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godiva0824 63F
2894 posts
5/26/2013 5:30 pm
S*X: Is it a carnal need, an expression, or to some, an obligation?



I think, we are all mature and responsible enough to tackle this sensitive discussion. I am sure many of us can relate to it based on our past, and present experiences. We do all agree that the main purpose of having sekswal intercourse is for procreation. That is a given. Speaking of romance, it is also an expression of love and passion. Although, it is a common knowledge that MEN and WOMEN perceive sekz in many ways, but in opposite directions. To some men, it is a "must have", while to some women, it can be an "obligation" after a very tiring day in the office or just being home with and endless house chores...When is it too much? and when is it too little? Who tolerates more without it, and who doesn't care if it's the real thing or not? Hahahahahaha! oh well, I guess, I may be perceived as being off-beat, but, it is, what it is...

ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
5/26/2013 7:16 pm

    Quoting  :

First of all, thanks for the input with your usual eloquence, Jane...Do you think being an Asian or being a Filipina at that, makes it all the more different to women than the western counterparts?

ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
5/26/2013 7:18 pm

I am talking about, how most of us, Filipinas were brought up and how our parents made such a big deal even about discussing swekz openly, and therefore, it somehow affected our personal views about it?

ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
5/26/2013 7:24 pm

    Quoting  :

Thanks also for being straightforward about it, Tinkz...Being an MD, yourself, and with your personal experience, I am sure, you have a better understanding of what works and what not when it comes to intimacy...Of course, hormones also has something to do with how much indulgence one can have with swekz...And adding to that, age has something to contribute as well...It's like the battery...one can just keep on going--going--and gone!

ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
5/26/2013 7:32 pm

I am waiting for Joolz, and I really miss Smilerz ( I know she'd contribute a lot )

ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
5/26/2013 7:57 pm

    Quoting  :

Tinkz, leave alone the topic about swekz, we were brought up in a way that we couldn't butt-in in any adult conversation....hahahhahahaha! but seriously speaking, there will always be malice in our kids' minds if we, parents, ourselves, are not comfortable discussing it...

ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
5/26/2013 8:00 pm

It's the same thing about musterb*tion...I mean, while it is thought of as something "abnormal" by the less-informed, it is actually healthy..

ELZ


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
5/26/2013 8:40 pm

Elz,

My favorite subject in school. LOL Anyways, true we are brought out to never discuss "sex" with our parents. It's like learn it on your own kinda stuff. But, pregnancy woah! Like all my classmates were having it in high school. Poor me was so naive. Then got married to a sex machine 24/7 non-stop. It got to be a chore!!! Looking hagard by the minute. Then partners after the big D. Unbelievable!!! Then the final straw ED, hahahahhaa

Happy Memorial Day

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


oldkanaba 73M
2458 posts
5/26/2013 11:07 pm


I'll let you ladies discuss this topic. I was about to give my take on it but you won't like it so I'll just shut up But I'll be following this discussion because I'm interested in it. :
D

I'm a senior citizen . Don't expect me to remember anything


enrique2012 48M

5/27/2013 12:56 am

See Elz, I was going to say something as well, but as they say discretion is the better part of valor...so I will follow his lead and simply observe and see what the women say.

As well, semi-retired ba si EB? Gulat ako to see this handle blogging, although it appears this handle was your blog handle anyway

My will is unbreakable. Simply put, I cannot be broken - Enrique


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
5/27/2013 3:23 am

    Quoting TessRb:
    Elz,

    My favorite subject in school. LOL Anyways, true we are brought out to never discuss "sex" with our parents. It's like learn it on your own kinda stuff. But, pregnancy woah! Like all my classmates were having it in high school. Poor me was so naive. Then got married to a sex machine 24/7 non-stop. It got to be a chore!!! Looking hagard by the minute. Then partners after the big D. Unbelievable!!! Then the final straw ED, hahahahhaa

    Happy Memorial Day
Hahahahahaha! You're so funny Tess! sex machine? Deng! I would have not survived to tell the story!

ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
5/27/2013 3:24 am

If you noticed, I tried to alter the spelling of the subject becuz sometimes, FFF scrutinizes so much, they cannot tell which topic is really relevant and what is obscene..

ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
5/27/2013 3:31 am

    Quoting  :

Yes, the church (which should not meddle with the state affairs, anyways) wants to have a say on that RH bill, whatsoever...They should educate their own priests not to molest young kids and or discreetly impregnate their innocent victims...You know what? I strongly believe that priests should get married....Gone are the days when one should be okay with how many kids as much as one mom can have because it is a sin to have controlled parenthood...To me, for as long as one does not do abortion, it is fine to limit the number of kids...But that's another issue..Sex Education is important, and that is my opinion...

ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
5/27/2013 3:34 am

    Quoting  :

Maybe we should also include educational "visual aids" to our children, that way, they wouldn't feel ignorant about the topic when their sexual hormones will soar high one day...

ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
5/27/2013 3:34 am

    Quoting  :

Isn't it a good way to release stress?

ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
5/27/2013 3:37 am

    Quoting oldkanaba:

    I'll let you ladies discuss this topic. I was about to give my take on it but you won't like it so I'll just shut up But I'll be following this discussion because I'm interested in it.

Bert, what are you talking about? I mean, what do you NOT want to talk about? We need men's input as well, specially Sex being thought of as an OBLIGATION by many wives...You know, when it's night time or even day time (for heaven's sake! ) when the hubby wants it en seguida, wife cannot refuse, otherwise, he will raise hell!

ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
5/27/2013 3:39 am

    Quoting enrique2012:
    See Elz, I was going to say something as well, but as they say discretion is the better part of valor...so I will follow his lead and simply observe and see what the women say.

    As well, semi-retired ba si EB? Gulat ako to see this handle blogging, although it appears this handle was your blog handle anyway
Oh Hey! ENRIQUE! ..oh hayan! me matching hugs and welcome back kiss pa iyan ha? Nukaba? minsan ka lang sisipot dito sa bloglandia, ang tipid pa ng comment mo...SIGE NA! Just spit it out, whatever is on your mind...We could learn from you more, you know...

ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
5/27/2013 3:40 am

    Quoting  :

You see> I'm not the only one...nyahahahahahah!

ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
5/27/2013 3:41 am

    Quoting  :

Guys, please bring it on!

ELZ


enrique2012 48M

5/27/2013 4:49 am

    Quoting godiva0824:
    Oh Hey! ENRIQUE! ..oh hayan! me matching hugs and welcome back kiss pa iyan ha? Nukaba? minsan ka lang sisipot dito sa bloglandia, ang tipid pa ng comment mo...SIGE NA! Just spit it out, whatever is on your mind...We could learn from you more, you know...
Oh? Kala ko ba masyado mahaba comments ko, ngayon maiksi naman? O siya siya, comment ako in a bit. After mag comment si Ka Bert, that is. Age before beauty, after all *cough*

My will is unbreakable. Simply put, I cannot be broken - Enrique


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
5/27/2013 9:14 am

    Quoting  :

Shaquie? is this really YOU? What happened to your other handle.?

ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
5/27/2013 9:15 am

    Quoting  :

I think, other men will disagree...Some of them would claim that standing tall and firm pa rin si "Manoy"...nyahahahahhaah!

ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
5/27/2013 9:16 am

What happened to Jane's profile? Her post here was also deleted..

ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
5/27/2013 9:17 am

    Quoting enrique2012:
    Oh? Kala ko ba masyado mahaba comments ko, ngayon maiksi naman? O siya siya, comment ako in a bit. After mag comment si Ka Bert, that is. Age before beauty, after all *cough*
Hahahahahaha! You are so funny, Enrique! Okies, aantabayanan ko comments mo...

ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
5/27/2013 9:18 am

OMG! Jane, fantasiamore's account was "DELETED"..por que? what did she do?

ELZ


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
5/27/2013 9:19 am

Hay naku, kaya nag-iingat ako sa mga pinopost kong pictures and spelling ng topic, coz anytime, machu CHUGI tayo ng FFF...lolz..

ELZ