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5/17/2008 5:37 pm
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Have you ever met a guy who seemed to be "Mr. Right", but after getting to know him better you could tell that he just didn't feel that same level of "connection" you felt? If you have, how did you deal with it?
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1180 posts 5/17/2008 8:09 pm |
I stopped fantasizing that he could be Mr. Right.
 
Follow your dreams... and hit the mark.
  
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1172 posts 5/17/2008 8:48 pm |
stop the illusion and wake up to the reality. move on and the search continues...
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1894 posts 5/17/2008 11:10 pm |
it aint easy when disappointments are there...but you can't fake and dream away for real now...hello brad, how have you been?
    
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622 posts 5/18/2008 2:54 am |
Quoting odette317: I stopped fantasizing that he could be Mr. Right.
 
yeah I guess thats about all a person can really do........disappointing yes it would be but what can you except to keep on hoping the right one will come along .......thanks for dropping by odette, its always good to read what you've got to say ........Brad 
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74 posts 5/18/2008 2:56 am |
i have meet my mr right guy before.. but i was wrong coz the truth is there is no mr guy... you have to accept his down fall and also the good things about him.. that would make him your mr right guy 
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622 posts 5/18/2008 3:00 am |
Quoting jense26: stop the illusion and wake up to the reality. move on and the search continues...
hi there jense thanks for dropping by ........how difficult was it for you to deal with this situation and how did you deal with it?........take care jense and keep on smiling .......Brad 
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622 posts 5/18/2008 3:08 am |
Quoting fantasiamore: it aint easy when disappointments are there...but you can't fake and dream away for real now...hello brad, how have you been?
well hi there sis long time no talk and hey is it great to see you here, I'm doing good, still here in China ........yeah your sure right there, disappointments are never easy......yeah you can hope and dream forever, but if its not meant to be, theres nothing you can do about it .......I was just thinking, I should have made this blog for the men too anyway jane, you take care and keep that beautiful smile on your face .........Brad 
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1172 posts 5/18/2008 3:26 am |
Quoting Teach53: hi there jense thanks for dropping by ........how difficult was it for you to deal with this situation and how did you deal with it?........take care jense and keep on smiling .......Brad 
Hello Brad,
Somehow, the difficult part here is that, expectations failed. I deal with this by not expecting much. Just let things happened as times goes on. Allow time to unfold some mysteries. Should I say that I got higher tolerance to this situation because if by chance the man does fit to my mr. right category, I just laugh at my foolishness and shrug my shoulders, keep my chin up and remind myself that I am always beautiful (hahahaha).  
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622 posts 5/18/2008 6:06 am |
Quoting jense26: Hello Brad,
Somehow, the difficult part here is that, expectations failed. I deal with this by not expecting much. Just let things happened as times goes on. Allow time to unfold some mysteries. Should I say that I got higher tolerance to this situation because if by chance the man does fit to my mr. right category, I just laugh at my foolishness and shrug my shoulders, keep my chin up and remind myself that I am always beautiful (hahahaha).  
welcome back my dear and thanks for the quick response.......thats a great way to be, if you don't expect too much, then you won't be so disappointed if things don't work out and if it does work out, well thats kind of a bonus and I guess you could almost call it a surprise gift that you didn't expect to receive in the first place........hmmmmmmmm have you ever thought about being a love doctor? hehehee........and oh yes, hold your chin way up cause you are beautiful ......take care jense and remember to keep that chin wayyyyyyyyyy up  ........Brad 
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1172 posts 5/19/2008 4:43 am |
Quoting Teach53: welcome back my dear and thanks for the quick response.......thats a great way to be, if you don't expect too much, then you won't be so disappointed if things don't work out and if it does work out, well thats kind of a bonus and I guess you could almost call it a surprise gift that you didn't expect to receive in the first place........hmmmmmmmm have you ever thought about being a love doctor? hehehee........and oh yes, hold your chin way up cause you are beautiful ......take care jense and remember to keep that chin wayyyyyyyyyy up  ........Brad 
Brad,
I don't wanna be a love doctor, I just want to be another teacher around...
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622 posts 5/19/2008 5:12 am |
Quoting jense26: Brad,
I don't wanna be a love doctor, I just want to be another teacher around...
ohhhhhhhhh, a teacher of what jense?.......maybe a teacher of loveeeeeeee  
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669 posts 5/19/2008 7:42 pm |
yes, but for me, i just let the time just with it,,, or even let our happy moment goes... to love is to be hurt i think, they are both go together... so if time comes that he leaves me, just go on.. its not easy but its the best way... smile brad...
be nice, and friendly... be REAL!!!
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622 posts 5/19/2008 9:46 pm |
Quoting shygirl20000: yes, but for me, i just let the time just with it,,, or even let our happy moment goes... to love is to be hurt i think, they are both go together... so if time comes that he leaves me, just go on.. its not easy but its the best way... smile brad...
hello shy yeah your right, its never easy, not just for a woman, but for a man too.......yeah sometimes it does turn out that when you love someone very much, a person ends up getting hurt in the end for whatever reason and all you can do is to move on and maybe learn something........take care shy and keep that smile on your face cause somebody's watching you .......Brad 
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118 posts 5/19/2008 10:05 pm |
... knowing what true attachment is one could easily feel there is something so much lucking ... same as dreams are different from reality
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669 posts 5/20/2008 4:09 am |
yes... and if you do moving on... becareful next.... you too take care and always wear smile like me..
be nice, and friendly... be REAL!!!
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622 posts 5/20/2008 6:12 am |
Quoting shygirl20000: yes... and if you do moving on... becareful next.... you too take care and always wear smile like me..
ohhhhhh I will shy, you can count on it hehehe......always be safe and always be happy my dear .......Brad 
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1172 posts 5/20/2008 6:35 am |
Quoting Teach53: ohhhhhhhhh, a teacher of what jense?.......maybe a teacher of loveeeeeeee  
Brad,
will you be my first student? hahahahahahahhahhahahaha
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622 posts 5/20/2008 1:35 pm |
Quoting jense26: Brad,
will you be my first student? hahahahahahahhahhahahaha
 ohhhhhhhh jense you naughty naughty girl hahahaha
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622 posts 5/20/2008 1:48 pm |
Quoting princessPAB: i have meet my mr right guy before.. but i was wrong coz the truth is there is no mr guy... you have to accept his down fall and also the good things about him.. that would make him your mr right guy 
hi there princess hmmmmmmm why is your post just showing up now?, you posted this 3 days ago and its just showing now, anyway, thanks for posting........yeah I agree with you princess, theres good things in a person, but there are also things that you may not agree with or might bother you.......but most of the time even the things that you may not like, can be worked out if you really love that person.......take care princess and thanks for dropping by ......Brad 
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622 posts 5/20/2008 1:56 pm |
Quoting diviness: ... knowing what true attachment is one could easily feel there is something so much lucking ... same as dreams are different from reality
hmmmmmm very good point diviness......yeah dreams are different from reality, but sometimes dreams do come true and I think that if you dream about something or someone, maybe we should think about that dream because it just might come true.....thanks for dropping by and always take care ......Brad 
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1172 posts 5/20/2008 3:54 pm |
Quoting Teach53:
 ohhhhhhhh jense you naughty naughty girl hahahaha
oh common!!! how can you tag a teacher as naughty if she chooses her student? hahahahahahhahaha
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622 posts 5/21/2008 1:59 pm |
Quoting jense26: oh common!!! how can you tag a teacher as naughty if she chooses her student? hahahahahahhahaha
  hey, even teachers can be naughty jense, remember, I'm a teacher too .......but now that I think about it, being a naughty teacher can sometimes be good for their students .........take care my dear and please try to smile today .......Brad 
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18 posts 5/26/2008 5:37 am |
haven't met someone like that daddy brad... but in case i'd be involved with a guy who i think is "mr. right" but after some time i do not anymore feel the same connection as we had before,then i would let him go... yes it would hurt both of us but its better to deal with it right away than pretending to be ok... then pray that the real "mr. right" will come along in no time
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622 posts 5/26/2008 2:50 pm |
Quoting exotso8: haven't met someone like that daddy brad... but in case i'd be involved with a guy who i think is "mr. right" but after some time i do not anymore feel the same connection as we had before,then i would let him go... yes it would hurt both of us but its better to deal with it right away than pretending to be ok... then pray that the real "mr. right" will come along in no time
thats good to hear Jane, yeah its difficult to tell someone that you don't have those same feelings especially if you've been with them for a while, but its something you need to do instead of making them think that you feel the same as they do.......leading a person on is a big no no in my books and is very inconsiderate, anyway Jane, yes praying does go a long ways, your proof of that my dear ......always take care and keep on smiling Jane .......Brad 
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18 posts 5/27/2008 2:03 am |
Quoting Teach53: thats good to hear Jane, yeah its difficult to tell someone that you don't have those same feelings especially if you've been with them for a while, but its something you need to do instead of making them think that you feel the same as they do.......leading a person on is a big no no in my books and is very inconsiderate, anyway Jane, yes praying does go a long ways, your proof of that my dear ......always take care and keep on smiling Jane .......Brad 
you know what daddy,my new coteachers are constantly asking me why im still single,especially when they learned that im turning 30 this year... all of them where like "what in the world??" or "are you kidding me?" or "you?single??huh?!!"... they just can't believe it... i just tell them i haven't found "mr.right" where is he anyway?? hmmmmm..........
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622 posts 5/27/2008 4:11 am |
Quoting exotso8: you know what daddy,my new coteachers are constantly asking me why im still single,especially when they learned that im turning 30 this year... all of them where like "what in the world??" or "are you kidding me?" or "you?single??huh?!!"... they just can't believe it... i just tell them i haven't found "mr.right" where is he anyway?? hmmmmm..........
well Jane, you are a good person and your co-teachers probably see that, thats probably why they react the way they do........as far as your Mr Right goes, maybe Maria will bring him back for ya from Singapore heheheh
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66 posts 6/8/2008 8:23 am |
Mr. Right? HOw can I tell if he is the right one? "the MR. RIGHT."? As long as he loves me and I love him, then he is the "MR. RGHT."
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622 posts 6/8/2008 6:18 pm |
Quoting lyncy: Mr. Right? HOw can I tell if he is the right one? "the MR. RIGHT."? As long as he loves me and I love him, then he is the "MR. RGHT."
I agree with you Lyn but there is also something else that is very important in a relationship and that being open and honest with each other, no secrets........take care my dear and God Bless  
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66 posts 6/9/2008 9:23 am |
Quoting Teach53: I agree with you Lyn but there is also something else that is very important in a relationship and that being open and honest with each other, no secrets........take care my dear and God Bless  
you are right DAD, be honest to each other, trust each other, and have faith in our heart just believe and ofcourse loving each other will be awesome!! accepting someone's past, threats and everything else will be great!!! that would be perfect sharing dreams together be open to each other. that's really wonderful . be real.. Take care and God bless too DAD
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622 posts 6/10/2008 5:07 pm |
Quoting lyncy: you are right DAD, be honest to each other, trust each other, and have faith in our heart just believe and ofcourse loving each other will be awesome!! accepting someone's past, threats and everything else will be great!!! that would be perfect sharing dreams together be open to each other. that's really wonderful . be real.. Take care and God bless too DAD
yes my dear, when two people are in a relationship together, all of what you just said is very important especially loving each other unconditionally and showing your partner how much you do love him or her and of course spending time with the one you love, even if its through emails and messages .......take care Lyn and God Bless you always  
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8/2/2008 6:49 am |
dad, i think you already know my answer to this thought i met my mr right but he turned out to be mr wrong.
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8/2/2008 6:51 am |
.... and mr right ain't on the left... and if he was really mr right, he'd wished he never left and come back....  
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622 posts 8/5/2008 3:44 pm |
Quoting thisbody1112: dad, i think you already know my answer to this thought i met my mr right but he turned out to be mr wrong.
yeah sometimes we think that we've met the right person Maria, only to find out that he/she is ohhhhhh so wrong for you .......all we can ever hope for is that one day the right one will come along and make us happy ......hang in there Maria, they say theres someone out there for everybody, hopefully they're right 
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622 posts 8/5/2008 3:53 pm |
Quoting thisbody1112: .... and mr right ain't on the left... and if he was really mr right, he'd wished he never left and come back....  
all I can say to that Maria, is its his loss not yours .......he left someone that he should have kept, because he'll never find anybody like you ever again .......btw, your old dad loves you  
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