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is it the looks?..
bokboyong
7/14/2008 3:40 pm
everybody asks..quite frankly, i say it's the looks, primarily..but it does not necessarily mean that i settle for the looks alone..the looks is what attracts me to someone, to get to know that someone, to see if there is substance, for a relationship to bloom, prosper..towards the end, when i can say that i have found that someone i'm looking for, she may not have the looks after all, anyway....and she may not want me..not her kind of guy..

we can't help it, it's our nature to go first by what we see before we go any deeper..we are not animals, were no dogs or whatever kind there is where they just go at it....

our senses attracts us to one another, the more they are alike, the better we understand..as to me, i'm flexible enough to have some qualities i look for missing, with other qualities i deemed essential for a healthy relationship, compensating for the missing ones....

as for the physical attributes, i'm an ass/behind kind of a guy, not the boobie type....i can't help it, i love a well-rounded behind, the curves from the waistline down to the thighs and knees, my oh my....that's my weakness....curvy to me is sexy, not skin and bones like how models look....am i drooling yet?....sorry..

there you go..looks is there to attract people to you, but it's really what's inside that makes people wanna stick by you..that's why it's so hard....i'll find her....
poweroflove3
928 posts 

7/14/2008 5:25 pm

Hahahahah this is so funny!!!!

joy601
77 posts 

7/14/2008 5:30 pm

So it is right ro say that men are usually visual?

juicy101
396 posts 

7/14/2008 6:00 pm

Well Bok...

tinidor
470 posts 

7/14/2008 7:08 pm

... way to go juicy101

i read that men are more visual than women
and that women are more emotional than visual...
... am a feet person myself... altho i discovered that its never really a reliable measure of a man's character - a clean man perhaps but ...

happy butt hunting !

bokboyong
1369 posts 

7/14/2008 7:56 pm

....thanks, Tess..

bokboyong
1369 posts 

7/14/2008 8:01 pm

    Quoting joy601:
    So it is right ro say that men are usually visual?
all of us are....we visualize ourselves to who we think we'll be attracted to..di ba, they say that couples kinda look-alike?..let me ask you this, and be honest pls....if someone that looks like "palito", the actor, smiles at you, i know you'd smile back, sign of respect and being friendly..but, would it cross your mind to even think that you'd want to know him more..sige nga joy, i'm waiting for an honest answer....

bokboyong
1369 posts 

7/14/2008 8:03 pm

....there.....akala mo ha....

bokboyong
1369 posts 

7/14/2008 8:05 pm

    Quoting tinidor:
    ... way to go juicy101

    i read that men are more visual than women
    and that women are more emotional than visual...
    ... am a feet person myself... altho i discovered that its never really a reliable measure of a man's character - a clean man perhaps but ...

    happy butt hunting !
like i told joy..would you?..teka, what are you trying to measure ba?.....just kidding..

Airhead888
294 posts 

7/14/2008 9:42 pm

The voluptuous kind of gal, eh? Mr. Bok? And the inside and not the outside, eh? Somehow, that conjures a different kind of image in my mind!

bday1021
189 posts

7/14/2008 10:06 pm

I agree!!, physical attraction is the preliminary part of a relationship, that doesn't mean though that h/she will be your dream match, sometimes it may be the opposite but for some reason there is this spark that will trigger the visual attraction once you two meet.

joy601
77 posts 

7/14/2008 10:40 pm

    Quoting bokboyong:
    all of us are....we visualize ourselves to who we think we'll be attracted to..di ba, they say that couples kinda look-alike?..let me ask you this, and be honest pls....if someone that looks like "palito", the actor, smiles at you, i know you'd smile back, sign of respect and being friendly..but, would it cross your mind to even think that you'd want to know him more..sige nga joy, i'm waiting for an honest answer....
Well Bok to be honest I will wonder why he smiled at me. Kasi di ko cya kilala but somehow I will smile back.Kung matipuhan....hahaha medyo matagalan yun prove nya type nya ako.lol kasi walang matigas na tinapay sa maiinit na kape .Lalambaot din ang puso kung sya ay matiyaga.

jense26
1139 posts 

7/14/2008 11:22 pm

well...

mikzubi14

7/15/2008 1:09 am

kuya bok, i thank you for accepting me as a friend despite the fact you know my sexual orientation. I am in deep gratitude.

_lightblue_
835 posts 

7/15/2008 8:44 am

So now the ladies know... may the biggest butt wins. You'll find her for sure, Mr.Bok...keep on looking.

And I agree with everything that you said here especially the last part. Cheers!


poweroflove3
928 posts 

7/15/2008 4:51 pm

    Quoting _lightblue_:
    So now the ladies know... may the biggest butt wins. You'll find her for sure, Mr.Bok...keep on looking.

    And I agree with everything that you said here especially the last part. Cheers!

Si, lightblue talaga!!! hahahahah hehehehehe For sure he'll find his dream butt!!!! lol

_lightblue_
835 posts 

7/15/2008 8:09 pm

    Quoting poweroflove3:
    Si, lightblue talaga!!! hahahahah hehehehehe For sure he'll find his dream butt!!!! lol
raise your butt, sis T!!! too bad mine is only medium size disqualified na agad ako...hahahahahaha

poweroflove3
928 posts 

7/15/2008 8:43 pm

    Quoting _lightblue_:
    raise your butt, sis T!!! too bad mine is only medium size disqualified na agad ako...hahahahahaha
sis,

Hands down talo ako!!! Hahaahahahaha

_lightblue_
835 posts 

7/16/2008 4:03 pm

    Quoting poweroflove3:
    sis,

    Hands down talo ako!!! Hahaahahahaha
Give up ka naman agad sis, huwag muna!!! I know another secret...in na in ka pa rin sa dreamland ni Mr.Bok!

sexymermaid
266 posts

7/17/2008 3:06 am

anong sabi mo bok

poweroflove3
928 posts 

7/17/2008 6:36 pm

    Quoting _lightblue_:
    Give up ka naman agad sis, huwag muna!!! I know another secret...in na in ka pa rin sa dreamland ni Mr.Bok!
sis,

suko na ako!!! si ms sexymermaid is the winner!!!!

bokboyong
1369 posts 

7/17/2008 8:39 pm

    Quoting Airhead888:
    The voluptuous kind of gal, eh? Mr. Bok? And the inside and not the outside, eh? Somehow, that conjures a different kind of image in my mind!
..i wonder how that image looks....my kind of hot bodies, citing some that i find really sexy..hehe..of course, J Lo, Halle Berry, and Cindy Crawford..

bokboyong
1369 posts 

7/17/2008 8:42 pm

    Quoting bday1021:
    I agree!!, physical attraction is the preliminary part of a relationship, that doesn't mean though that h/she will be your dream match, sometimes it may be the opposite but for some reason there is this spark that will trigger the visual attraction once you two meet.
di ba?..you have to be attracted to even think of approaching the gal or with the ladies, to give the guy time....

bokboyong
1369 posts 

7/17/2008 8:43 pm

    Quoting joy601:
    Well Bok to be honest I will wonder why he smiled at me. Kasi di ko cya kilala but somehow I will smile back.Kung matipuhan....hahaha medyo matagalan yun prove nya type nya ako.lol kasi walang matigas na tinapay sa maiinit na kape .Lalambaot din ang puso kung sya ay matiyaga.
pag isinawsaw mo yung tinapay sa kape, talagang lalambot..

bokboyong
1369 posts 

7/17/2008 8:45 pm

hi jense..

bokboyong
1369 posts 

7/17/2008 8:49 pm

    Quoting mikzubi14:
    kuya bok, i thank you for accepting me as a friend despite the fact you know my sexual orientation. I am in deep gratitude.
mik..it does not matter to me..i see you as a good person, it's who you are , not how you are....

bokboyong
1369 posts 

7/17/2008 8:51 pm

    Quoting _lightblue_:
    So now the ladies know... may the biggest butt wins. You'll find her for sure, Mr.Bok...keep on looking.

    And I agree with everything that you said here especially the last part. Cheers!

you think?....thanks for agreeing....

bokboyong
1369 posts 

7/17/2008 8:53 pm

tweet..tweet....ang sexy naman ng lips mo..

jane82
3267 posts 

7/19/2008 4:11 am

    Quoting bokboyong:
    all of us are....we visualize ourselves to who we think we'll be attracted to..di ba, they say that couples kinda look-alike?..let me ask you this, and be honest pls....if someone that looks like "palito", the actor, smiles at you, i know you'd smile back, sign of respect and being friendly..but, would it cross your mind to even think that you'd want to know him more..sige nga joy, i'm waiting for an honest answer....
My married friends scarily look-alike.

However, my bf and I don't look anything like each other, complete opposites. We just behave quite alike.

poweroflove3
928 posts 

7/19/2008 6:17 am

    Quoting bokboyong:
    mik..it does not matter to me..i see you as a good person, it's who you are , not how you are....
Mik,

I second the motion to that!!! You are truly a great person in and out. With that beautiful smile. Mr Boks is right "you are a good person". See it takes one to know one...

God bless everyone!!!

bokboyong
1369 posts 

7/20/2008 1:51 pm

    Quoting jane82:
    My married friends scarily look-alike.

    However, my bf and I don't look anything like each other, complete opposites. We just behave quite alike.
there's still something alike between you two....

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