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bilsolom 74M
15 posts
1/16/2007 5:59 am

Last Read:
3/7/2007 2:27 am

Why can"t I find my special someone.


With age comes wisdom, hopefully. In my 56 yrs on earth, I've learned some of the reasons people end up alone or worse have to live with a broken heart.
So many people put looks at or near the top of their list but I have learned that is a big mistake. First off, looks don't last. People get old and their looks fade. I have learned that a plain looking partner can become beautiful the first time they make you laugh or stand by you in time of need. I have also learned that a beautiful or handsome partner can become very ugly the first time they make you cry or betray your trust.
Life teaches you that honesty, loyalty, kindness, sense of humor, and shared ideals will deepen the fire of your love so much more than looks, sexiness, or money ever will. I have more thoughts on this subject but will save them for another posting.

Intruder2urheart

1/16/2007 3:46 pm

I agree...


zhenny63 61F

1/16/2007 10:30 pm

I agree to that broken hearted is the worse one.


SpanishFilipina 67F
88 posts
1/19/2007 1:31 am

So very well-thought of, so eloquently delivered - I couldn't have said it better myself!

Yes, pretty is as pretty does!


jana480 66F
53 posts
1/20/2007 11:40 am

As the saying goes, "first impression lasts" but the thing is how will you be able to deal with when the the true color reveals? There are great pretenders so beware!!!! but I believe a genuine heart never fades and never can be faked. Beauty comes from within, if you have all the good traits all the physical outlook follows as it comes out naturally. Good Luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!


rose_of_thorn21 40F

1/27/2007 11:03 pm

Manytimes i been there with broken heart sometimes i cannot take it all for hurt i felt.so manytimes i fell why i cannot find a good one that woulkd love me foreever.until now i am still hoping to find the guy who love me forever...... life still going on...