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Blogs > godiva0824 > The Passionate Blogger


godiva0824 63F
2894 posts
7/27/2015 11:41 am
CLOSURE

Sometimes you need to meet the person who've hurt you after so many years of no communication, with his/her new or chosen love and their together. See for yourself how happy they are and be happy for them. Only then, you will have a closure, finally accepting that you were not meant to be and that there's no way the two of you will get back to each other. Don't be bitter. Time to fully surrender and give up. It should kill whatever remaining feelings you've held on for that person. Do not dwell on past memories no matter how beautiful they were.Do yourself a favor. Live the remaining days of your life. The reason why you failed to open new doors is NOT because no one was knocking. You locked yourself and hid the key to a new and promising life. It is time to free yourself. Make new memories.

ELZ


oldkanaba 73M
2458 posts
7/28/2015 1:00 am
If this is not moving on, what is?Way to go Elz.
I'm a senior citizen . Don't expect me to remember anything


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
7/28/2015 4:39 am
    Quoting oldkanaba:

    If this is not moving on, what is?Way to go Elz.
Ka Bert , most of the time kasi , people who fell deeply are the ones who have difficulty moving on. The closure was either absent or was halfway
ELZ


elizabethvivian2 49F

7/28/2015 4:59 am

 here comes the sun.. doobidoodoo!


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
7/28/2015 7:39 am

 Indeed, there's sunshine after the rain. Thanks for dropping by
ELZ


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
7/28/2015 11:09 pm

 Elz,

Finally, got in! Anyways, I found closure when they got married. No use in day dreaming if they did come back. It wouldn't be the same ever. Like once the glass is shattered into a million pieces will never be the same...
Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


eb1209

7/29/2015 8:55 am
    Quoting  :
Bestie, sometimes, it takes a very long time. We think we've moved on, and believe it's been like that until there is finally a closure.
Just call me ELZ


eb1209

7/29/2015 8:58 am
    Quoting TessRb:
    Elz,

    Finally, got in! Anyways, I found closure when they got married. No use in day dreaming if they did come back. It wouldn't be the same ever. Like once the glass is shattered into a million pieces will never be the same...
Tess, I k now, there were fake relationships (to some) that others got entangled into, and actually, there were several promising ones, but, when there is no complete closure to the once thought to be sweet and unique, there will be no NEXT..
Just call me ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
7/29/2015 3:19 pm
    Quoting  :
I do not k now what happened to my post, Bestie...But, sometimes, people are stuck with the good memories that they tend to forget the hurt..
ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
7/29/2015 3:25 pm
    Quoting TessRb:
    Elz,

    Finally, got in! Anyways, I found closure when they got married. No use in day dreaming if they did come back. It wouldn't be the same ever. Like once the glass is shattered into a million pieces will never be the same...
Tess, you are absolutely right...Once the relationship is badly broken, it will never return to the same original state
ELZ




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