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Someone Who Cares, >>> Someone Who Dares? ...Isn't it that when a man likes a woman that much, he will do all that he could to be closer to her? ...Even if he is busy, he will make time to call her regularly, or write her emails and leave her YM or text messages? ...If he has the means, he will go and visit her to see her personally? ...And if things get even better, he will make an attempt to win her heart? ...So that in the end, his search is over and he will make that extra step to keep her in his life forever? So, why is it then, that out of a huge number of cyber lovers who actually have the opportunities to do those mentioned above, only several DARED?...Does it mean that they care less?..IF not, then, WHY?   ELZ  |
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11/11/2007 10:00 pm |
Dee...i think it is different to every person...or man in particular. Each man has his own way of showing affection and appreciation to the woman he chooses to love. but the end result should be, he must win her heart. but from what i hear..some men are here for fun...some for relationships but no permanency to offer ( permanency that's spelled M-A-R-R-I-A-G-E ), some- lucky for others- offer life ever after. it may not mean that they care less, but that maybe, the matches never make it to the other levels coz, they are not on the same page about what they really want from this site... we may never know why....we may never find the true answer to that question... it is just a risk all of us here, are willing to take, bracing ourselves for whatever outcome it might bring us.. MARIE
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Dee...i think it is different to every person...or man in particular. Each man has his own way of showing affection and appreciation to the woman he chooses to love. but the end result should be, he must win her heart. but from what i hear..some men are here for fun...some for relationships but no permanency to offer ( permanency that's spelled M-A-R-R-I-A-G-E ), some- lucky for others- offer life ever after. it may not mean that they care less, but that maybe, the matches never make it to the other levels coz, they are not on the same page about what they really want from this site... we may never know why....we may never find the true answer to that question... it is just a risk all of us here, are willing to take, bracing ourselves for whatever outcome it might bring us.. ELZ
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And I still believe that the world (including the world of romance) is still better if it is ran by a MAN...What I mean, is that men should always take that important "initiative" to make things happen, then, women, like us, will take care of the rest... ELZ
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Although, is some cases, it is quite alright for women to make that first move, (due to maybe, circumstances which are a lot favorable and feasible) but if you ask my honest opinion, nothing is sweeter if the men will take that first major step....IF THERE'S A WILL, THERE'S A WAY...no IF's, BUT's etc. ELZ
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11/12/2007 4:57 am |
Dee, You're right again about everything. Don't worry. Marriage isn't what it's crack out to be. Lesson learned for me. But, it does hurt when the one you love doesn't do everything in his power to be with you. The one you gave your heart to. Life is unfair diba. Like at my son's graduation, the ex/mom didn't even greet me. Only his gf, asking where's Glo? I was on my cell calling my daughter. So, that showed i didn't mean a thing to him after 18yrs of marriage in hell.
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11/12/2007 11:17 am |
DEE...i agree with you. my choice to be on my own made me quite a strong willed woman, but i do know my proper place with regards to matters of life and love. Men do make the first moves, women reciprocate... some men say its ok for women to make known their attraction to the opposite sex, but, the end result is....some guys reason out that when the relationship doesnt work....they say " coz it was she who courted me! i never did like her in the first place!" which is truly, truly unfair. Oppsssiie, dont want to get u guys upset about this...this is not generally speaking...im just referring to some... MARIE
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11/12/2007 11:23 am |
...and no matter how fast paced the world is right now...it still would be nice to be courted and swept away by a man. I believe there are still MEN out there who are looking for women to have serious relationships with. Its indicated in the profile anyway, so, that should lead serious men to serious women...and party guys to party women, right? nothing bad about those terms....its just categorizing the preferences of people. MARIE
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Dee, You're right again about everything. Don't worry. Marriage isn't what it's crack out to be. Lesson learned for me. But, it does hurt when the one you love doesn't do everything in his power to be with you. The one you gave your heart to. Life is unfair diba. Like at my son's graduation, the ex/mom didn't even greet me. Only his gf, asking where's Glo? I was on my cell calling my daughter. So, that showed i didn't mean a thing to him after 18yrs of marriage in hell. ELZ
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DEE...i agree with you. my choice to be on my own made me quite a strong willed woman, but i do know my proper place with regards to matters of life and love. Men do make the first moves, women reciprocate... some men say its ok for women to make known their attraction to the opposite sex, but, the end result is....some guys reason out that when the relationship doesnt work....they say " coz it was she who courted me! i never did like her in the first place!" which is truly, truly unfair. Oppsssiie, dont want to get u guys upset about this...this is not generally speaking...im just referring to some...  ELZ
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...and no matter how fast paced the world is right now...it still would be nice to be courted and swept away by a man. I believe there are still MEN out there who are looking for women to have serious relationships with. Its indicated in the profile anyway, so, that should lead serious men to serious women...and party guys to party women, right? nothing bad about those terms....its just categorizing the preferences of people. ELZ
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Oh, Gemma, I don't have any doubts that you will do anything once the guy will sweep you off your feet...You just did?...And it looks like everything is rosey for you and no regrets..So far, so good...God bless your kind heart, my friend... ELZ
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11/13/2007 12:01 am |
And of course, both you and I are aware that for this reason, MEN prefer to use SPECIAL FRIENDSHIP...right?..Somehow, I still believe that there are a lot more of REAL MEN, who will prove to us, that when it comes to courtship, the "ball" is on their court...  MARIE
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11/13/2007 12:04 am |
How nice it would have been if things are ideal...But, it's also true that party guys prefer the qualities of serious women, and try to convert them into party girls....and when the fun and party is over,..babush! and do party men get to be attracted to serious women coz of the saying that opposites attract? MARIE
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BALLS...? what BALLS? lol!!  ELZ
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well, that gets to be frustrating for both parties concerned.... and do party men get to be attracted to serious women coz of the saying that opposites attract?  ELZ
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Oiist, Gemma!...I said, " Somehow, I still believe that there are a lot more of REAL MEN, who will prove to us, that when it comes to courtship, the "ball" is on their court..." ELZ
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11/14/2007 8:28 am |
"♥† sOmEtiMeS nO mAtTeR hOw mUcH yOu LoVe sOmEoNe, tHaT pErSoN cAn'T jUsT LoVe bAcK tHe sAmE wAy aNd bEiNg wiTh ThAt pErSoN, wHo dOeSn'T LoVe yOu bAcK, iS wAy lOnELiEr tHaN bEiNg aLoNe †♥" Be swift 2LOVE make haste 2B kind  DUnLop
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 can move mountains, there ain't no mountain high enough, no river wide enough, no valley low enough ... to keep from getting close to the beloved. Love makes the world go round
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"♥† sOmEtiMeS nO mAtTeR hOw mUcH yOu LoVe sOmEoNe, tHaT pErSoN cAn'T jUsT LoVe bAcK tHe sAmE wAy aNd bEiNg wiTh ThAt pErSoN, wHo dOeSn'T LoVe yOu bAcK, iS wAy lOnELiEr tHaN bEiNg aLoNe †♥"  ELZ
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can move mountains, there ain't no mountain high enough, no river wide enough, no valley low enough ... to keep from getting close to the beloved. ELZ
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11/20/2007 3:54 am |
So, then, that makes the two of us lonelier then, right MOD?... Be swift 2LOVE make haste 2B kind DUnLop
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Heroes are rare ...martyrs are few ... indeed we come from a rare breed of man! ELZ
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Heroes or not...For as long as Someone who Cares, and Someone who dares...Love will grow...Thanks for this post Neal... ELZ
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