life..is it really that hard to admit to your fault?.. little white lies, big lies, foolish lies, felonious lies...ang daming lies..  ..why not fess up?, you already got caught with your lie/act..it's always the other person's fault..most of the time..  ..we do fess up..but sometimes, we only do when we see that there really is no way out....but if we see light, even just a tiny bit of it, we'd still really try to wriggle our way out of it....whose fault is it really?..is it the cheater's fault?, or is it the cheated partner's fault?..excuses, excuses..we are so good at making them.. do you know what i really think?..both are at fault..i am not going to delve into the reasons/excuses as to why it happens, there are just too many of them to mention..i am just going to look into the reactions/actions of differing people when problems do arise.. some people can handle problems real well, SOME PEOPLE CAN'T..and these people that can't, when a problem arises, is where a reaction to a problem can go to the extremes; a retaliation, a "i'll show you"(really bad way of dealing with the problem..  ..) attitude..these are the people who can't handle tough situations..these are the people that don't have a care in the world..these are the people who only care about themselves..these people always have an easy way out..think of it, much easier, di ba?, instead of dealing with the situation at hand..they don't think ahead, never..they never think that an (bad)action will produce a succession of corresponding bad actions/problems..to them, there is always the easy solution, the easy way out.. when you fall in love with a person such as this, what do you do?..do you concede, all the time?..are you prepared to face the consequences, if you do not concede?..they say, binabaril ang mga martyrs sa luneta.. ..so, who can you blame?..these are facts of life..as for me, what do i do when faced with a problem?..I BLAME IT ON THE RAIN.. .. ..You said you didn't need her, you told her goodbye. You sacrificed a good love to satisfy your pride. Now you wish that you still had her, and you feel like such a fool. You let her walk away, now it just don't feel the same. Gotta blame it on something, gotta blame it on something. Blame it on the rain that was fallin', fallin'. Blame it on the stars that shine at night. Whatever you do, don't put the blame on you; blame it on the rain, yeah, yeah. You can blame it on the rain. Should have told her you were sorry, could have said you were wrong. But no, you couldn't do that, you had to prove you were strong. If you hadn't been so blind then, she might still be there with you. You want her back again, but you just don't feel the same. Gotta blame it on something, gotta blame it on something. Blame it on the rain that was fallin', fallin'. Blame it on the stars that shine at night. Whatever you do, don't put the blame on you; blame it on the rain, yeah, yeah. You can blame it on the rain. But the rain don't mind and the rain don't care. You've gotta blame it on somethin'. Blame it on the rain that was fallin', fallin'. Blame it on the stars that shine at night. Whatever you do, don't put the blame on you; blame it on the rain, yeah, yeah. You can blame it on the rain, blame it on the rain, yeah, yeah. Blame it on the rain, yeah, yeah. Blame it on the rain, yeah, yeah. Blame it on the rain, yeah, yeah. Blame it on the rain, yeah, yeah. Whatever you do, don't put the blame on you; blame it on the rain, yeah, yeah. Gotta blame it on something, gotta blame it on something. Milli Vanilli's, too bad they were caught lying themselves.. ..
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7/22/2008 6:36 pm |
 ~ Jolielaide 
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 7/22/2008 6:45 pm |
"It's nobody's fault" I always say, bad things happen for a good reason, that is what positive thinking is!!(Doesn't always work though),.
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7/22/2008 6:55 pm |
mr bok, It's a fact of life. Let's say a man is walking by okey dokey. In front of him are these delicious fruits. Wow, to my surprise, his only human to want to taste all of them. Can you blame him??? It's called temptations. All forms. The only thing that will stop this man from taking that bite. Is if he truly love the one at home. That's all. That special bond of love.  No one really thinks ahead. I'm one of these dummies too. Trying to play cupid. After all is said and done, the lesson learned hopefully stays and never try to hurt anyone again...
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7/22/2008 7:44 pm |
..Miss Bebong, by looking at your man, i truly believe that he truly loves you..lucky you, you will not have a worry in the world....
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7/22/2008 7:47 pm |
"It's nobody's fault" I always say, bad things happen for a good reason, that is what positive thinking is!!(Doesn't always work though) ,...if it's more likely to work, i'd rather than what does not work..thanks, Bee.. ..
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7/22/2008 7:53 pm |
mr bok, It's a fact of life. Let's say a man is walking by okey dokey. In front of him are these delicious fruits. Wow, to my surprise, his only human to want to taste all of them. Can you blame him??? It's called temptations. All forms. The only thing that will stop this man from taking that bite. Is if he truly love the one at home. That's all. That special bond of love. No one really thinks ahead. I'm one of these dummies too. Trying to play cupid. After all is said and done, the lesson learned hopefully stays and never try to hurt anyone again... ....just kidding..i guess all we can have going for us are trust and faith....
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7/22/2008 8:40 pm |
that's why i dont like a lot of fruits, only some, and the apple pala.. ....just kidding..i guess all we can have going for us are trust and faith.... 
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7/23/2008 6:37 am |
..Miss Bebong, by looking at your man, i truly believe that he truly loves you..lucky you, you will not have a worry in the world....~ Jolielaide
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7/23/2008 7:26 am |
I guess I'll never fully understand people who profess their love to someone then still cheat. You know what I think? If one cannot handle the commitment that they made then for heaven's sake just end the relationship rather than keeping it and be disrespectful to the person they are with. It's true that when cheating happens there is usually fault on both sides but I tell you there are also instances when the cheater is just plain selfish and an a$$hole...but I agree that problems cannot be solved with another problem...it's not so hard to admit your fault and say sorry, mean it and make sure not to do it ever again coz I think it's still possible to save a relationship after cheating and being cheated on but only if both parties are willing to talk about what went wrong, openly and honestly...the cheater has to be genuinely repentant and the one cheated on has to be willing to forgive and forget (or heal), then perhaps trust can be rebuild again over time. Good luck sa relationship mo Mr.Bok, I hope it goes well for you. 
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7/23/2008 3:26 pm |
I can't speak for others, for each situation is different, but I learned that even in the strongest of bonds, you cannot take ANYTHING for granted. Once I became a mother, I dedicated myself to raising my children the best that I could. My relationship with my husband became less and less important. We took each other for granted, but his course of action never even entered my head. He was weak and having an affair was such an easy thing to do, especially when you meet the "right" person to cheat with. She was willing to be a mistress so what was the problem? Yah.... Anyway, I agree with Ms. Lightblue, if both are willing to work and make some sacrifices and changes, it could not only work but become better than it ever was. It happens to marriages all the time. Priorities and needs change and shift, but open communication is a must and of course, being grateful for him/her everyday of your life.
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7/23/2008 8:48 pm |
darling... there is no such thing as "no worries" ..
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7/23/2008 8:53 pm |
I guess I'll never fully understand people who profess their love to someone then still cheat. You know what I think? If one cannot handle the commitment that they made then for heaven's sake just end the relationship rather than keeping it and be disrespectful to the person they are with. It's true that when cheating happens there is usually fault on both sides but I tell you there are also instances when the cheater is just plain selfish and an a$$hole...but I agree that problems cannot be solved with another problem...it's not so hard to admit your fault and say sorry, mean it and make sure not to do it ever again coz I think it's still possible to save a relationship after cheating and being cheated on but only if both parties are willing to talk about what went wrong, openly and honestly...the cheater has to be genuinely repentant and the one cheated on has to be willing to forgive and forget (or heal), then perhaps trust can be rebuild again over time. Good luck sa relationship mo Mr.Bok, I hope it goes well for you. ..where have you been, hiding?....joke..
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7/23/2008 8:55 pm |
if both are willing participants, then it can work....i agree..
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7/24/2008 6:56 am |
you have a point..but no to cheaters for me.. ..where have you been, hiding?....joke..
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7/29/2008 11:54 pm |
Sa lungga... ..
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7/30/2008 7:18 am |
ang dami mo sigurong pinagtataguan , ha!.. ..
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8/6/2008 9:26 pm |
Not hiding from anyone Mr.Bok ako nga itong pinagtataguan nila eh! It's not my loss though, sorry na lang sila they don't know what they are missing... ..ayan, ako, true to myself na....
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8/7/2008 9:35 am |
what are they missing ba?.. ..ayan, ako, true to myself na....
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