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TheEnigma 63M
25 posts
2/25/2007 2:29 am

Last Read:
5/4/2007 2:54 pm

"Age Does


Funny isn't it.
The people that say age doesn't matter, are normally either the ones that have accrued plenty of it, or have barely begun to rack any up.
A young pinay girl in chat trying to insist that at 22 she is compatible with a man over 50. Or the semi retired american stating that its only a number.
The theory that age is irrelevant of course, is fair enough. Two humans, basic animals, normal bodily functions etc. But unfortunately age is directly linked to experience. Without age it is VERY unlikely that someone will have "seen" much that life dishes out.
Yes, she can perform the household work, raise I guess. Be the "little" wife. IF you want a house keeper and virtual slave, then fine.
If you want an actual partner, an equal, someone to share life with, then...well... you will need to be able to communicate. Wont you?

With a massive age difference its not going to happen is it? She wont have experienced 90% of what you have in life. From relationships right through to music and sporting events!
How can she have a valued opinion on anything?
No disrespect, but she hasn't found the questions yet, let alone the answers!

No, I'm sorry. Age DOES matter. It isn't just a number, its a tattoo of life's crap. Your "tattoos" must at least be from the same generation.
That doesn't mean I can state what is an acceptable age difference of course. Were talking maturity and experience, not world standards to work from. But it seems to me that 15 years is around the maximum gap?

No?

kikidee 63F
59 posts
4/22/2007 6:45 pm

Maturity and experience can only be acquired as one advance in years ...so i agree that AGE matters...in fact, a LOT!


The_Rave 113M

4/9/2007 8:05 am

15 years yeah is the limit but me my self wud say that 10 is the tops coz then u r just abt from the same generation coz if the age gap is too great wot ya guna talk abt


luvcutepinay4u 60F
125 posts
2/27/2007 1:59 pm

Loveis blind = asides from the looks, gestures it comprise the age.... Truly in love is such a baffling undefined feeling you can't dictate to whom you must be love.
If ever happen this to you. Spank stupid cupid it's all his fault lol


chaseme7 44F

2/26/2007 7:19 am

hmmmmm... im still looking for a 50-year old husband , or maybe 60. i only have the 37 now, so cant really make a comment. ill get back to u soon...

pops


smiley1957 66F

2/25/2007 9:01 am

I agree...AGE DOES MATTER!
must realized and decide what u really need here...a maid or a wife??? poor 22 year old claiming he loves the man..but only looking for a father figure...one who will feed her and her family...while the old man...look at it as way to make her..yeah, a slave (with respect to may-dec love affair that works )
men!! spare the young ones!!! we are here for yah!!! we can be a lover and a friend...we can talk anything under the sun...and on top of the bed!!! and the bathroom too!!!
nice blog phil...one eye opener again...



Mirriam 45F

2/25/2007 5:12 am

hello there, Enigma,,,,nice post, maybe in other side yes age doesnt matter,,,but for it does i'm sorry but I can't imagine myself having a husband or bf that age like my dad,,ohhh gosh no,,never having a nice blogging to you