fantasiamore

8/12/2008 5:54 pm

bellezia

8/12/2008 7:34 pm

autumnbreeze1

Ask me for a photo

8/12/2008 7:47 pm

Teach53

8/12/2008 11:53 pm

Quoting fantasiamore:

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there is nothing like confirming what you show, by telling you love the person...sometimes we do things that may not be perceived or conceived right by others...better to be lucid than to be misinterpreted...so saying i love you would definitely be attesting and meaning what you are showing...hello brad!

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well well well look who's here, long time no see, its great to see you again ......yeah I agree with you 100%, a person might think they're showing their loved on that they love them, but are they sending the right signal or message to that person or persons?, meaning, are they feeling the love that the other person is sending?, maybe yes maybe no ......I've always believed that the two go hand and hand, thats why it surprised me that most people here don't say I love you to even their husbands and wives, its like a big fat no no.......anyway, I'll stick to saying I love you to the people I love especially my family .......thanks for dropping by Jane and I hope all is well ......Brad

Teach53

8/12/2008 11:56 pm

Quoting bellezia:

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hello brad, mind not working properly while reading this.. hehhee let me check what i write their

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hello there belle thats ok belle, my mind wasn't really working to well when I made this blog ......take care and come back soon ........Brad

Teach53

8/13/2008 12:10 am

Quoting autumnbreeze1:

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I agree with you to a certain extent. Action does speak louder than words...and I do agree that you should also say that you love them, even if it's just now or then. I guess this would depend on how a person was raised. In some families, public show of affection and saying 'I love you' might not be the norm in one's household, and how they were raised by their parents. On the other hand, if your parents constantly showed affection to you, and said 'I love you'...then you would be more apt to say 'I love you' to your loved one as you get old. I hope I made some sense. God Bless!

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yeah you are right, it does depend on how a person is raised and to take it a step further, their culture plays a big part in this as well......I talked to some of my students here about this and guess what, the girls said that they would want their bf's or husbands to say I love you to them, on the other hand, all the boys I talked to said ohhhhhhh no, we show them that we love them we don't have to say it too.......I'm not saying that the girls or women here think the same way, no not at all, I know someone here that thinks its not necessary to tell someone you love them, in fact, she's never told her bf that she loves him and visa versa too......I just can't imagine not telling your wife or husband that you love them, can't imagine that at all.......thanks for dropping by my friend and yes you made a lot of sense in what you said ......Brad

afinity7961

8/18/2008 6:58 pm

Teach53

8/19/2008 5:03 pm

Quoting afinity7961:

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Hi Brad...so you're still in China...well, i have to agree with you if you love the person you don't have to show it specially as women (pinays) we love and lke to always hear from our partner the he loves and say it in many words...it's like letting us know that we're special ...like for us to feel secure. I myself would like to hear from my significant other the words I love you always...i am a hopeless romantic. Take care and God bless Brad...hugs!

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well hi there its been a long time......yup still here, but not for long heading back home in December .......well I've always said that the two go hand and hand, you need to do both....like you said, it makes them feel secure and it goes without saying, if you really do love someone, you'll tell them all the time like I do hehehe yeah I guess I'm a hopeless romantic too my dear ......take care my dear and thank you so much for dropping by, its great to see you again .......Brad big huggs back to ya