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first of all, i want to say sorry for all the ladies that have broken hearts, i sympathize with you, i know how it feels for my heart was broken too.. now back to why women say men are natural cheats and say men are always the cause of their heartaches..i read a lot of times, how men are depicted..repeatedly, almost every female here says that it's man's nature to cheat..hey, it's not and say if it is, not all men do!!! for the sake of argument, say i agree with this notion, that men are natural cheaters..my question is..how can a man cheat if the woman he is trying to cheat with says NO!?..a lot of you would probably say that the woman didn't know, that she was sweet talked to and she believed in all the man's lies..  ..for women in this site searching for their soulmates, let me ask you, when a man shows interests in you, do you say yes to him right away?..of course not!!!..you want to find out about this man..if this man is sincere, truthful and whatever it is you want to know about him before jumping into a relationship with him, right?..especially, if the man is really available and not in a relationship of any kind.. then how can women say that they were lied to?..i think women, some at least, already know what's going on, but they also have hidden agendas of their own..  ..they may be physically attracted to the man and like his character, of how the man is..and she's feeling that why can't she have him, so they either turn a blind eye or look the other way ..or for some, they would try to get the man for themselves, to get the man to leave whoever he is in a relationship with, be it a wife or a gf, and hope that the man would take her in..see how a woman can think of stealing a man from another woman?.. ..and when nothing happens, the woman cries foul...in the ex-wife/gf's case, they blame the man for breaking their heart for cheating..can't you see that another woman caused it to happen, not just the man?.. ..here's an interesting example.. ..say that a man is a dog, his instincts tells him to sniff out other women..have you seen a male dog sniffing out a female one?..the male dog smells the behind, right?....anyway, when the female dog is not in heat, what does it do?..it snarls at the dog sniffing her from behind, like saying, get away from me or i'll bite, and walks away, right?...THAT IS SAYING NO..do you see how it's all up to the women for cheating and/or something, to happen?..if the woman keeps her legs crossed, do you think the man can continue on with what he seeks? think about it..that women actually have the power over men when it comes to sex.. one word, 2 letters.."NO"..this goes both ways..both man and woman cheat..if you don't want it happening, all that need be said is "NO"..so please, stop saying, stop generalizing, stop classifying all men, just men, as cheaters..IF YOU WANT TO SAY WHO CHEATS, SAY THE HUMAN RACE CHEATS..  ..
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7/18/2008 8:02 pm |
waaa bro we almost have the same post about men cheating looking for bread 
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7/18/2008 8:28 pm |
what a very nice post depending man's side but,,,you have your point there!!!actually, man and woman cheat their partners 'coz they aren't find satisfaction about each other. how can you cheat someone you really love if you are contented with her/him,,,am i right????you feel your heart crumpled if you see your partner is hurting,,,in my side,,i think i can't do  happy weekend to you, bok  Teach yourself to speak slowly but think quickly.  
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 7/18/2008 8:40 pm |
another one of your brilliant topics bok ... i can say i agree with those you wrote above ... btw, am glad that i am not the only one who likes watching the dogs in what they do ... just a reminder bok next time watch from a distance so you will not be bitten again ... sorry can't help it       
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7/19/2008 1:29 am |
It takes two to tango...
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7/19/2008 4:08 am |
Gender neutral. Keep your dogs or is it ladies and gents legs crossed! 
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7/19/2008 6:24 am |
Being cheated on is not a lovely picture. I've been there twice in my lifetime. You feel so unworthy of their love. Like nothing and empty. And sometimes you push it aside because of your unconditional love for them. That it will all go away. You will accept it no matter what. Then they leave you... Being a cheat doesn't choose if you're a female or male. Love happens or attraction. Whatever you call it. I think both sides will feel bad. Because they are doing it. But, more so on the innocent party. There are only rare occasions when that bond of love is so strong!!! When you love a person and thinks the world of them, you will not cheat because you love them with all your heart and soul!!!
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7/19/2008 7:01 am |
the character counts most..cheating wont recognize any gender at all...it depends on the values that man and woman have lived.
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 7/19/2008 7:40 pm |
All I know is that all cheaters are losers, no ifs or buts, it doesn't matter if they came from Venus or Mars or some other planets!!
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7/20/2008 4:58 am |
So whoever said that all men and only men are cheaters should come forward and speak up now. I had my heart broken by a cheater/womanizer many, many years ago but it's a totally different story and no I didn't cheat with him lol. People cheat coz they can...and I am coming to believe it's by nature too. I agree that this isn't a gender issue but glad you fess up that men are natural cheaters ...but only coz they can, right? lolAnyway, there's a chain reaction to every action...what goes around comes around. Everyone is responsible for their actions and decisions and karma never fails...and my legs are crossed. 
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7/20/2008 1:54 pm |
waaa bro we almost have the same post about men cheating ..i saw that..
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7/20/2008 1:57 pm |
what a very nice post depending man's side but,,,you have your point there!!!actually, man and woman cheat their partners 'coz they aren't find satisfaction about each other. how can you cheat someone you really love if you are contented with her/him,,,am i right????you feel your heart crumpled if you see your partner is hurting,,,in my side,,i think i can't do happy weekend to you, bok ..thanks for commenting, tris..your man(ado) is lucky....
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7/20/2008 1:58 pm |
another one of your brilliant topics bok ... i can say i agree with those you wrote above ... btw, am glad that i am not the only one who likes watching the dogs in what they do ... just a reminder bok next time watch from a distance so you will not be bitten again ... sorry can't help it ..funny..like your new look, btw..sexy....
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7/20/2008 1:59 pm |
It takes two to tango... ..
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7/20/2008 2:08 pm |
Gender neutral. Keep your dogs or is it ladies and gents legs crossed!
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7/20/2008 2:10 pm |
Being cheated on is not a lovely picture. I've been there twice in my lifetime. You feel so unworthy of their love. Like nothing and empty. And sometimes you push it aside because of your unconditional love for them. That it will all go away. You will accept it no matter what. Then they leave you... Being a cheat doesn't choose if you're a female or male. Love happens or attraction. Whatever you call it. I think both sides will feel bad. Because they are doing it. But, more so on the innocent party. There are only rare occasions when that bond of love is so strong!!! When you love a person and thinks the world of them, you will not cheat because you love them with all your heart and soul!!! ..
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7/20/2008 2:11 pm |
the character counts most..cheating wont recognize any gender at all...it depends on the values that man and woman have lived. ..
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7/20/2008 2:17 pm |
All I know is that all cheaters are losers, no ifs or buts, it doesn't matter if they came from Venus or Mars or some other planets!!
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7/20/2008 2:20 pm |
So whoever said that all men and only men are cheaters should come forward and speak up now. I had my heart broken by a cheater/womanizer many, many years ago but it's a totally different story and no I didn't cheat with him lol. People cheat coz they can...and I am coming to believe it's by nature too. I agree that this isn't a gender issue but glad you fess up that men are natural cheaters ...but only coz they can, right? lolAnyway, there's a chain reaction to every action...what goes around comes around. Everyone is responsible for their actions and decisions and karma never fails...and my legs are crossed. ..
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7/21/2008 8:28 am |
i am by nature, a romantic. i refuse to believe that all men have the capacity to cheat. despite the fact i never, in my wildest dreams, thought my husband would ever cheat on me, he did. needless to say, i was devastated. but as i learned more about what happened, and opened not only my mind, but heart, i realized it was weakness...on both their parts. for him, it was a way to gain the attention HE THOUGHT he never got...not just from his wife, but from women in general. for her, it was the ever elusive approval from her father she yearned for. for both, cheating was a way of survival...an escape from the demons inside them. what did i learn from it??? i can be happy whatever life throws at me. i don't need a man to "complete" me. (but Bok, if i were NOT married, i would definitely ask you to "escape with me". remember the pina colada song?) i think you and i could have some glorious conversations.
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7/21/2008 11:00 am |
Very interesting, intriguing,and it is happening. Kudos Bro Bok...sa iyong makatotohanang salaysay. Mabuhay! "aim...dream ...work ....and make it happen." 
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7/21/2008 3:43 pm |
I didn't cheat, I am not cheating (since I got nobody to cheat on ) and I promise not to cheat!   
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7/21/2008 3:43 pm |
Peksman! 
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7/21/2008 9:33 pm |
nice topic indeed...if a man wants to cheat he will do it no matter how the girl loves him..i know been there..twice ..huhuhuh with the same man..i thought the second chance i gave him will make it alright..sad to say it didnt..now I learned a lesson..time to give him up and move on with my life...he still communicates with me but i just want to forget all about the relationship...just praying his happy now with whoever she is...
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7/21/2008 9:48 pm |
i am by nature, a romantic. i refuse to believe that all men have the capacity to cheat. despite the fact i never, in my wildest dreams, thought my husband would ever cheat on me, he did. needless to say, i was devastated. but as i learned more about what happened, and opened not only my mind, but heart, i realized it was weakness...on both their parts. for him, it was a way to gain the attention HE THOUGHT he never got...not just from his wife, but from women in general. for her, it was the ever elusive approval from her father she yearned for. for both, cheating was a way of survival...an escape from the demons inside them. what did i learn from it??? i can be happy whatever life throws at me. i don't need a man to "complete" me. (but Bok, if i were NOT married, i would definitely ask you to "escape with me". remember the pina colada song?) i think you and i could have some glorious conversations. .. ..if you like pinacolada, getting caught in the rain....i'm flattered.. ..
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7/21/2008 9:51 pm |
Very interesting, intriguing,and it is happening. Kudos Bro Bok...sa iyong makatotohanang salaysay. Mabuhay! ..thanks, bro....
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7/21/2008 9:53 pm |
Peksman! ....
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7/21/2008 10:00 pm |
nice topic indeed...if a man wants to cheat he will do it no matter how the girl loves him..i know been there..twice ..huhuhuh with the same man..i thought the second chance i gave him will make it alright..sad to say it didnt..now I learned a lesson..time to give him up and move on with my life...he still communicates with me but i just want to forget all about the relationship...just praying his happy now with whoever she is...  ..your time will come, watch....
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7/21/2008 10:09 pm |
pina coladas used to be my drink. now it's more like lemon drops. have you tried those? when i was younger, i always dreamed of a tall man who loved basketball. tagalog speaking and intelligent pa din. instead, i hooked up with a medium sized guy who is funny and very witty. smart too, of course. nothing turns me off like, you know.... what intrigues me about you is the way you loved your wife. parang so sad love story and if i had a magic wand, i would change things so you could still be with her. parang masarap kang magmahal. i would love to escape with you because i think we both could help each other out. purely platonic, ha. hindi ako ganon kasi. what's your poison, btw?
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7/21/2008 10:22 pm |
i know..hindi mo na dapat ipagsigawan.. .... ...How did you know Bok? ...Uyyy!...just whisper to me who told you, okay?
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7/22/2008 6:56 pm |
pina coladas used to be my drink. now it's more like lemon drops. have you tried those? when i was younger, i always dreamed of a tall man who loved basketball. tagalog speaking and intelligent pa din. instead, i hooked up with a medium sized guy who is funny and very witty. smart too, of course. nothing turns me off like, you know.... what intrigues me about you is the way you loved your wife. parang so sad love story and if i had a magic wand, i would change things so you could still be with her. parang masarap kang magmahal. i would love to escape with you because i think we both could help each other out. purely platonic, ha. hindi ako ganon kasi. what's your poison, btw? ..it's ok..i know what you are saying..you can relate to my way of thinking..i think it would be wonderful to share thoughts and ideas with you too....as to my poison, don't really have a preference, i don't really have a preference on much of anything, anything will do..booorring....oh, just now heard of lemon drops, any good?
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7/22/2008 6:59 pm |
Aha! ...How did you know Bok? ...Uyyy!...just whisper to me who told you, okay? ..i don't know Elz..just fishing..maybe you'd tell me......take care, bad weather coming....
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7/22/2008 7:31 pm |
..i don't know Elz..just fishing..maybe you'd tell me......take care, bad weather coming....
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7/22/2008 9:27 pm |
ay naku, Bok, napakasarap ng lemon drops. but vodka doesn't hit me as much as tequila. B52's are good too, kaya lang very sweet. after a few shots, doesn't matter the taste, di ba? i would so love to chat with you. i don't go to the chat room...don't really know how. this net thing is still pretty new to me. how can we chat? im really interested in what you have to say about some issues i have at hand.
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7/30/2008 6:40 pm |
ay naku, Bok, napakasarap ng lemon drops. but vodka doesn't hit me as much as tequila. B52's are good too, kaya lang very sweet. after a few shots, doesn't matter the taste, di ba? i would so love to chat with you. i don't go to the chat room...don't really know how. this net thing is still pretty new to me. how can we chat? im really interested in what you have to say about some issues i have at hand. ..biro lang..i'll tell you how....
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