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Well, you see CAT...Men nowadays date women with different agenda. Some will do that to get to know women at first and take it from there..Some really want to get to the bottomline right away (is there a spark or none? ), some will test the waters of a woman's limits (might wanna go all the way the first time), and some are just dating us for good company..no more, no less. Now, where do we want to put ourselves here? I'D LIKE TO BE GIVEN THE CHANCE TO PROVE MY WORTH AND VICE-VERSA..I WANT A SOLID RELATIONSHIP TO BE DEVELOPED, (that is, because I agreed to have a date with him, that means, I am still available)  ELZ 
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"Learn to trust your boundaries. Let him know that he'll lose you if he doesn't move the relationship forward." >>chinatree ______________________________________________________________________ Well, I've been through roller coaster rides and bargaining with this scenario, hoping that the meaning of relationship would eventually change. The words "I don't wanna lose you" had been said to me over and over again. I did what I thought was the best thing to do, which is letting him go. I'm glad I did..Because later on, he found someone who'd settle for what he wanted. It made him happier, and it somehow made me luckier..I was spared from the predicament of JUST settling for less. ELZ
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"That means that you TRUST YOURSELF - that you will not hang around with a man who doesn't want what you want - which is commitment - which might be marriage, or walking off into the sunset together." >>>chinatree _____________________________________________________________________ I couldn't agree with you more, CAT. I firmly believe that I deserve someone who will complete me, who will love me unconditionally, and who will appreciate me for who I am, and what I've got to offer him...which is a whole LOT. I guarantee you...whoever that man is, HE IS LUCKY. ELZ
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It is a difficult situation when like turns to love & you're struggling with all the emotions and challenges that come up when you want to move your love life forward, but it just isn't feeling like it's going where you want it to go. It's like wanting HIM, but then he just isn't offering the RELATIONSHIP you want! Above the storm the smallest prayer will still be heard. 
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Feeling good about yourself and the truly fantastic love life you REALLY CAN HAVE is what its all about - focus on feeling hopeful and positive because when you feel good on your INSIDE, a man can feel that on your OUTSIDE. It will create a much stronger "vibe" around you that will make any man almost instantly attracted to you, even if he's been ignoring your signals for commitment. Above the storm the smallest prayer will still be heard.
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Most of all, one must learn to recognize what s/he feels. Once you realize it wasn't HIM/HER you wanted, but that it was just a feeling of being desperate for a great RELATIONSHIP, you'd be able to make a more positive choice & approach. Above the storm the smallest prayer will still be heard.
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"It is a difficult situation when like turns to love & you're struggling with all the emotions and challenges that come up when you want to move your love life forward, but it just isn't feeling like it's going where you want it to go. It's like wanting HIM, but then he just isn't offering the RELATIONSHIP you want!" >> pax506 __________________________________________________________________ That is the dilemma that one has to face. At times, being straightforward works, but most of the time, it intimidates and drives the man away...It is frustrating to know when you think you're almost there, and just one false move, you've lost him! ELZ
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"Feeling good about yourself and the truly fantastic love life you REALLY CAN HAVE is what its all about - focus on feeling hopeful and positive because when you feel good on your INSIDE, a man can feel that on your OUTSIDE.It will create a much stronger "vibe" around you that will make any man almost instantly attracted to you, even if he's been ignoring your signals for commitment." >>paz506 _____________________________________________________________________ Paz, dearest, I do feel good about myself, not settling for anything less than what I deserve, and it shows all over me, inside or outside. Oftentimes, if the man is worth it, he will have something to think about and consider. But it should drive away the dorks...They realize, I'm not into games...They go somewhere else. ELZ
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"Most of all, one must learn to recognize what s/he feels. Once you realize it wasn't HIM/HER you wanted, but that it was just a feeling of being desperate for a great RELATIONSHIP, you'd be able to make a more positive choice & approach." >> pax506 ______________________________________________________________________ Being desperate for a great relationship is not a good move at all. It invites more trouble or mistake. To me, a great relationship is built over time, where feelings are nurtured, where personal differences are studied and accepted, where a balance between attraction, emotion and commitment is considered, not just one, but all of them. I do not believe in all emotions for a relationship to work. ELZ
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Most of all, one must learn to recognize what s/he feels. Once you realize it wasn't HIM/HER you wanted, but that it was just a feeling of being desperate for a great RELATIONSHIP, you'd be able to make a more positive choice & approach. Life is meeting & touching people's lives.
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Hi Paz ... to me it simply means moving from like to admiration. Once you like a person, and get to know each other deeper, then you discover qualities that intensifies this feeling & raises it to admiration. LOVE could be cultivated but then only if both are free to commit. I hope to be admired after being liked too, Lite... Good to see you again and hoping that you and your family are staying warm there in IL... ELZ
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Thanks a lot CAT...second only to you..WE dearly love you in HVP...You are our role model...Our Queen.. ELZ
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Like should turn to LOVE when that person brings out the best in us while at the same time, exerting every means to be the best for us. ~Life is blooey only if U make it one~
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Like should turn to LOVE when that person brings out the best in us while at the same time, exerting every means to be the best for us. ELZ
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 I agree Ate Cat! I do miss AMS dearly ... Cheers!
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Thanks a lot CAT...second only to you..WE dearly love you in HVP...You are our role model...Our Queen..  is a pillar of HVP, what would the group be without her? I don't even like to think about it!Cheers!
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Like should turn to LOVE when that person brings out the best in us while at the same time, exerting every means to be the best for us. Cheers!
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I agree Ate Cat! I do miss AMS dearly ... ELZ
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Ate is a pillar of HVP, what would the group be without her? I don't even like to think about it! ELZ
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May I add, when both enjoy just being together and know for sure that without the other life is bare! ELZ
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Ngeeeekkkk! Cat naman!....I have a hard time finding here in the USA, and now KSA?..Aysus! ELZ
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Owwwwsss!  ..Labo yan Cat!...Like will remain Like...heheheheheh.... ELZ
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ROGER!... ELZ
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In this generation and people's attitude towards relationships, Cat...LDR works only for a short period of time...A strong effort must be done to make that LDR into SDR...Just like the one you have with Mandy. ELZ
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Heto Cat, my life has been full of anticipations, frustrations, lots of >>> asterisk * colon : semi colon ; comma , dotdotdot ... and hopefully, period.  ELZ
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