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I BORE HIM IN MY HEART NOT IN MY WOMB You are single and you have a ? A single mom huh!! Yes, I am. I am a mom to a five-year-old boy. I never deny it. Legally, I am the mother of this smart five-year-old boy. I survived the pains and joys of a first time mom when he was still a baby wrapped in a piece of cloth. A 6-pound infant who battled with the blows of keeping his breath in order to enjoy his right to live. I endured the countless sleepless nights of taking care of him because he would never stop crying for whatever reason that I did not understand at all. I got the greatest joy when he had taken his first step and when he first uttered the word "mommy". He is the center of my attention and the reason why I can still smile even in the worst moments of my life. He came from the womb of my youngest sister who brought him to this world when she was still 16.I took the responsibility of having him as my own so that my sister can continue with her studies. I am his mom and my sister is his "tita". He is registered under my name. He is aware that his "tita" is his real mother but he is not used to be with his biological parents (my sis and his father is now married and with a 1 year old ). Whenever he will be asked by people about his mom, he would gladly answer them with my name. LIke the mocking smiles and stares that I sometimes got for being a single mom my baby has been experiencing some comments from other and adults. But who cares... He is my . I bore him not in my womb but in my heart..that is why, he will always be my ... 
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8/31/2008 6:35 pm |
i always have the greatest joy of my life everytime my baby kisses and hugs me. love is the most precious thing i could offer to my son too. i am also grateful that you are my friend...it is despite my first impression of you as---snob--- hehehehehe peace friend  I am also grateful that we`re friends..you take care Sweet Jense..and btw can you tell me the proper way of cooking "bulalo"? Love like it`s the best there is.. like it`s the last one you`ll have..and make it real..
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I can almost feel the joy that you have ..I have a kid myself and I know the feeling..of bringing up a child..I remember when I first saw him..so little..so delicate ..then seeing him grow..through the years..it kind of give me a sense of purpose..a reason to work harder for I want to be able to give him everything..a child is so precious..I can`t imagine a house not having one.. learning the circumstances about your dear child.. kind of make you a bonafide good person..and I`m honored to have a friend like you..I salute you sweet Jense.. love is the most precious thing i could offer to my son too. i am also grateful that you are my friend...it is despite my first impression of you as---snob--- hehehehehe peace friend
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8/18/2008 6:11 pm |
I can almost feel the joy that you have ..I have a kid myself and I know the feeling..of bringing up a child..I remember when I first saw him..so little..so delicate ..then seeing him grow..through the years..it kind of give me a sense of purpose..a reason to work harder for I want to be able to give him everything..a child is so precious..I can`t imagine a house not having one.. learning the circumstances about your dear child.. kind of make you a bonafide good person..and I`m honored to have a friend like you..I salute you sweet Jense.. Love like it`s the best there is.. like it`s the last one you`ll have..and make it real..
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Malu, I am trying to. My sister was very young when she had my baby and she was so confused. My mom can not have him to be registered under her name because she was already on her early 50's. I accepted the responsibility so that my boy will also get the benefits as my beneficiary in all my legal papers..  Things went on and on and now I am blessed that I have him with me.. Thank you sis.
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Jen, always remember that your blood runs in his veins too..You are biologically related, and I commend you for being a SINGLE MOM TO YOUR NEPHEW...I'm so proud of you too!  That is our gurl power...  Thank you too.
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8/8/2008 8:24 pm |
Jen, always remember that your blood runs in his veins too..You are biologically related, and I commend you for being a SINGLE MOM TO YOUR NEPHEW...I'm so proud of you too! Just call me ELZ 
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ahhh now it's clear. Saluting you mamma Jense. Crystal clear...hehehehehee Thank you dear.
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8/8/2008 1:20 pm |
ahhh now it's clear. Saluting you mamma Jense.    within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.
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