Do you have a spare?
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When you`re in a relationship is it alright to have a spare? With a spare I`m talking about that someone you can go back to if ever your relationship fails.. someone who you know will be there waiting for you..and who will take you in short notice. Not that many will allow themselves to be someone else`s spare.. what else can they be offering..but a rare kind of love. they are willing to wait and then be the shock absorber of what`s left of you..after a break up. This was what a girl told me sometime back.."I don`t mind if you make me your spare" ..I told her to stop.. I can`t do that to her for she could easily be another guy`s princess. Love like it`s the best there is.. like it`s the last one you`ll have..and make it real.. |
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8/25/2009 3:13 pm |
Isn't it nice though to know someone is waiting for you? ..Actually it`s up to that someone if s/he would like to wait or not.. When it`s taking so long..then that would be the cue to start looking for someone else. Love like it`s the best there is.. like it`s the last one you`ll have..and make it real..
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8/25/2009 7:11 am |
..in my case ,I didn`t consider her as my spare..but all the time that I had been in another relationship..she had been waiting for me..watching from a distance..she has accepted suitors but for almost a year she didn`t commit herself to anyone..we crossed our paths again more than two months ago and hit it off.She doesn`t deserve to be just a spare..for as you said with yours..she makes me whole..   
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8/24/2009 1:18 pm |
..I believe that it`s the right thing to do.. ..thank you for your comments.. it`s a pleasure exchanging views with someone as level headed as you are..you have a nice week ahead of you..  . Best of luck.
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8/24/2009 11:49 am |
Oops I misread your title initially. Uhmm being a spare I thought of someone a while back and he said he'll be fine with it, but then I develop more feelings for him later down the line, so he no longer is a spare. He's far more than a spare when he makes me whole. Love like it`s the best there is.. like it`s the last one you`ll have..and make it real..
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8/24/2009 10:03 am |
Oops I misread your title initially. Uhmm being a spare I thought of someone a while back and he said he'll be fine with it, but then I develop more feelings for him later down the line, so he no longer is a spare. He's far more than a spare when he makes me whole.
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8/23/2009 1:06 pm |
I commend you for telling her to "stop". She's blinded and not realizing it could hurt her deeper later on. She's basically putting her life "on hold" just to be "your spare". I hope you don't take advantage of her vulnerability but instead, help her to have a better high regards for herself. ..thank you for your comments.. it`s a pleasure exchanging views with someone as level headed as you are..you have a nice week ahead of you.. Love like it`s the best there is.. like it`s the last one you`ll have..and make it real..
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8/23/2009 7:46 am |
I commend you for telling her to "stop". She's blinded and not realizing it could hurt her deeper later on. She's basically putting her life "on hold" just to be "your spare". I hope you don't take advantage of her vulnerability but instead, help her to have a better high regards for herself.
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