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Blogs > godiva0824 > The Passionate Blogger


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
1/8/2008 10:40 pm

 ROXYBARBIE

You promised that you loved me,
and promised that you cared,
and just the thought of you with her
drives me mad and close to tears.
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Waaaahhhhh! ROXY!...This really brought me into tears...BAkit naman kasi may patama talaga ito sa amin?...
ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
1/8/2008 10:43 pm

 ROXYBARBIEThe lack of your arms around me
leaves me alone and full of pain.
With out your lips against my skin,
I'll shed tears with out end.
So you had left you promises broken
And my heart shattered forever more
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[color black Hay naku! tigilan ko na nga ito...Baka saan pa mapunta ang sentimiento ko dito ah!..But really, I can relate to this, even though this blog is mainly for my very special friend..Thanks ROXY!
ELZ


Tracie 65F
1841 posts
1/8/2008 11:37 pm
    Quoting eb1209:
    Yes, Cat..Commitment is something most women are looking for, and you count me as one of those..And that is why, if I know that a man is not willing to give me that commitment (not necessarily to marry me), then, I think the relationship has no future...Well, that's just me...I don't play games, and I don't want to be in a limbo either, and that's exactly what happened to me last year...So, I made the first move to put an end to that "special friendship" that I had...At least, we are still civilized with each other these days...It was painful at first, but hey, life goes on...
With my broken heart ... lives a broken dream, AMS tell me how do I live without this dream now? Everything is all so final now ...
If U were mine I'd be yours 4ever!


Tracie 65F
1841 posts
1/8/2008 11:39 pm
    Quoting  :
Shattered, crashed, devastated ... that's me !!!
If U were mine I'd be yours 4ever!


Tracie 65F
1841 posts
1/8/2008 11:40 pm

 Can anybody tell me ... where do I go from here?
If U were mine I'd be yours 4ever!


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
1/9/2008 4:02 am
    Quoting Tracie:
    With my broken heart ... lives a broken dream, AMS tell me how do I live without this dream now? Everything is all so final now ...
Tracie, you know that I feel for you and Gosh, you have no idea how I am so affected by this whole thing...I cannot say that I am totally happy for the "couple" (although, I really wanted to be 100% happy for them, because that's the way it should be), but knowing that "others" are getting hurt or affected, I cannot do so...100%...You be careful with your heart sweetie...I am just an email away...yardley824..dagdagan mo na lang ng eyowel tuldok kohm...I'll be here for you my family, kahit pa magkakulaba ang mga mata ko...Remember that..
ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
1/9/2008 4:04 am
    Quoting Tracie:
    Shattered, crashed, devastated ... that's me !!!
Sweetheart, times like this..Hindi ka nag-iisa..I've been in that situation a couple of times in the past..I made it...You can make it...Just take several deep breaths, and pray...pray...that this thing will be OVER!...
ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
1/9/2008 4:06 am
    Quoting Tracie:
    Can anybody tell me ... where do I go from here?
My dear, it's gonna be so painful at the beginning, but everything will be okay..Trust me...Just feel the pain, right now...That is normal, and slowly...Just MOVE on, slowly...you'll be OKAY..God loves us...He will provide what is best for us...Take care, will you?
ELZ


ImAllHeartNSoul 62F
Ask me for a photo

1/9/2008 12:50 pm

 hello....pls allow me...

i may not be privy to whatever has happened...but as i feel pain and heartache in the air, may i be allowed to share this with all of you...?

"grieve for what u lost, grieve if u must...but only for a while.. dont deny yourself the realization of it. For it will be quicker to forget once your heart learns to cope with it. Pain is truly a hard reality to deal with but our world doesnt really need to stop spinning at the onset of one heartache. Seek refuge from friends, listen to their wisdom or just maybe feel their love...now is the truest time to seek and feel and give and share sincere compassion and understanding..."

" now is the best time to feel the truest essence of a friendship. "
MARIE


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
1/9/2008 5:51 pm
    Quoting  :
Mukhang dinibdib na mabuti ni Tracie ang lahat CAT...I am here for all of you...Nandito rin ang mga kababaihan na very supportive sa atin, even though the real situation is "vague" to them...They know it's all about "losing someone to somebody else."
ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
1/9/2008 5:53 pm
    Quoting  :
Andito lang kami CAT, just let us know how can we help...WE CAN BE YOUR CLOWNS..I am trying to put a smile on "our" faces amidst all these things...It will come to pass...
ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
1/9/2008 5:57 pm
    Quoting  :
Ako naman, in my entire life, 2 times na akong nasabihan ng :"YOU WILL ALWAYS HAVE A VERY SPECIAL PLACE IN MY HEART..." I've been reviewing all the anatomical parts of heart and until now, I cannot figure which "microscopic part of the heart is very special"...I'm sure, you know what I mean...PROMISES?..Wala na sa vocabulario ko yung "USAPANG LALAKI"...Ano yun?
ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
1/9/2008 5:59 pm
    Quoting  :
I know that it is very hard to smile when your heart is aching...Parang may "lockjaw" tayo...Believe me...Ang hirap...But we'll take it one day at a time...TULUNGAN TAYO DITO...Meron pang ibang magbibigay ng moral and emotional support...
ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
1/9/2008 6:02 pm
    Quoting ImAllHeartNSoul:
    hello....pls allow me...

    i may not be privy to whatever has happened...but as i feel pain and heartache in the air, may i be allowed to share this with all of you...?

    "grieve for what u lost, grieve if u must...but only for a while.. dont deny yourself the realization of it. For it will be quicker to forget once your heart learns to cope with it. Pain is truly a hard reality to deal with but our world doesnt really need to stop spinning at the onset of one heartache. Seek refuge from friends, listen to their wisdom or just maybe feel their love...now is the truest time to seek and feel and give and share sincere compassion and understanding..."

    " now is the best time to feel the truest essence of a friendship. "
I think, by now, my very few but closest friends already know me. I am a true friend, and my friends are very carefully chosen, and no matter how busy I am, I'll spare some time for true and good friends that I keep...And I thank God for giving me friends like you all...For good times and bad, you can count on me.
ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
1/9/2008 6:05 pm
    Quoting ImAllHeartNSoul:
    hello....pls allow me...

    i may not be privy to whatever has happened...but as i feel pain and heartache in the air, may i be allowed to share this with all of you...?

    "grieve for what u lost, grieve if u must...but only for a while.. dont deny yourself the realization of it. For it will be quicker to forget once your heart learns to cope with it. Pain is truly a hard reality to deal with but our world doesnt really need to stop spinning at the onset of one heartache. Seek refuge from friends, listen to their wisdom or just maybe feel their love...now is the truest time to seek and feel and give and share sincere compassion and understanding..."

    " now is the best time to feel the truest essence of a friendship. "
And I thank you for empathizing with us too, Marie...Women like you can help anyone who is need of company and empathy...I am so proud of you and the rest who posted here for sharing your inner thoughts...Just knowing that someone cares help ease the burden of heartaches anyone is feeling at this time...God bless..
ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
1/10/2008 3:26 am
    Quoting  :
Hi there Trish!...I know that you are full of love and that you are enjoying your vacation there with SAM!....Hayz!...give our warm hugs to him as well, but keep the most of our love..from FFF to both of you....BEST OF LOVE AND LUCK SWEETIE!
ELZ


jangol 49F
457 posts
1/10/2008 6:10 pm
    Quoting  :
Aren't we all clowns sometimes? We try to smile when we hurt and try to make people happy even when we're not ...
~Life is blooey only if U make it one~


jangol 49F
457 posts
1/10/2008 6:16 pm

 May I quote this AMS?

The healing process.... Oct 23, 2007 11:53 am
Mood: pensive, 546 Views
...can be long and hard,
...it may take sometime.
...but for hearts that are never officially entwined
...it might be a good idea to just drink some
red wine.
...the bittersweet taste may linger a while,
...but hold on dear heart, some memories
may keep you forever an exile.

...is it the heart that really got hurt?
...or is it the ego that was broken apart?

...whatever it takes to heal the aches and mend the wounds,
...just rescue this heart in no time soon.
~Life is blooey only if U make it one~


jangol 49F
457 posts
1/10/2008 6:16 pm

 May I quote this AMS?

The healing process....
Oct 23, 2007 11:53 am
Mood: pensive, 546 Views

...can be long and hard,
...it may take sometime.
...but for hearts that are never officially entwined
...it might be a good idea to just drink some
red wine.
...the bittersweet taste may linger a while,
...but hold on dear heart, some memories
may keep you forever an exile.

...is it the heart that really got hurt?
...or is it the ego that was broken apart?

...whatever it takes to heal the aches and mend the wounds,
...just rescue this heart in no time soon.
~Life is blooey only if U make it one~


alvin84 39M
910 posts
1/10/2008 9:02 pm

 Gosh this is profound, deeper than the deep blue sea, but I'm sure AMS can tackle this and explain it all to us!


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
1/11/2008 3:01 am
    Quoting jangol:
    Aren't we all clowns sometimes? We try to smile when we hurt and try to make people happy even when we're not ...
Janice, I thank you for visiting this particular blog...I actually created it NOT only for myself but for a couple of HVP members who are affected by the latest "changes" now. Good news as it is to most, but it "AFFECTS" a couple of wonderful family members as well...And I am empathizing with them...Yes, sometimes, we are the CLOWNS....We do try to smile,even though we are hurting and even if we are not in the best situation to be CLOWNS to others, our LOVE for them gives us the drive to console them and to make a difference in their lives...In so doing, we heal our own wounds....
ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
1/11/2008 3:04 am
    Quoting jangol:
    May I quote this AMS?

    The healing process.... Oct 23, 2007 11:53 am
    Mood: pensive, 546 Views
    ...can be long and hard,
    ...it may take sometime.
    ...but for hearts that are never officially entwined
    ...it might be a good idea to just drink some
    red wine.
    ...the bittersweet taste may linger a while,
    ...but hold on dear heart, some memories
    may keep you forever an exile.

    ...is it the heart that really got hurt?
    ...or is it the ego that was broken apart?

    ...whatever it takes to heal the aches and mend the wounds,
    ...just rescue this heart in no time soon.
In my case, it was both the heart and the EGO that was hurt, and I think the same is true with "our beloved family members" as well...This makes the pain quite a bit more harder to deal with.
ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
1/11/2008 3:09 am
    Quoting jangol:
    May I quote this AMS?

    The healing process.... Oct 23, 2007 11:53 am
    Mood: pensive, 546 Views
    ...can be long and hard,
    ...it may take sometime.
    ...but for hearts that are never officially entwined
    ...it might be a good idea to just drink some
    red wine.
    ...the bittersweet taste may linger a while,
    ...but hold on dear heart, some memories
    may keep you forever an exile.

    ...is it the heart that really got hurt?
    ...or is it the ego that was broken apart?

    ...whatever it takes to heal the aches and mend the wounds,
    ...just rescue this heart in no time soon.
Once the EGO is treated, the heart follows. I thank God, when year 2007 ended, I had a better perspective of my lost love. I know, that it was not the love that I deserve. Acceptance of reality had been taking place,until this MINI-crisis beset our Group. I'm sure, with your presence and the support of others, we'll get over this one.
ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
1/11/2008 3:18 am

 Any relationship built on physical intimacy alone as a reckoning factor does not last and never passes the test of continuity.Also relationship that come about with foundations of untruthfulness and lies never lasts and in additon to disappointments and frustrations, brings legitimate anger too.

Physical intimacy is very vital in any relationship. However, if a couple do not develop emotional attachment strong enough to support it, then "BONDING" will never take place.Hence, two people easily find themselves "DETACHED".
ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
1/11/2008 3:24 am
    Quoting  :
Jack, thank you so much for your words of wisdom..Most people find it too deep to comprehend, but it covers how a relationship can "thrive" successfully. Truth and Honesty, as well as commitment are very important in any relationship. And sometimes, the truth may hurt. However, eventually, it will set us "free".

Yes, there will be several "wrong people" who'll be a part of our lives, and we sure learn good lessons from them. That's the way we should look at it. And sometimes, we should be "thankful" that they became part of our lives...In the end, it was all for our BEST interest.
ELZ




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