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Love Fickles: Here Today, Gone Tomorrrow Love Fickles: Here Today, Gone Tomorrow I am so sad these past couple of days. I dunno how to express it, but I just witnessed another " intense and open to public love" that fickled and made a 360 degrees U-turn. I am still in disbelief not because things were not possible, but because things were unexpected and so sudden. At my age right now, I still would love to have stories similar to fairy tales with happy endings, but I guess, times, indeed, have dramatically changed. Even soap operas have different and controversial twists, we cannot anticipate the plot and the climax of the stories because nowadays, they're way different than the familiar and conventional ones. Looking back (not that I wanted to) to last year, 2007.I got "emotionally involved" with someone who "spoiled" me with nightly calls and attention, precious time, and even met with me in person, only after a little over a year of that very "unique closeness" and special friendship, and after I told him that "there is no future" for the two of us, the way things were with us,... things drastically changed. In less than a month, he easily found someone to take my place. I have difficulty understanding how and why is it that some people move on so easily, and waste no time "forgetting" what seemed to be an "endless love" with their previous significant others? (not necessarily referring to my experience) Is it possible for some people to be "deeply in love" for a long time, and then, all of a sudden, once the opportunity (others call it a chance) to be with another person, just like bubbles, that love will burst and fly out of the window instantly? Or is it okay to be in love with several people at the same time? And worse, it's also okay to One and All? I'm not saying that people should not move on/get on with their lives, but....The way I see it, when feelings are so intense and publicly displayed, no matter who moved on first (between the couples involved) I still find it "painful" to the witnesses (if not to the ones concerned) that again, there is another open to public announcement of new loves in the offing, thereby making the previous one a beautiful history to reminisce.Is it really a small world? Too small for once a couple,>> a love triangle>> to be now an even fair and square? Does love have to be a Merry-Go-Round thingie? I know that I am not alone in this mixed feelings of happiness and sadness for all the people involved, and I do hope that this kind of "uncomfortable" atmosphere is going to be just TEMPORARY...All is well that ends well. I wish everyone the BEST! The only thing CONSTANT in this world is CHANGE. And Yes, Love Fickles: Here Today, Gone Tomorrow..(sigh!)   ELZ  |
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it's not love that's fickle... it's "us"...
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1/6/2008 7:39 pm |
it's not love that's fickle... it's "us"...Just call me ELZ 
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1/6/2008 7:40 pm |
HERE TODAY AND GONE TOMORROW I came to you in dark despair I needed someone who would care. You held me close against your heart I felt a warmth right from the start. Then one day He took you away Why did it happen, who can say? Now all that there is left for me Is just a precious memory. That’s life, that’s life You take the joy, you take the sorrow. That’s life, that’s life You’re here today and gone tomorrow. My life has crumbled since you’ve gone But somehow I must carry on. The pain I feel I can’t describe. I can’t forget you, though I’ve tried. Each night I say a little prayer That when He takes me you’ll be there. Together once again we’ll be I’ll live again my memory. That’s life, that’s life You take the joy, you take the sorrow. That’s life, that’s life You’re here today and gone tomorrow. That’s life, that’s life You take the joy, you take the sorrow. That’s life, that’s life You’re here today and gone tomorrow. Just call me ELZ
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Well, yeah, it's true that LOVE should remain as is...It takes a human being to "fickle" and let that LOVE die or wither...But some LOVE just stay very loyal till the end..You think, there are still those kind of love out there?  ELZ
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1/6/2008 10:44 pm |
hi DEE... i think some will definitely say, MEN are from Mars, WOMEN are from Venus.. not that the line makes the MEN bad..maybe it is just how we are made up so differently, emotionally that is. some will say, the easiest way to heal or forget about a lost love is by meeting someone new..some will opt to give the heart some time to rest and heal. for some its a "piece of cake", to others, the pain feels like "heavy as a ton"... however way we try to go about it, one thing that we really need to be sure of is...if we really have put a closure to the past, as we go and try to venture into the present. life goes on Dee....  MARIE
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1/7/2008 1:57 am |
This brought me tears...most especially the beautiful lyrics you posted here... "Here Today And Gone Tomorrow" Gud girls R bad girls who don't get caught... 
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Hello Mimi!..thank you for visiting my blog, dearie. And you do have a wonderful insight you're sharing not only with women here but i'm sure, for men as well..God bless. ELZ
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[bHappy New Year Shine!...I know that you still feel the "hurt" and pain of losing someone very dear to you..To some people, as soon as they meet someone new, past becomes history so quickly...But most women still have that "special concern" for that significant person even if they're already married someone else. I guess, some men feel the same way too... ELZ
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And I know, Shine, you just need a little bit more of a time, and you'll finally meet that someone..Just like me..Let's just pray for that gift sistah..After all, we deserve to be happy, 'coz we've been good naman di ba? ELZ
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hi DEE... i think some will definitely say, MEN are from Mars, WOMEN are from Venus.. not that the line makes the MEN bad..maybe it is just how we are made up so differently, emotionally that is. some will say, the easiest way to heal or forget about a lost love is by meeting someone new..some will opt to give the heart some time to rest and heal. for some its a "piece of cake", to others, the pain feels like "heavy as a ton"... however way we try to go about it, one thing that we really need to be sure of is...if we really have put a closure to the past, as we go and try to venture into the present. life goes on Dee.... ELZ
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hi DEE... i think some will definitely say, MEN are from Mars, WOMEN are from Venus.. not that the line makes the MEN bad..maybe it is just how we are made up so differently, emotionally that is. some will say, the easiest way to heal or forget about a lost love is by meeting someone new..some will opt to give the heart some time to rest and heal. for some its a "piece of cake", to others, the pain feels like "heavy as a ton"... however way we try to go about it, one thing that we really need to be sure of is...if we really have put a closure to the past, as we go and try to venture into the present. life goes on Dee.... ELZ
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This brought me tears...most especially the beautiful lyrics you posted here... "Here Today And Gone Tomorrow" ELZ
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This brought me tears...most especially the beautiful lyrics you posted here... "Here Today And Gone Tomorrow" ELZ
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Well said, CAT...I always admire your strength and fortitude. You have that personality that is so magnetic, and no wonder you are the ROLE MODEL in our group...No man will ever forget you for who you are and for what you still can be. You are one precious jewel that is priceless, and no one can take any sweet memories anyone have shared with you. You will always be UP there, and forever be on the "left side corner" of a man's chest" we refer to us HEART. ELZ
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chinatree <<< "Men only know how men are. They have to be taught how to relate to a woman. Men have different codes, different signals, different attitudes toward love, relationships & commitment, and different meanings attached." And I can easily relate to that CAT, believe you me. Different codes, different signals, so confusing at times, depending on their moods. I should know, I am still experiencing it. But we are both mature to take things with a grain of salt. ELZ
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chinatree<<<Even if they're decent guys and don't want to hurt us on purpose, they won't make us fill out a questionnaire about what we REALLY mean by hanging around with them, or just plainly being friendly or even tolerant of their behavior. They just assume it's MEANINGLESS" And no woman would ever want to hang around with indecent man. I can guarantee you, that it is more painful to deal with any love that "fickled" specially when it is coming from a decent guy.Sometimes, our friendliness and being tolerant of their behaviors make them do things that actually hurt. WHAT ARE THEY THINKING? ELZ
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chinatree<<<If it's meaningless to the woman, and just for fun, then perhaps, she can be counted as one of many women who can see a man that way." Cat, over my dead body will I make an impression to any man nor to anyone that LOVE IS JUST FOR FUN, and I don't want to see my man expecting me to be that way. ELZ
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1/7/2008 5:56 am |
Marian, kapatid namin..Promise mo sa amin, huwag ka nang iiyak dahil lang sa lost love this year, ha? It's okay to cry when you're touched by songs or blogs like this...But, don't let any man make you cry again..Be strong and stay pretty...We will face 2008 with lots of courage and hope...PLs. stay with us and let's cheer for all...We care for you, my dear. ...told yah,you don´t have to worry I will not punish myself any further...remember?Kisses  Gud girls R bad girls who don't get caught...
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chinatree<<<"If spending time with a man, is ALWAYS meaningful, as it is with most women, then we have to make make sure that we have a clear understanding of how far the relationship can go, where to draw a line and if a commitment is ever possible BEFORE going to a deeper level of feeling." And I'm sure, my other sweet friend ImAllHeartNSoul and I  will forever support this idea of yours.COMMITMENT is the magic word...COMmitment for life...I thank you kindly for gracing my blog CAT, and for sharing your meaningful and wonderful insights regarding LOVE that is Here Today, Gone Tomorrow. My appreciation. ELZ
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1/7/2008 7:47 am |
And I know, Shine, you just need a little bit more of a time, and you'll finally meet that someone..Just like me..Let's just pray for that gift sistah..After all, we deserve to be happy, 'coz we've been good naman di ba? I can feel your emotions sis., I was once "in there", I`m just lucky that I found a better guy right now, we`re just taking it slowly but surely. I`m sure the best will still come your way, you`ll ever know what this year will bring you thanks for sharing sis, i love reading your blogs.
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I heard a different way how to deal with it, similar to what Marie said: "para daw etong nag alaga ka ng pet tapos nawala sa iyo, mag alaga ka uli ng another pet, at ung atensyon mo , mabuhos dito at hindi na dun sa dati" I can feel your emotions sis., I was once "in there", I`m just lucky that I found a better guy right now, we`re just taking it slowly but surely. I`m sure the best will still come your way, you`ll ever know what this year will bring you thanks for sharing sis, i love reading your blogs. ELZ
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Nope ate it was definitely your blog and the beautiful song... ...told yah,you don´t have to worry I will not punish myself any further...remember?Kisses ELZ
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And we know now Gem that after what you've been through, your sweetness and patience along with your perseverance...YOU FINALLY FOUND THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE...You deserve to be happy GEM! ELZ
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It only takes one major lie for me to get rid of a man, my dear. And no matter how I still love him, if I find out that he is not loyal/faithful to me, I OPEN and CLOSE the doors of love for him...I make sure, that we have that agreement before we become sweethearts... ELZ
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That is very true Gem...I heard testimonies from people from different places, and orientation...They say the same thing...Do not dwell on our past...Live today, enjoy and be happy, and don't worry about tomorrow... ELZ
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