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godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
11/16/2007 7:02 pm

    Quoting Lacetone:
    Oh my beautiful twin! We do think alike. I feel the same .. it is likely to happen when Fraz starts wandering & exploring younger girls once we reach our forty's. And then again when being FAT FAIR & Forty really sets in!
Hey, hey, hey! Lace, sweetie!..Don't you worry about the days to come...Enjoy your youth right now..Fraz loves you so dearly, and you know that...Midlife crisis is no near to happen as yet...They say, just cross the bridge when you get there...Besides, look at me? I'm not fat in my late forty's?...HVP beauties stay in shape...

ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
11/16/2007 7:04 pm

    Quoting alvin84:
    Aw come on ladies ... as long as the man goes home to you, there's no reason to worry. You are still no.1 in his life.
Yohooooooo! we're hearing this one from Alvin...Way to go kid brother!...Thanks for visiting my blogs...Hello to everyone, dear...

ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
11/17/2007 3:23 am

    Quoting  :

MANY MORE MIDLIFE CRISIS TO COME YOUR WAY, BUT I AM SURE, MY DEAR, WITH YOUR GREAT AND UNCONDITIONAL LOVE FOR EACH OTHER, YOU'LL SURVIVE ALL OF IT..

ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
11/17/2007 8:40 pm

    Quoting  :

Your relationship is a MATCH MADE IN HEAVEN, CAT!

ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
11/18/2007 3:56 am

    Quoting  :

Hey! sweetheart!..Good to see you here..What a pleasant surprise..And I am happy..`Theart, you mean, you are experiencing MIDLIFE CRISIS already? ...Pero, `theart naman...You're always nangangahoy naman eh..Each time I speak with you, you are with a date....

Hope to see you more often in my blogs sweetie...Thanks.

ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
11/18/2007 5:06 pm

    Quoting  :

Sweet Cat, it is true that when things are meant to happen, they will happen...Rememember my equation?

25% my own efforts
25% fate and destiny
25% other factors
25% luck
-------------------
=100%

You know that I love you all at HVP..You mean so much to me..

ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
11/18/2007 5:11 pm

    Quoting  :

But of course, you are absolutely right my dear Kent..When it's all work and no play, there is a misbalance in our lives and there goes the crisis...It could start early 30's actually...Specially with the pressure of having achieved something meaningful in our lives or in the case of women, the pressure of keeping up with the younger ones in terms of beauty and all......

You are welcome my dear...You will see me visiting from time to time, just to let you know that even if I "retired" from my other FFF activities with the original handle...I am always thinking of HVP...

ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
11/19/2007 2:29 am

    Quoting  :

Sweet ROXY, don't be afraid of what is yet to come...but be glad that you have the strength of a matrimonial union that has been tested by time..Your love for each other (your hubby and you) will help carry you through...God bless both of you and your entire family..I LOVE YOU DEARLY..Talk to you later...

ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
11/19/2007 2:31 am

    Quoting  :

Midlife crisis?...Not everyone is struck by it, but more than likely, one of the partners if not both..So, like you said..Let's cross the bridge when we get there..Take care,sweetie!

ELZ


essenceofprlove3 64F

11/19/2007 4:00 am

Good morning Dee,

I think i'm in denial of this crisis too. Come to think of it. Why am I waking up so early in the morning just thinking about life??? The many defeats, accomplishments, and heartaches in life. Could it be midlife crisis? Hmmm. I hope so, and not some crazy thing. LOL. Take for instance turning gray, and sagging every part of the body (tummy). I don't want to go in the route of hair color coz going bald was my sis excuse. And the classes for excercise. The lady who sat by me in the bus was so fit and trim you wouldn't believe her age. Very classy. But, it's all about strict discipline in life all balance in every thing. Her mother(deceased) of 92 taught her that. As I was comptemplating. Learning something new every day.

Oh, well midlife or not. Have to shake it off.
God Bless Dee and take care. Have a wonderful week ahead. Wishing YOU a marvelouse Happy Thanksgiving!!!!


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
11/19/2007 6:48 pm

    Quoting essenceofprlove3:
    Good morning Dee,

    I think i'm in denial of this crisis too. Come to think of it. Why am I waking up so early in the morning just thinking about life??? The many defeats, accomplishments, and heartaches in life. Could it be midlife crisis? Hmmm. I hope so, and not some crazy thing. LOL. Take for instance turning gray, and sagging every part of the body (tummy). I don't want to go in the route of hair color coz going bald was my sis excuse. And the classes for excercise. The lady who sat by me in the bus was so fit and trim you wouldn't believe her age. Very classy. But, it's all about strict discipline in life all balance in every thing. Her mother(deceased) of 92 taught her that. As I was comptemplating. Learning something new every day.

    Oh, well midlife or not. Have to shake it off.
    God Bless Dee and take care. Have a wonderful week ahead. Wishing YOU a marvelouse Happy Thanksgiving!!!!
Tess!..Yipeeeeee! ..you finally have a face...Yehey!...Thanks for this...Oh don't worry about midlife crisis my dear...For as long as we cope well with it...You'll be fine..Gray hairs, feeling flabby and all...that can be fixed...It's just your desire to look good despite your age..I always want to look good..Exercise? I may be not too regular, but I dance...even if it's only in my bedroom or living room...I "wiggle" my body...and it works...HAPPY THANKSGIVING DAY as well...Talk to you later, okay?

God bless,

ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
11/21/2007 6:27 pm

    Quoting  :

Wowoweee! I understand what you mean now, CAT >>chinatree...This was not intentionally done to be up there...If anything, HVP members contributed most of the posts here...I am thankful that I am given this attention but being on top is just a chance...THANK YOU for frequently visiting my blogs..Hugs and kisses to all..

ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
11/22/2007 3:11 am

    Quoting  :

Thanks for the loyalty, Blessie...I have chosen the group with a huge heart...I LOVE YOU ALL!..HVP will always be in my heart...It is my other "Home"..

ELZ


rainman68

11/22/2007 11:23 am

    Quoting godiva0824:
    Thanks for the loyalty, Blessie...I have chosen the group with a huge heart...I LOVE YOU ALL!..HVP will always be in my heart...It is my other "Home"..
Home is where the heart is. So glad you're at home with the Happy Valley People. Thanks for the love ... we love you too Elsa!


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
11/22/2007 6:49 pm

    Quoting rainman68:
    Home is where the heart is. So glad you're at home with the Happy Valley People. Thanks for the love ... we love you too Elsa!
Hello there Mari!..Gosh! I am so happy to see more HVP family members visiting my blogs..You do make me feel SPECIAL...I'm sure, you are not experiencing any midlife crisis, right Mari?..Take care, okay? Labz you!

ELZ


dunlop3764

11/24/2007 6:11 am

    Quoting godiva0824:
    Hello there Mari!..Gosh! I am so happy to see more HVP family members visiting my blogs..You do make me feel SPECIAL...I'm sure, you are not experiencing any midlife crisis, right Mari?..Take care, okay? Labz you!
It only proves that we are one great big happy family ...

Be swift 2LOVE make haste 2B kind
DUnLop


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
11/24/2007 7:50 pm

    Quoting dunlop3764:
    It only proves that we are one great big happy family ...
And only because you are one KING who takes good care of your kingdom, MOD..With due respect, you get the credit for that..Thank you!

ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
11/24/2007 7:57 pm

    Quoting  :

Hmmmm...Beer belly ha?...I think, that's too much love and tender loving care from Geri......She knows exactly how to win her man (through his belly)....Midlife crisis is not here to stay, dearest...Good to hear that all is well and swell between you and Geri..I'm so happy for you and I thank you kindly for being so sweet and being here for me...I feel special...

ELZ


cruzeli 51F
268 posts
11/25/2007 5:58 pm

Midlife crisis can easily be detected in a woman when her mental age becomes 20 years younger than her chronological age. In our folks terms "nagmumurang kamatis"


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
11/25/2007 7:24 pm

    Quoting cruzeli:
    Midlife crisis can easily be detected in a woman when her mental age becomes 20 years younger than her chronological age. In our folks terms "nagmumurang kamatis"
And the male version is "nagmumurang kamyas"...

ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
11/25/2007 7:25 pm

    Quoting  :

ngeeeekkkkkk! Jesy, ikaw ha?

ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
11/26/2007 5:18 pm

    Quoting  :

Jovi, my dear...You're quite far from having a MIDLIFE crisis my dear...You're in your early 30's.. , but hey! you never know..Never say NEVER!....Why don't you work here in the USA? you're also a Nurse, right?

Thanks for visiting and posting in my blogs..specially your contributions on my blog entitled: WHEN SHOULD LIKE BECOMES LOVE?

ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
11/26/2007 5:20 pm

Thanks Lily >> cruzeli <<< for visiting and posting here...

ELZ


pax506 67F
958 posts
11/27/2007 10:31 am

The best way to avert this crisis is to keep busy with worthwhile projects; find something useful to do ... something that would help enrich other people's lives.

Above the storm the smallest prayer will still be heard.


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
11/27/2007 12:58 pm

    Quoting pax506:
    The best way to avert this crisis is to keep busy with worthwhile projects; find something useful to do ... something that would help enrich other people's lives.
Hello there Paz!..thanks for visiting and posting...Yes, there are so many ways to avert MIDLIFE CRISIS...But first, one must not be in denial..It happens, maybe not to everyone, but it does happen...Take care!

ELZ