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Is it really love or just ego tripping? At times, I wonder, why most men (not all) are here, "searching" for the BEST, and when they find one, they'll look for another, then, another, until the collection is finally made and when it is time for them to choose the "right one", they wouldn't let the rest go...Meaning, it's okay for men to play that kind of game, but definitely NOT okay for their "rejected" collections to get on with their lives. It's like saying, the women have no right to find their own happiness..And that they must wait for these men to come back to them once they get tired of the ones they chose...Amazing how double standard works in this crazy world..For sure, I don't believe that a man is capable of loving more than "two" women (not at the same intensity) at the same time. I'd say, it is just one of those ego-tripping...A male friend of mine, told me that he is into this woman right now, because she makes him feel "wanted"...And I just raised my brows, and said: " You mean to say, the rest did not make you feel wanted or important at all? " I am beginning to think that when a man becomes self-centered, he has a selective appreciation, selective emotion, and selective memory...hehehehe...    ELZ  |
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10/29/2007 8:50 pm |
Right on sister!!!! 100% agree with you. You know my story. I was so hurt. Going across state to meet my love. Arrive there and heard his had this other gf before me. And then profess his in love with the 25yr and wants to get his toes curled there in December. I was crushed to pieces!!!! Sis, not only ego trip but midlife crisis. It's a way for them to ease the pain of getting old. They want a younger chick as a trophy to make them feel better. Pero, can she take it for real her unconditional love knowing his had so many women. And behind her back can start all over again or have them string alongs still stringing. hahahahah. It's really funny. I will love to no ends. But enough is enough.
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10/30/2007 12:37 am |
maybe a case of wanting to have his cake but eat it as well...? Men like that are quite immature for they do not know what they want in life DEE... so, good riddance na lang sa mga ganyan...  MARIE
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Right on sister!!!! 100% agree with you. You know my story. I was so hurt. Going across state to meet my love. Arrive there and heard his had this other gf before me. And then profess his in love with the 25yr and wants to get his toes curled there in December. I was crushed to pieces!!!! Sis, not only ego trip but midlife crisis. It's a way for them to ease the pain of getting old. They want a younger chick as a trophy to make them feel better. Pero, can she take it for real her unconditional love knowing his had so many women. And behind her back can start all over again or have them string alongs still stringing. hahahahah. It's really funny. I will love to no ends. But enough is enough. ELZ
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Hi there Dolly!..Wala lang..whatever comes to mind and I feel I can share with you and the rest of Blog-landia...Thanks as usual for appreciating the little and simple things like this one... Have a great blog day! ELZ
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maybe a case of wanting to have his cake but eat it as well...? Men like that are quite immature for they do not know what they want in life DEE... so, good riddance na lang sa mga ganyan...  ELZ
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10/30/2007 11:53 am |
Hay Marie, sinabi mo pa...You know what? para din nawalan ng laruan ang mga kelots na ganyan di ba?...And good/quality toys are NOT subject for RECALL....  just trying to be funny abt a situation thats real as real can get, right DEE? MARIE
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Hello Jack!...I hope you don't mind me addressing you with that name. You are really very poetic and eloquent in your opinion....Hehehhee...I had to read your post a couple of times, so that I won't miss any of the important words/messages you are trying to convey....I hope the men who read this will benefit from your points of view...And I wish I were a man... ELZ
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well for sure... di tayo pipili ng someone made of lead, na mapopoison lang ang ating whole being... just trying to be funny abt a situation thats real as real can get, right DEE? ELZ
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For as long as I have wonderful people with whom I can exchange wonderful blogs with like you...I will continue to be inspired.. Thanks Dolly! ELZ
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10/31/2007 2:13 pm |
Marie, my dear...I'm envious of you..Looks like your world is getting rosier each day...I'm so happy to see you happy my dear...I love you girl! wishing for u the same things my dear...love u too!  MARIE
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Marie, you and I have a lot of approaches in life...We find what works well for us and for that reason, we become so flexible...the problem at times, is that the other gender often has a problem catching up... I have no doubts in my mind that you are having happy moments at this time..ALOHA! ELZ
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