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1/7/2008 12:57 pm |
hi there cat...this is marie... i agree with you a 100% here: " If spending time with a man, is ALWAYS meaningful, as it is with most women, then we have to make sure that we have a clear understanding of how far the relationship can go, where to draw a line and if a commitment is ever possible BEFORE going to a deeper level of feeling." some men ( i said some ) assume we can read their thoughts and actions clearly and that we understand very well where they are coming from... most women, like us, just want to be very sure of the feelings involved if ever a relationship is being offered. Some men offer "special friendships" (read as without strings attached ), some have the option for something more permanent but doesnt really offer it on the onset...and some ( i think this is the kind of MEN most women prefer ) make it clear if they are also in search of serious and permanent relationships..and are willing to go that extra mile to find out if there is that "spark" as we call it. lest i be misunderstood, it doesnt follow that if a man or woman is ready to commit, that the two of them will click right away. There is still the getting-to-know-the-REAL-you part...but at least,you both know that you are on the same page so to speak. very nice thoughts from you, cat... i just added some of my own....  thanksMARIE
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1/7/2008 1:05 pm |
honesty is one of the essential ingredients for a good relationship, you are right about that Gems. MARIE
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1/7/2008 1:23 pm |
Yes, Marie..Life goes on, indeed...Even if we already have a good closure of the past...Revisiting it sometimes, is just spontaneous. For they say, without the past, we wouldn't have the present, and at times, we have to be thankful that the past failed, because it only gave way to a better love and most of all, a better life. a good relationship, no matter what age, color, culture, preferences in life is involved..will have a great beginning and will stand a great chance in succeeding, if the intention is to really get to know someone and sincerely share your heart and soul with him/her...meaning, no games involved, no lies, no pretensions, no role playing...right Dee? MARIE
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Yes, Gem, I have no doubt that you want to enjoy life..You are not Malambing2 for nothing..You are indeed a very sweet person, and you deserve to be happy, and I really wish that this one that you have is for keeps... ELZ 
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hi there cat...this is marie... i agree with you a 100% here: " If spending time with a man, is ALWAYS meaningful, as it is with most women, then we have to make sure that we have a clear understanding of how far the relationship can go, where to draw a line and if a commitment is ever possible BEFORE going to a deeper level of feeling." some men ( i said some ) assume we can read their thoughts and actions clearly and that we understand very well where they are coming from... most women, like us, just want to be very sure of the feelings involved if ever a relationship is being offered. Some men offer "special friendships" (read as without strings attached ), some have the option for something more permanent but doesnt really offer it on the onset...and some ( i think this is the kind of MEN most women prefer ) make it clear if they are also in search of serious and permanent relationships..and are willing to go that extra mile to find out if there is that "spark" as we call it. lest i be misunderstood, it doesnt follow that if a man or woman is ready to commit, that the two of them will click right away. There is still the getting-to-know-the-REAL-you part...but at least,you both know that you are on the same page so to speak. very nice thoughts from you, cat... i just added some of my own.... thanks ELZ
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honesty is one of the essential ingredients for a good relationship, you are right about that Gems. ELZ
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it always is good to look at the good memories of a nice friendship. so that if ever you come across this person at another point in your life, it would be easy to communicate again.. a good relationship, no matter what age, color, culture, preferences in life is involved..will have a great beginning and will stand a great chance in succeeding, if the intention is to really get to know someone and sincerely share your heart and soul with him/her...meaning, no games involved, no lies, no pretensions, no role playing...right Dee? ELZ
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[ti]It is my ardent wish that MEN or WOMEN who are still in communication with their EX's, that they should be very sensitive to their feelings specially if they found someone new...Sometimes, no matter how they've moved on, there are still some feelings left and it does "hurt" to know that they've been replaced. Whether it is the ego that is hurt or the heart, it doesn't matter, it still hurts... ELZ
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And it is because of people like you, too, who always have that special way of making others feel important and loved...Whatever happens, you know that you will be ALWAYS SPECIAL, and ONE OF A KIND...WE KNOW THAT... ELZ
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ROXYBARBIE<<<Roxy, you know the story of my life, as I've spoken to you on the phone about it last year. Even though I have no regrets that I've met that special friend, I also have no regret that it is now over for more than 3 months. I know that we're not meant for each other...Our friendship was one of a kind, but wasn't meant to be more than what it was. Thank you..I know that you only want the best for me, and you'll always wish me well... ELZ
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Yeah, Roxy, I cannot stand people who cannot make up their minds, and who aren't sure of what they feel and have no words of honor...It's better to be alone...I also feel "bad" about men who pretend to be so " loving " and "showy" only to double cross in the end...I'd rather be joyfully single, my dear...And that's the way I am at this point... ELZ
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1/8/2008 3:19 am |
Yes, Cat..Commitment is something most women are looking for, and you count me as one of those..And that is why, if I know that a man is not willing to give me that commitment (not necessarily to marry me), then, I think the relationship has no future...Well, that's just me...I don't play games, and I don't want to be in a limbo either, and that's exactly what happened to me last year...So, I made the first move to put an end to that "special friendship" that I had...At least, we are still civilized with each other these days...It was painful at first, but hey, life goes on... Just call me ELZ 
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I agree with both of you on this...And it really takes two to tango...Hayzzzz! I'm still waiting for my better half... ELZ
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Shine, that is my wish for myself and for my good friends like you...Take care always...Thanks for visiting..Ikaw lang ang dati kong kagrupo other than Joyce and Gemma ang dumadalaw sa akin dito...God bless you. ELZ
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Hindi bale CAT, Labz ka namin ni ROXY, and the entire HVP family...You will always have a very special place in "Santa's" heart.. ELZ
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And I love you too, my sweet friend...Even though we haven't met in person..I sincerely feel your warmth.. ELZ
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And for that reason, too, ROXY, I am still A-okay being single...It's good enough to have loved and lost a couple of times, but it is also better to be lonely than to feel sorry... ELZ
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And that is the very reason, I cannot be in a relationship which is heading only in bed. Intimacy is very important in a romantic relationship, but it is sweeter and more meaningful if LOVE is the foundation of that intimacy... ELZ
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I respect and honor marriage, and it has been my childhood dream to have a lifetime union with someone who shares the same dreams and cruising the same roads that we need to travel in this lifetime, no matter how shaky, rocky, and dusty the roads maybe, when two people who are in love will walk the walks in life, everything will be bearable and tolerable. ELZ
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It's okay to cry..CRY if you must...let the tears flow, until there's no more, until it dries out....It is in crying that we get tired, and it is in being tired that we get to REST...Even loving hearts need to rest...So be it. ELZ
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Please feel free to post here, ROXY...I know, you feel the same way I do...with these things that are going on with our "special friend"....I just can't feel but emote here too...Thank you for giving me that company. I hope others will follow suit. ELZ
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Quoting ROXY ROXYBARBIE<<< A few broken promises, Leaves a broken heart, A few broken promises, Could lead us far apart, A few Broken Promises, I try to keep them all, A few broken promises, Making me slowly fall, ******************************************************** Yes, there are a lot of broken promises...Some say: "FOR AS LONG AS YOU ARE WITH ME, I AM WITH YOU."....that's a lie...We know that it's a lie... ELZ
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Quoting ROXYBARBIE A few broken promises, Now Im hard to trust, A few broken promises, Our love will turn to dust, A few broken promises, Tears going down my face, A few broken promises, I can not erase, ******************************************************************* It takes time to really trust again, we don't want to fall again. Tears of pain will always be there, for as long as the memories linger..... ELZ
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ROXYBARBIE<<<A few broken promises, That hurt you so bad, A few broken promises, Leaving you sad, A few broken promises, Im sorry I made a mistake, A few broken promises, Made my heart break, A few Broken promises, I wont make anymore, A few Broken promises, Almost lead you to the door, **************************************************************** If only promises are not broken, MY and HER hearts would have not been broken...She is a dear friend, her pain is my pain...I hope she'll get over it, and start life all over again... ELZ
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ROXYBARBIEWhen we were together you said that you'd come back to me again. But now that you have another there's no point in me even trying. ******************************************************************** Magkaminsan talaga, mapaglaro ang tadhana. Pagibig na akala natin'y walang kamatayan, sa isang iglap sumasama sa kawalan...At times, I ask myself: "Am I badly to be blamed for all that had happened in my life?" or is it fate and destiny that I cannot really fight? ELZ
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