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Liar..Liar..  

jeremslove
8/21/2009 7:18 pm
It is so easy to call
someone
a liar..but beware..
Lies are just
a bunch of half truths
in magnified form..
and can just be
a misconception..
Before giving
anyone that monicker
you got to hear his
side..your Liar may
tell you something
that can change
your mind..


Love like it`s the best there is.. like it`s the last one you`ll have..and make it real..
jeremslove

8/25/2009 3:03 pm

    Quoting jane82:
    Are your pants on fire? (Just kidding)
..I wasn`t wearing one! (also kidding..)

Love like it`s the best there is.. like it`s the last one you`ll have..and make it real..

jane82
7837 posts 

8/25/2009 9:12 am

Are your pants on fire? (Just kidding)

Carmi0403

8/24/2009 1:29 pm

    Quoting jeremslove:
    ..that`s right..so why lie in the first place? why try to mislead someone into believing that everything is still alright when actually it`s not?
    ..but how will you tell someone you once love that you don`t love her or him anymore? And that you are in love with someone else? Can you ever say that you just had changed your mind and heart in an instant?..or will you tell half truths first to soften the blow then move so slowly away?
    ..there never is a right path to take..but in these situations ..feelings are involved..they can never be downplayed..and must always be taken into consideration..
When it comes to the affairs of the heart, It's wiser to be straightforward than beating around the bush. An ill feeling towards you may be spoken but fingers will never be pointed "at" you for being dishonest.
A broken heart patches up over time but zero dignity can't be restored. I'd rather walk away knowing I was honest than misleading the person when I know I no longer feel the same.
Know what I mean?

jeremslove

8/23/2009 3:21 pm

    Quoting Carmi0403:
    Pretty much just like i stated earlier, it will backfire. why lie in the first place...
    and when the person keeps on lying (could be habitual) then you ought to start really wondering why.

    however, there are people who aren't good in expressing or explaining themselves. when you interrogate them more, they get more frustrated hence, the illusory version to fill in the void of what they can't express. sometimes it's best to walk away & give them time to reflect. especially after you've given them a dose of what your take on the matter is, and that they know where you stand.

    as to the rest of your other thoughts, sorry my friend but i can only comment on lie itself since i don't know your full story with her & what she lies about. for you to nurture or condone to it is your heart & mind's call. sometimes it's best to follow your mind to protect your heart.

    good luck.

..that`s right..so why lie in the first place? why try to mislead someone into believing that everything is still alright when actually it`s not?
..but how will you tell someone you once love that you don`t love her or him anymore? And that you are in love with someone else? Can you ever say that you just had changed your mind and heart in an instant?..or will you tell half truths first to soften the blow then move so slowly away?
..there never is a right path to take..but in these situations ..feelings are involved..they can never be downplayed..and must always be taken into consideration..

Love like it`s the best there is.. like it`s the last one you`ll have..and make it real..

Carmi0403

8/22/2009 1:28 pm

    Quoting jeremslove:
    ..no matter what the reasons are..lying is still lying..lies are lies..and when someone lie..s/he tends to lie some more..
    ..but how will you soothe her wounded heart but by saying
    words she long to hear.?.how will you calm her nerves but by saying
    words that can possibly heal?..not much can be accomplished with half truths but..
    ..will it be better to just leave her out in the cold and let her cry under the rain? Wouldn`t it be better to stay a while..and make it right if you can?
Pretty much just like i stated earlier, it will backfire. why lie in the first place...
and when the person keeps on lying (could be habitual) then you ought to start really wondering why.

however, there are people who aren't good in expressing or explaining themselves. when you interrogate them more, they get more frustrated hence, the illusory version to fill in the void of what they can't express. sometimes it's best to walk away & give them time to reflect. especially after you've given them a dose of what your take on the matter is, and that they know where you stand.

as to the rest of your other thoughts, sorry my friend but i can only comment on lie itself since i don't know your full story with her & what she lies about. for you to nurture or condone to it is your heart & mind's call. sometimes it's best to follow your mind to protect your heart.

good luck.

jeremslove

8/22/2009 12:01 pm

    Quoting Carmi0403:
    The theory "of" lying and the theory "to" lie should be exonerating. "Why" would be the only question. Some people lie to make themselves look exquisite or altogether "polished" is what i'm trying to say...
    Nevertheless, when you sense someone is being insincere, you shouldn't have a reason not to do further analysis therefore true, it could change your mind, be it a good change or a bad change.
    For every rhyme there should be a reason. Regardless, it will backfire.

    just my two cents.....

..no matter what the reasons are..lying is still lying..lies are lies..and when someone lie..s/he tends to lie some more..
..but how will you soothe her wounded heart but by saying
words she long to hear.?.how will you calm her nerves but by saying
words that can possibly heal?..not much can be accomplished with half truths but..
..will it be better to just leave her out in the cold and let her cry under the rain? Wouldn`t it be better to stay a while..and make it right if you can?

Love like it`s the best there is.. like it`s the last one you`ll have..and make it real..

Carmi0403

8/22/2009 10:26 am

The theory "of" lying and the theory "to" lie should be exonerating. "Why" would be the only question. Some people lie to make themselves look exquisite or altogether "polished" is what i'm trying to say...
Nevertheless, when you sense someone is being insincere, you shouldn't have a reason not to do further analysis therefore true, it could change your mind, be it a good change or a bad change.
For every rhyme there should be a reason. Regardless, it will backfire.

just my two cents.....

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