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i've been tagged a loner, growing up..must be because of my shyness..and i believe this is what got/gets me misunderstood most of the time.. maybe i can validate why i prefer to be alone, when needed..i need my space..it's when i can think things over, running everything every which way, in my mind, analyzing everything..i turn every stone that needs upturning, never leaving any stone unturn..taking things apart, then reassembling in every possible way.. i think a lot..i have to think twice, maybe more, to decide on things..for an example, for a guy, i window-shop/browse for a few times before i decide on whether i need to buy and if it's really necessary for me to acquire what it is i'm trying to get..patience?..or..apprehensive!.. it must be because of how i went through my teen years..to rid of the shyness, i went way too bold and daring back then, and stumbled a few times..it's probably what refrains me from rushing to things now..i'm more at ease when i do it this way now though, don't want that sorry/guilt feeling afterwards, if i make a mistake..when i take my time, even if i blunder, i don't feel much self-censure for my actions for i know i've looked at all the possibilities there are.. it may take awhile but hey, when it's over, it's really a big sigh of relief and like i said, less blaming when things fall apart but that doesn't happen all the time, just once in a while..hehehe..it's how i make peace with myself.. |
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7/1/2008 2:56 am |
Good To Know, Bro..
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7/1/2008 4:11 am |
as i see it, your browsing may take you a lifetime so i think you're right to choose to be alone.. the lady may have to wait forever! lolz TC
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7/1/2008 5:34 am |
SLOWLY BUT SURELY!!! How have you been friend Bokboyong? I wRoTe YoUr NaMe In My HeArT aNd FoReVeR iT will StAy
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7/1/2008 5:52 am |
sense of honey's got u there  i'm the same. i find that deciding on impulse almost always lands me in trouble. thats why i usually think twice or thrice before i decide on something. ...hey whatever works for u, di ba ... 
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7/1/2008 7:42 am |
Wow, i agree with everyone here. Man, had this experience and looked at every which way possible to decide. But, in the end it was for the good of everyone instead of being selfish. And that's what count the most. You don't want to hurt anyone. And be bothered by guilt or your conscience. God bless everyone and have a fun week!!! 
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7/1/2008 7:51 am |
Well, that is what we call,          ... That's what defines you...and sets you apart from the others... meaning, "bokboyong" is not "threetulips"... as well as threetulips is not anyone else.. I just gave myself as an example  I don't want to mention handles, they might think I have favoritism but since this is your blog, I especially mentioned your handle ...and justice for my handle because I am the one posting Just kidding Sir Nice thought  
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7/1/2008 3:51 pm |
strange that i thought us women would be more prone to what you are saying and doing...thinking, deciding rigidly and not dilly dallying!...but true, i understand that a man may find thousands reasons and answers before doing a thing and nothing on impulse...but isn't that more on trying to give power to everything that you do because, you are the stronger sex and you want lesser falls on decision making?    
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7/1/2008 5:22 pm |
when you are young you are daring but when you aged, you become weary/cautious that's what life has taught us. But don't take too long to choose she might be taken and you will miss the opportunity again?  Just follow your instinct? gut? whatever ...your heart will lead you there.
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7/6/2008 2:08 pm |
Good To Know, Bro..
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7/6/2008 2:10 pm |
as i see it, your browsing may take you a lifetime so i think you're right to choose to be alone.. the lady may have to wait forever! lolz TC ..
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7/6/2008 2:12 pm |
SLOWLY BUT SURELY!!! How have you been friend Bokboyong? ..i'm good, thanks..hope you are the same....
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7/6/2008 2:14 pm |
sense of honey's got u there i'm the same. i find that deciding on impulse almost always lands me in trouble. thats why i usually think twice or thrice before i decide on something. ...hey whatever works for u, di ba ... ..
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7/6/2008 2:18 pm |
Wow, i agree with everyone here. Man, had this experience and looked at every which way possible to decide. But, in the end it was for the good of everyone instead of being selfish. And that's what count the most. You don't want to hurt anyone. And be bothered by guilt or your conscience. God bless everyone and have a fun week!!! ..mukhang mafifiring-squad ulit tayong dalawa sa Luneta sa pagiging martyr....musta na?
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7/6/2008 2:20 pm |
Well, that is what we call, ... That's what defines you...and sets you apart from the others... meaning, "bokboyong" is not "threetulips"... as well as threetulips is not anyone else.. I just gave myself as an example I don't want to mention handles, they might think I have favoritism but since this is your blog, I especially mentioned your handle ...and justice for my handle because I am the one posting Just kidding Sir Nice thought ..just kidding too..finally, a face..hehe..thanks
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7/6/2008 2:26 pm |
strange that i thought us women would be more prone to what you are saying and doing...thinking, deciding rigidly and not dilly dallying!...but true, i understand that a man may find thousands reasons and answers before doing a thing and nothing on impulse...but isn't that more on trying to give power to everything that you do because, you are the stronger sex and you want lesser falls on decision making?
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7/6/2008 2:28 pm |
when you are young you are daring but when you aged, you become weary/cautious that's what life has taught us. But don't take too long to choose she might be taken and you will miss the opportunity again? Just follow your instinct? gut? whatever ...your heart will lead you there..)seem to be forever....
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7/7/2008 11:51 am |
Somehow I can relate. 
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