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godiva0824 63F
2894 posts
7/9/2013 8:37 pm
REPORT CARD: First Grading Period :(



Well, well..(sigh!) Tsk!tsk!tsk!..As you noticed, it's over a week since my last blog..Actually, things aren't looking great with the number 1 prospect. First of all, he may have some hidden agenda (not that I'm really considering myself a good catch...but we cannot discount that). One of our casual conversations happened to be about marriage and partnership, and I kinda hinted that, after all these years, I had a change of heart regarding marrying "again"...I don't want to sound suspicious, but he just started "recovering" from a major financial downfall. I don't have much to begin with, but I kinda feel that "if ever", he finds comfort thinking that I can be a good cushion in case future partnership is in the can. The last good exchange was last July 4th, where I greeted him (texting)...He was out with his 2 girls (one 15 years old, and the other 9). It took him 6 long hours to text back...Hmmm! Minus Pogi points again...You don't do that to Elz ...(nyahahahahaha! )..It kinda hit me. There you go again! I have no problem being with someone who has from a previous relationship, but my valid concern is that, would he be able to divide his time and attention amongst us? Let it be known to all men out there and here, that Elz requires a certain percentage of attention all to herself ( I'm not being selfish here, but that's just the way it is). And quite honestly, I really do not want to stand in the way of and their father. I think I prefer someone whose are grown up, enough to take care of themselves. Or shall I say: "I prefer men who are emotionally and psychologically prepared to be in a relationship again."...So, there you go! I'll keep you posted with the other report card

ELZ


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
7/9/2013 10:14 pm

Elz,

Six hours is nothing. Try weeks at a time months. Kaya, i'm so lost now. Thinking did he die already. Because i do not want to be the first to text back. So, it just tells me he loves the girl so much...

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
7/10/2013 12:13 am

And there goes FFF again! keeps removing my attached image

ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
7/10/2013 12:17 am

    Quoting TessRb:
    Elz,

    Six hours is nothing. Try weeks at a time months. Kaya, i'm so lost now. Thinking did he die already. Because i do not want to be the first to text back. So, it just tells me he loves the girl so much...
Oh no! Tess!...I don't appreciate that kind of crap...unless, he has a very valid reason..I mean, responding too late...I can understand if he is working, but on holidays?...Nahhhhh! Maybe, I'm really different, and that is why, courtship is the time to really get to know the guy..and as soon as it's "crystal clear" that he is not the right person, get a trash bag!

ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
7/10/2013 12:23 am

Oh well, 'it's pending again...Maybe, it will take another 24 hours for this blog to come out...

ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
7/10/2013 5:36 am

Never mind the attached image...I guess, it's a hopeless case

ELZ


oldkanaba 73M
2458 posts
7/10/2013 8:40 am



So what else is new?


I'm a senior citizen . Don't expect me to remember anything


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
7/10/2013 11:16 am

Does it sound like same ole`-same ole`? or is it expected of men?

ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
7/10/2013 3:00 pm

    Quoting  :

KOREK KA JAN...Hmmm But we also want someone who has a stable job right? Huwag naman aasa sa atin, di ba? It's a turn off, indeed.. thanks for the visit!

ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
7/10/2013 3:03 pm

Well, my understanding is, if a man won't be able to make me happy with the simplest things a woman needs, then, he won't make it big time as well...Hayz! AYaw ko din ng "frugal" as in kuripot.. Huwag naman waldas, but not to the point na ayaw dumukot sa bulsa...Naaaaaahhhhhh!

ELZ


oldkanaba 73M
2458 posts
7/10/2013 3:37 pm

    Quoting godiva0824:
    Does it sound like same ole`-same ole`? or is it expected of men?

I expect it of you, Elz. You're very discriminating, you have so many rules and a standard that a man, albeit even a good one, will even attempt to try to meet. Just relax, let your guard down a bit and see what bites. I'mm rooting for you Elz, not for the man


I'm a senior citizen . Don't expect me to remember anything


oldkanaba 73M
2458 posts
7/10/2013 3:47 pm

    Quoting godiva0824:
    Well, my understanding is, if a man won't be able to make me happy with the simplest things a woman needs, then, he won't make it big time as well...Hayz! AYaw ko din ng "frugal" as in kuripot.. Huwag naman waldas, but not to the point na ayaw dumukot sa bulsa...Naaaaaahhhhhh!

Elz, I found this funny and it made me think hehehe. Did I spend anything in Vegas that you ladies didn't pay back. I think I got more from you ladies than what I spent


I'm a senior citizen . Don't expect me to remember anything


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
7/10/2013 4:37 pm

    Quoting oldkanaba:

    I expect it of you, Elz. You're very discriminating, you have so many rules and a standard that a man, albeit even a good one, will even attempt to try to meet. Just relax, let your guard down a bit and see what bites. I'mm rooting for you Elz, not for the man

Bert, let me tell you this..Each and every one of us live by our standards, leave alone the universal standards, by which we follow and be comfortable with everyday of our lives. I will not argue with you regarding my set of rules, because anything not in conformity with it will make me very uncomfortable and unhappy. So, why be in that kind of relationship if it will make me miserable? I do admire people who can live with anything and anyone, irregardless..But then, again, that's how they LIVE their lives..I don't...I will DIE...

ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
7/10/2013 4:42 pm

At this point in my life...I am able to distinguish what I WANT, WHAT I NEED, WHAT I LIKE, WHAT I LOVE, and WHAT I CAN LIVE "WITHOUT"...I don't have to tell you time and again, that if given a chance that I'll be in a relationship, again...it's a BONUS.....Not that I had a totally traumatic relationships. Believe me, it's the opposite, and which is why since then, I've always struggled to start anew, not because I have not moved on, but it's a matter of not settling for something just because it is there or it had to be a part of my life...

ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
7/10/2013 4:47 pm

    Quoting oldkanaba:

    Elz, I found this funny and it made me think hehehe. Did I spend anything in Vegas that you ladies didn't pay back. I think I got more from you ladies than what I spent

Bert, for the record, you've been a very generous host, and God bless you for that..We ALL feel guilty of taking your precious time from you as well as you, spending your savings on us...Nevertheless, it's the personal "attention" and sincere hospitality that we consider PRICELESS...Teng is also lucky to have you as you are lucky to have her...Okay, kelan ang kasalan? Lilipad ulit kami ng Vegas!

ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
7/10/2013 4:53 pm

Maybe, I'd say, the two very active FFF members who know me personally here are Jane (fantasiamore) and Jeff (zzzeromaxxx)..THey both know the story of my life, and who I am as I bared my soul (soul only ha? ) to the both of them. To those of you who've known me only for a couple of years here in FFF, you have not seen the best and the worst of me. I may look very strong, modern in many aspects, but believe me, the thought of being in a relationship makes me "quiver and shake"....that bad!

ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
7/10/2013 9:27 pm

    Quoting  :

And believe me, Jane...I am not the type of a person who would not share (at times) the expenses while dating (that is, given the fact that he is already my BF for say, more than a year or so)...But being milked like a cow? Hmmm? Hahahahaha! I can be a "hot Momma", but NOT a "sugar momma"

ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
7/10/2013 9:29 pm

    Quoting  :

Thank you, Jane...I know I can offer a WHOLE LOT...but the person must deserve me and I should deserve him as well..

ELZ


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
7/11/2013 7:04 am

    Quoting godiva0824:
    Oh no! Tess!...I don't appreciate that kind of crap...unless, he has a very valid reason..I mean, responding too late...I can understand if he is working, but on holidays?...Nahhhhh! Maybe, I'm really different, and that is why, courtship is the time to really get to know the guy..and as soon as it's "crystal clear" that he is not the right person, get a trash bag!
Elz,

That's one of the reason i admire you so much. Using your brain more than your heart. Being real. You accept no bs from anyone. May respeto ka sa sarili mo. And that's how it should always be. I see real life couple will tell it like it is no cover ups or anything. When their pissed they let them have it.

Happy thursday

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
7/11/2013 7:07 am

Elz,

I'm rooting for both of you. Kasi when your happy we are all happy. Gosh, i'm expecting the last report card already. Too anxious. But. as they say patience is a virtue...

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
7/11/2013 10:01 am

    Quoting  :

Tinks, I do remember around the first month of this year ( I hope it was not last year..hahahhaha! ) when I told you that somethings gotta happen this year and that I will show my report card before the end of the year...So, let's just keep our fingers crossed...

ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
7/11/2013 10:07 am

    Quoting TessRb:
    Elz,

    That's one of the reason i admire you so much. Using your brain more than your heart. Being real. You accept no bs from anyone. May respeto ka sa sarili mo. And that's how it should always be. I see real life couple will tell it like it is no cover ups or anything. When their pissed they let them have it.

    Happy thursday
You can do it too, Tess!...It's just that you don't love yourself very much ...It's never too late..Go, JUST DO IT!

ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
7/11/2013 10:09 am

    Quoting TessRb:
    Elz,

    I'm rooting for both of you. Kasi when your happy we are all happy. Gosh, i'm expecting the last report card already. Too anxious. But. as they say patience is a virtue...
Well, I have not "trashed" him yet..., so, let's see the second grading period....Kasi minsan, the guys act in accordance to the type of people they meet...Parang "kasi OKAY lang eh"...Maybe, he has not met anyone of my kind in his entire life

ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
7/12/2013 7:53 pm

    Quoting  :

MIGGGGGZZZZZZZZZZZ!!!!!!!...I missed you!

ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
7/12/2013 7:55 pm

    Quoting  :

MIGZ, hindi uso sa akin ang lukso ng dugo...Aguuyyyyyyy! ...Meron, "crush" at first sight, pero, most of the time, naka dark-glasses ako...pigtapos, habang tumatagal, lumilinaw ang paningin ko...nyahahahahahahahaha!

ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
7/13/2013 3:36 am

Very nice new picture Migz..

ELZ