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6/29/2008 4:08 pm
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..THINGS HAPPEN FOR A REASON..for whatever happens, and for whatever reasons, it's there..no one can just put it aside, sweep it under the rug and pretend that nothing happened..there's always something happening in our lives and I must accept them, whether I want to or not..that's life..
when things do happen, sure, it changes my perception of life when something drastic happens..it's either I learn from it..or..I turn a blind eye, coz I am either too afraid or too stubborn to accept faults or I just plainly don't know what to do, and this is when I suffer..
when these life-changing episodes happen, that turns my world upside down, I analyze..I try to get to the cause and either accept my faults and go the extra mile for redemption or to forgive, whatever the case may be and I move on..
there shouldn't be any ifs and/or buts about these changes..two things..have a strong stomach to just accept what changed in life and learn to live with it, hoping that these changes will get better someday..or..just simply completely end that chapter of life, move on, learning from what happened, and try..to try to be a better person.. ..
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934 posts 6/29/2008 6:13 pm |
Interesting topic...
A chapter of my life ended 3 months ago. Yet, my stupidity still links me to the past. It's easier said than done to let go of the person and everyone else. Letting go is hard.
But, in the end just have to let go...really have to have a strong stomach for it. See if it makes you a better person or not. At this point in time i've stopped questioning.
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878 posts 6/29/2008 6:44 pm |
Hello Bok, I hope you take it easy and try to look on the brighter side of your situation. Sometimes the unexpected happens to strengthen us and always happen for a reason. I hope things will turn out well for you. Take care and stay safe.
  
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3941 posts 6/29/2008 7:02 pm |
things happen for a reason when in season..lolz pag summer at mainit, galit-galit muna pag taglamig, ayun nakasubsub sa kilikili ni mahal ahihihihi
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647 posts 6/29/2008 8:13 pm |
i always find reasons or logic for the negative things that happen to me...that way i get to be positive and my outlook does not look so glum...true! you can't do anything about those bad happenings, you just gotta be strong holding on to your sanity whenever you have them...rather than sulk and be unhappy, believe the negative happens because something very positive, soon comes along...
    
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13 posts 6/30/2008 1:18 am |
hmmm..intriguing ang post ni kuya bok...well just hang on to what you believe in..and be strong..no matter what happens theres a reason for it..like you said it can be a lesson to be learn..just learn from it so you will do better for the next challenge..life is full of challenges...its either you do better or just try to make it work for your advantage..take care bok...
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1013 posts 6/30/2008 2:24 am |
Agree.. Keep the faith bro.. 

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506 posts 6/30/2008 7:44 am |
always believe that good things are possible, and remember that mistakes can be lessons that lead to discoveries.
learn to rise above anxiety and doubt.
turn your worry hours into productive hours.
take the energy that you wasted and direct it toward every worthwhile effort that you can be involved in.
dont leave ur future to chance and wait for things to get better mysteriously on its own.
build your confidence and work through your problems rather than avoid them.
practice practice practice positive thinking
--------excerpts Kelly D.Williams
hang in there 
btw --- am still learning --
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3369 posts 6/30/2008 11:50 am |
Great blog. Thanks Bok. 

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192 posts 6/30/2008 7:23 pm |
Hey Bok, be happy, let's party, I'm not kidding, my friends (Filipino band,"Flip side") here in Sac town has a gig on 7/12, one of the local restaurants, no there's no tickets involve, just night of fun and music,you'll probably like their line-up, some filipino rock, some american rock like Led Zippelen,Deep purple,Santana,70's and some 80's, even more recent music, of course cha-cha and swing will always be included, if you want to bring a male or female friend it's ok, ( I hope it's a macho gwapito and can dance, just kidding), I hope you can make it, see, this is an open invitation for any of you from FFF who wants to join us, you're all welcome, Bok, this will keep your mind off from what ever it is temporarily.
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647 posts 7/1/2008 4:02 pm |
Quoting bday1021: Hey Bok, be happy, let's party, I'm not kidding, my friends (Filipino band,"Flip side") here in Sac town has a gig on 7/12, one of the local restaurants, no there's no tickets involve, just night of fun and music,you'll probably like their line-up, some filipino rock, some american rock like Led Zippelen,Deep purple,Santana,70's and some 80's, even more recent music, of course cha-cha and swing will always be included, if you want to bring a male or female friend it's ok, ( I hope it's a macho gwapito and can dance, just kidding), I hope you can make it, see, this is an open invitation for any of you from FFF who wants to join us, you're all welcome, Bok, this will keep your mind off from what ever it is temporarily.
how i wish the sm'ers would be joining you on this one! it's one helluva riot celebrating the meeting with you, am sure...
    
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1381 posts 7/6/2008 2:37 pm |
Quoting poweroflove3: Interesting topic...
A chapter of my life ended 3 months ago. Yet, my stupidity still links me to the past. It's easier said than done to let go of the person and everyone else. Letting go is hard.
But, in the end just have to let go...really have to have a strong stomach for it. See if it makes you a better person or not. At this point in time i've stopped questioning.
it's not stupidity..you can't help it..you were in love..
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1381 posts 7/6/2008 2:38 pm |
Quoting _lightblue_: Hello Bok, I hope you take it easy and try to look on the brighter side of your situation. Sometimes the unexpected happens to strengthen us and always happen for a reason. I hope things will turn out well for you. Take care and stay safe.
Hello Blue, thank you.. ..
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1381 posts 7/6/2008 2:39 pm |
Quoting SeNsE_of_HoNeY: things happen for a reason when in season..lolz pag summer at mainit, galit-galit muna pag taglamig, ayun nakasubsub sa kilikili ni mahal ahihihihi
at sinisinghot-singhot.. ..
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1381 posts 7/6/2008 2:41 pm |
Quoting fantasiamore: i always find reasons or logic for the negative things that happen to me...that way i get to be positive and my outlook does not look so glum...true! you can't do anything about those bad happenings, you just gotta be strong holding on to your sanity whenever you have them...rather than sulk and be unhappy, believe the negative happens because something very positive, soon comes along...
thanks, jane.. ..
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1381 posts 7/6/2008 2:42 pm |
tongue-tied?.. ..paano kasi puro joe, puro joe, laman ng utak mo.. ..
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1381 posts 7/6/2008 2:43 pm |
Quoting mizelsam: hmmm..intriguing ang post ni kuya bok...well just hang on to what you believe in..and be strong..no matter what happens theres a reason for it..like you said it can be a lesson to be learn..just learn from it so you will do better for the next challenge..life is full of challenges...its either you do better or just try to make it work for your advantage..take care bok...
.. ..thank you, mizel..
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1381 posts 7/6/2008 2:44 pm |
Quoting ambrans: Agree.. Keep the faith bro.. 

i am..thanks bro..
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1381 posts 7/6/2008 2:48 pm |
Quoting tinidor: always believe that good things are possible, and remember that mistakes can be lessons that lead to discoveries.
learn to rise above anxiety and doubt.
turn your worry hours into productive hours.
take the energy that you wasted and direct it toward every worthwhile effort that you can be involved in.
dont leave ur future to chance and wait for things to get better mysteriously on its own.
build your confidence and work through your problems rather than avoid them.
practice practice practice positive thinking
--------excerpts Kelly D.Williams
hang in there 
btw --- am still learning --
thank you for the valuable insights..we all are, learning..til the end, right?..
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1381 posts 7/6/2008 2:48 pm |
Quoting jane82: Great blog. Thanks Bok. 
thanks, jane.. ..
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1381 posts 7/6/2008 2:50 pm |
Quoting bday1021: Hey Bok, be happy, let's party, I'm not kidding, my friends (Filipino band,"Flip side") here in Sac town has a gig on 7/12, one of the local restaurants, no there's no tickets involve, just night of fun and music,you'll probably like their line-up, some filipino rock, some american rock like Led Zippelen,Deep purple,Santana,70's and some 80's, even more recent music, of course cha-cha and swing will always be included, if you want to bring a male or female friend it's ok, ( I hope it's a macho gwapito and can dance, just kidding), I hope you can make it, see, this is an open invitation for any of you from FFF who wants to join us, you're all welcome, Bok, this will keep your mind off from what ever it is temporarily.
and where is this happening?.. ..
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192 posts 7/10/2008 9:36 pm |
Quoting bokboyong: and where is this happening?.. ..
Bok, unfortunately hindi natuloy ang gig, something happened to one of the band member, sayang, maybe next time.
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